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Does size matter... is bigger better.. if so... wider or longer?
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Size Matters....
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It could be a cultural thing. I am not all that well endowed but a girl in Singapore once told me I was too big which was a surprising statement to me but does offer another view on this subject where the emphasis is usually being positive about largeness but - can you be too big? 
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Size really doesn't matter it is the main that knows how to please a chick that really matters. My ex is large about 8 1/2 and about 2 inches in width. He could be a bit painful for me by hitting into my cervix or ramming it in my arse when I didn't want him to.
My current lover is around 7 - 8 inches a bit thinner and it shits me off when he says he is tiny. It's like dude you are average and it feels great.
Size really doesn't matter it is the main that knows how to please a chick that really matters. My ex is large about 8 1/2 and about 2 inches in width. He could be a bit painful for me by hitting into my cervix or ramming it in my arse when I didn't want him to.
My current lover is around 7 - 8 inches a bit thinner and it shits me off when he says he is tiny. It's like dude you are average and it feels great.
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Does size matter... is bigger better.. if so... wider or longer?
No way Jose. If you can satisfy me then your dick can be 4 inches and I'd be a happy camper
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Not really. If you know how to satisfy with what you got, perfect. I do highly enjoy wider cocks though ;).
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Does size matter... is bigger better.. if so... wider or longer?
It does to me. Apologies to all the guys out there who aren't endowed. I'm shallow and self centered. I've never been with a small guy. I've been with average and up. Average was ok I guess. Gspot orgasms were hit or miss during sex. Bigger is better. Gspot orgasms are guaranteed.
Others don't care and that's great. If my husband was small I probably wouldn't know what I was missing.
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Not in the least, guys on the small side have taken me places if did not know existed. At the sametime I have been so disappointed with some guys that were quite large. As far as I am concerned it comes down to skill and desire to please your partner.
Now if you are really large and really skilled and really want to please your partner please be sure and call.
Now if you are really large and really skilled and really want to please your partner please be sure and call.
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Size isn't a factor at all for me, if the guy knows how to use it and has the confidence to go with it then i'm perfectly fine.
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It does to me. Apologies to all the guys out there who aren't endowed. I'm shallow and self centered. I've never been with a small guy. I've been with average and up. Average was ok I guess. Gspot orgasms were hit or miss during sex. Bigger is better. Gspot orgasms are guaranteed.
Others don't care and that's great. If my husband was small I probably wouldn't know what I was missing.
Exactly. Were I to hazard a guess, most of these women who are "having trouble orgasming from intercourse" are simply dealing with relatively small penises and have no idea what they're missing.
Prolific Writer
I agree with the majority size does not matter as long as you have stamina and know what to do.
I once was with somebody with a 9 inch one and I felt like he was tearing me up. He was huge. And for giving head I could only do so much. So bigger isn't always better. I mean it sometimes hurts when they are too big.
Give me one 6-8 inches and that to me is perfect...
I once was with somebody with a 9 inch one and I felt like he was tearing me up. He was huge. And for giving head I could only do so much. So bigger isn't always better. I mean it sometimes hurts when they are too big.
Give me one 6-8 inches and that to me is perfect...
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Of course size matters, if there were two guys identical in every way except one had a 6" cock and the other had an 8" cock 95% of women would choose the guy with the 8" cock.
But then again she might not like either of them, would rather go without and wait until there's better options available. Or is that what the missing 5% represent?
Raised on Blackroot
Quote by Dancing_Doll
Size doesn't matter as long as you're at least 6 inches.
So/So.
I've honestly been with some REALLY tiny girls. Well, between 5' and 5'5. Just 6 inches was a lot for them. Sometimes even less than that was a lot.
I really think it is all dependent upon how the girl's body has been built. The last girl I was with, I really had to slow-burn her (extended foreplay) to get her loosened up. Ultra tight. Had to progress from one finger, to two, then eventual penetration after I got her really wet.
I really do think the average (5.5 inches) in the US at least, is about the going rate for required length. Other more is pretty much gravy, unless again, you get the really tiny girls.
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Size only matters to me if you are too small (less than 5") or too big (9" or more). Anywhere in between is great!!
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Its certainly not the gun that matters it is the man behind the gun
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Bottom line, he has to know what to do with it. Thick is soo good but not too thick, same goes for length; that's why I don't understand the stupid ads aimed at guys to increase their cock size to a fucking foot and insanely thick. Unless the women is super loose, it's gonna fucking hurt her, not please her. The vagina is only so deep (I think I heard someone say about 5 inches or so). as with boobs, anything more than a handful (or pussy full lol) is a waste.
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There is a minimum length to ride the ride -- but anything more is fun too if you know what you are doing.
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It could be a cultural thing. I am not all that well endowed but a girl in Singapore once told me I was too big which was a surprising statement to me but does offer another view on this subject where the emphasis is usually being positive about largeness but - can you be too big?
Pictures or it didn't happen
...... and yes a guy can be too big.(kidding about the pics)
The Resident Princess
I will not say bigger is better....
Cause a guy that doesn't know what to do with it is just shoving a stick in a hole.
I however have never had the privilege (haha) of a guy not knowing what to do with there cock.
The guys I have had with the above average cocks....knew how to use them.
Cause a guy that doesn't know what to do with it is just shoving a stick in a hole.
I however have never had the privilege (haha) of a guy not knowing what to do with there cock.
The guys I have had with the above average cocks....knew how to use them.
