I have always encouraged my partner to be open and honest with me, as I am with her. I would love to know the intimate details of her past, and I will share mine if I can tell that she wants to know. I’ve been with plenty of partners that did not want to know anything and didn’t share any of their past - and those closed off relationships were short lived. I don’t understand someone being jealous of someone else that they never knew or was before my time with them.

Since being a young boy I’ve always been intrigued with labia so I always spend a lot of time down there. I like to explore different speed and pressure to see what she likes, then concentrate on eating her the way she prefers. I’ve had many women that I’ve eaten their pussy but never had full sex with. I strive to get her off before it’s my turn

My list centers on assisting my wife in highly erotic and possibly scenarios.

1. Another MFM with a BBC

2. Our age is getting up there so finding her a very young man to join us in MFM

3. Arranging several guys to line up and let my wife blow each of them, one after the other.

4. Having a guy give my wife a full body massage. During the massage she sucks him off. (We’ve done it twice and for something without penetration this is one of our biggest turn ons to remember)

5. The rest are and you should reach out to hear those.

I made the suggestion three different times, over the years, to my SO while she was very excited during sex. In all three cases her immediate response was positive. She admitted that she wanted to go through with each of them. However, when we initiated the first one she was all-in for the first couple hours, totally wet, totally ready, then got cold feet when it came time for her to be penetrated by the other guy. She did do plenty with him though. The second and third cases she talked about it during our private times to keep our minds hot, but when it came time to make the arrangements to go through with our plan she flipped and went from all-in to not interested. What I learned is that I need to take her responses with a grain of salt if her initial positive reaction was during her erotic excited times because her unexcited mind will stop it from happening. If you keep your SO in “the mood” you have a better chance for success.