I have been an occasional crossdresser since my teens. It wasn't until I hit my 40's when I stopped with the buy n purge cycle, and came to terms that I am definitely somewhere in the gender spectrum versus 100% male. Since then, I wear women's panties full time, always have my toenails painted and love wearing toe rings. I dress up when ever I can, which isn't quite enough for me quite honestly. Although I like being a male, I have found that as I have gotten older, I enjoy my feminine side more and more. I am on a medication which gave me gynecomastia (male enlarged breasts), and it doesn't bother me in the least. I wouldn't mind if they grew some more and filled out some.
I always assumed I was hetero, but as I have aged, I find myself daydreaming more and more of the thought of having a guy taking me and treating me as a women sexually, even though I generally have no attraction to males in that way.
All of these thoughts and actions over the years really seems to suit my Gemini sign as I feel like I have a male and female twin living inside of me.
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JessieCD
Over 90 days ago
Fluid Gender questioning, 53
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I so wish I knew a fellow crossdresser or MTF where the two of us would be able to explore our sexuality together and develop a solid relationship (friends, lovers, and/or spouses).
To those that have a GF / wife that not only know about their crossdressing but also embraces their needs and desires, truly have a precious gem.
To those that have a GF / wife that not only know about their crossdressing but also embraces their needs and desires, truly have a precious gem.
I own several dildos that I love to ride, but there is always something missing. Such an intimate act that would be. Active Ink Slinger
Usually it is the post orgasm let down that stops a man from eating his own cum. I wanted to eat my own but would stop feeling that way once I came. How I got over it, I put my legs over my head and came in my mouth and swallowed it right away. After doing that a couple of times, I had no issue of eating my cum after I had an orgasm.
Now, it is rare that I don't eat my own cum after I masturbate, I actually crave it now when I finish cumming. Now I just need to get the nerve to suck off someone else's cock and feel their cock throb in my mouth as their cum coats my tongue. My guess is that I will forever crave a man's cock after my first experience.
Now, it is rare that I don't eat my own cum after I masturbate, I actually crave it now when I finish cumming. Now I just need to get the nerve to suck off someone else's cock and feel their cock throb in my mouth as their cum coats my tongue. My guess is that I will forever crave a man's cock after my first experience.
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I used to be one that shunned tats. Now I think of them as amazing and beautiful pieces of body art, especially ones that have a deep meaning or story behind it. I usually compliment people with their tats, especially if they are really pretty, cool, or stunning. Then after the compliment, I will politely ask if they are willing to share the story or meaning of the tattoo. I find that the majority of people will gladly tell you about them.
I'm in my mid forties and do not personally have one. However lately I was thinking of getting one. My thought was to get one of the constellation Gemini, and have an outline of a male as one twin and a female as another twin as it represents my birth sign and my dual masculine and feminine side. To me, the perfect spot for it would be along one of my hips. I am still thinking about it as I want to make sure it is something I will savor for years to come.
Either way, tats are usually permanent, so black1 said, make sure you research and pick out a good tat artist. Also, do not make it a spontaneous tat or you may regret what you did. Finally, make sure it has meaning to you.
I'm in my mid forties and do not personally have one. However lately I was thinking of getting one. My thought was to get one of the constellation Gemini, and have an outline of a male as one twin and a female as another twin as it represents my birth sign and my dual masculine and feminine side. To me, the perfect spot for it would be along one of my hips. I am still thinking about it as I want to make sure it is something I will savor for years to come.
Either way, tats are usually permanent, so black1 said, make sure you research and pick out a good tat artist. Also, do not make it a spontaneous tat or you may regret what you did. Finally, make sure it has meaning to you.
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By #, which of the 7 activities have you accomplished? Protected sex is allowed to be counted.
1. Cum in a women's pussy Many times!!!
2. Cum in a women's ass Sadly, none of the ladies I have been with wanted to even try this
3. Cum in a women's mouth Many BJ's but for some reason could not get enough stimulation to accomplish this
4. Cum in a man's mouth
5. Cum in a man's ass
6. Have a man cum in your mouth Would love to have this happen!
7. Have a man cum in your ass Would love to have this happen!
So only one is number 1 for me.
1. Cum in a women's pussy Many times!!!
2. Cum in a women's ass Sadly, none of the ladies I have been with wanted to even try this
3. Cum in a women's mouth Many BJ's but for some reason could not get enough stimulation to accomplish this
4. Cum in a man's mouth
5. Cum in a man's ass
6. Have a man cum in your mouth Would love to have this happen!
7. Have a man cum in your ass Would love to have this happen!
So only one is number 1 for me.
