I have a safe word, I have it for a reason. A new play partner didn’t like it, thought he’d forget and said I had to use the universal red.
I agreed.
Never again will anyone change my safe word.
I ended up seeking medical attention because of it. I couldn’t stop play as I couldn’t remember Red!!! All I kept thinking was he’d changed it but what to???
He didn’t read my body language either.
I don’t blame him, I blame me. I may be submissive but giving away my safe word was idiotic. All my fault.
Safe words keep you and your partner safe.