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How I wish they were enlightened. A percentage of men with larger penises are under a cave man idea that a good pounding is all we need. I mean, we need that, but we enjoy other things too.

I too, enjoy interacting with a larger penis. It can be fun and challenging to navigate...

As for embarrassment about admitting to enjoying a larger size, I think that most women are afraid to hurt feelings of smaller sized men, so they down play how much they enjoy it. Additionally, she wants to maintain tact with a larger sized man, and also down plays that as well.

I can't keep up with appearances and am honest about my preferences. No one is perfect and we just embrace what we have and hope others will too.

Always interesting to hear women's opinions. I get what you mean about the cave man thing, guessing most guys start of thinking that way. Still has it's place though LOL
You sound like an enlightened woman which is always nice smile
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Jon29
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Sounds like you took her feedback on board. Smart man. I also agree with your theory. I've also found that men with larger penises are typically not as good at oral sex. Smaller sized men just seem to try harder for obvious reasons.

Although, an enlightened, larger man is oh so great to find...

Just curious aren't most larger guys enlightened? I'm guessing most would have had the same experience as me - being told size at some point that size is good but isn't everything. Or maybe even a bad thing if it's not used "carefully"
One of the good things about having a bigger penis is women tend to talk more about what they like/want because there's no risk of upsetting the guy. It's easy for a woman to say I love your big penis but even better if you could do [whatever]. Maybe harder for a woman to say could you get better at oral to make up for having a small penis. A woman might have to be careful how she phrases that smile
The other thing I've found about size is women tend to like seeing/touching and just thinking about a big penis. Mental thing as well the physical feeling.
Funny thing though is that some women seem to be a bit embarrassed to admitting liking size. Never understood that one :)
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Jon29
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I have had more orgasms with smaller men and wonder if this was due to their often present zealous and steadfast approach to pleasing me first.

Probably. I have a big penis. In younger days the reaction from girls when they first saw it was enough to make me think the size was enough and sex was bound to be good for her. So I didn't feel the need to make effort. Guessing that a smaller guy would make more effort to compensate?
Fortunately I dated a girl who explained that actually the way I was using size made it a bad thing. Hard to hear at the time but very grateful later.
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