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I love pleasing the one I am with first. The best times I have had were those where I teased and took my time getting my other all hot and excited. The sexual tension as I teased and lightly touched her got to the point where she would just shake uncontrollably. Would much rather please the one I am with first, versus expecting her to please me first. Many times I let the whole night be just about her pleasure.
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Sadly, can't speak to the real deal, but here's what I feel with my toys. I absolutely love the feeling of slowly straddling and lowering myself onto my 7.5 inch dildo. It makes me feel so girly when it makes first contact and slowly enters and spreads me open. I almost quiver as it makes its way past the sphincter. Once I have taken it in all the way, it feels like it belongs there, and I feel like a hot and sexy minx. I love the fullness when it is all the way inside me. But the utmost pleasure for me is when I start riding it hard. I imagine it is a real throbbing cock, and beg for it to do me hard. Eventually, I start shaking, breathing hard, then I tell it I want it to cum inside me. At this point shock waves of pleasure course through my body, I turn to jelly, and then I have an ultra intense orgasm.
Hopefully one day, I will find someone who will make me feel like that.
Hopefully one day, I will find someone who will make me feel like that.
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I love foreplay. It builds all sorts of sexual tension between me and the one I am with. One of my favorites is light bondage, where my lady's arms are tied to the bedposts and she is blindfolded. Everything I do to her in this position is very sensual, and lightly done. It could be the slight touch of a feather, my breath on her nipple, a quick but light touch or lick of her pussy, or even nothing at all for a minute or two. For me, there is nothing better than making a woman so hot and excited that when we finally get down to intercourse, she is almost insatiable.
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I love it when a girl squirts. For my last girlfriend, we discovered she could squirt by fingering her g-spot with a little pressure on her lower abdomen. Just prior to her squirting, she would get really stiff and then she would have an orgasm so strong that it would take her about a minute or two before her body came down from that high.
Nothing I loved more than giving her an incredible squirting orgasm.
Nothing I loved more than giving her an incredible squirting orgasm.
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I don't have personal experience, but know of someone who did. First off, it is a treatment for Prostate Cancer, as prostate cancer typically relies on testosterone. Generally it is not elective unless transitioning from male to female (MTF). These are the most common side effects according to my friend that had it. Besides permanently removing the testicles and becoming sterile, it is likely that sex drive will decrease as testosterone is no longer created at normal levels for a male and his sex drive. As the level of testosterone has decreased, so with the ratio of testosterone to estrogen. This means it is possible to lose muscle mass and strength, have weight gain, enlargement of breasts, future osteoporosis, lack of getting an erection or dysfunction, and possible hot flashes. Hard to say which of these someone would get as everyone is different.
I also have a friend in the process of transitioning from MTF, but she is choosing the HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy). In essence it is similar as one pill blocks the testicles from making testosterone, and will likely cause sterilization over time. The other pill adds estrogen/progestogen. Same general side effects, except the addition of the estrogen will also cause emotional changes, and increased tendency to grow breasts and enlarge the butt area.
Bottom line, doing it shouldn't be taken lightly. If elective, a lot of thought and possibly counseling should go with it as you can never reverse it.
I also have a friend in the process of transitioning from MTF, but she is choosing the HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy). In essence it is similar as one pill blocks the testicles from making testosterone, and will likely cause sterilization over time. The other pill adds estrogen/progestogen. Same general side effects, except the addition of the estrogen will also cause emotional changes, and increased tendency to grow breasts and enlarge the butt area.
Bottom line, doing it shouldn't be taken lightly. If elective, a lot of thought and possibly counseling should go with it as you can never reverse it.
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I agree with Just_A_Guy_You_Know that it is more about the attitude that makes a lady sexy. As far as a sexy outfit? Hands down for me is a long dress with a slit in the fabric along the side of the leg almost up to the hip level. It is so sensual, and the peek-a-boo showing the leg then disappearing drives me crazy.
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For the longest time I wanted to taste my cum, but once I had my orgasm, I would lose the urge to do so. I had no issue tasting my pre-cum and really loved the taste of it. I would even play with it and place it on my lips as if it were lip gloss. So I was surprised that I would refuse to swallow a load. Then one day I had read some stories about cum swallowing and how some people put it on their food or in their drink. I happen to have made cupcakes so I decided to go for it. When I was ready to cum, I grabbed a cupcake and place the head of my cock partially into it. I filled the inside with my cream. I then ate the cupcake. Once that day happened, I came in my coffee and drank it, and on some other foods as well. Eventually, I just would just put it in my mouth, play with it, savor the flavor, and then swallow. And as others have said, some of the things you eat change the flavor. One day, I would love to be on my knees, sucking off a real man, looking up at his face as he thrusts his cock in and out of my mouth. I would beg for him to give me his load, so I could taste another man.
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