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JPGR64
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male
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Advanced Wordsmith
I have noticed that at time I have experienced this issue too. However what I discovered it that sex is just as much mental as it is physical. Every person is different, every partner is different.
I once had a partner that when we attempted to "Get back together" after several years. I recalled all her preferences and catered to her. However I was not mentally or physically attracted to her as much anymore. I gave her more orgasms than she could count, her words not mine. But I only got off once after having sex and changing positions for over an hour. I way trying but my head (the one on my shoulders) kept getting in the way.
Prior to that, when I was married, I had to spice things up with dirty talk to get myself off because she wouldn't do much more than just lay there..... sad I know.
Bottomline is work on the mental part, it sounds like the physical part is ok.
Good Luck!
I once had a partner that when we attempted to "Get back together" after several years. I recalled all her preferences and catered to her. However I was not mentally or physically attracted to her as much anymore. I gave her more orgasms than she could count, her words not mine. But I only got off once after having sex and changing positions for over an hour. I way trying but my head (the one on my shoulders) kept getting in the way.
Prior to that, when I was married, I had to spice things up with dirty talk to get myself off because she wouldn't do much more than just lay there..... sad I know.
Bottomline is work on the mental part, it sounds like the physical part is ok.
Good Luck!
Advanced Wordsmith
1975 Chevy P/U. I towed it home (blown head gasket, radiator and engine locked up). took me 4-5 months of working on it after school but we got it running!
Then I pulled the engine and trans from my Uncle's '72 Monte Carlo which was an awesome set... too bad the car had rusted out! The truck was a POS but had some great memories in that old truck!
I'm sure y'all (Yes I said Y'all, I'm from Texas) would love to hears those stories.
Then I pulled the engine and trans from my Uncle's '72 Monte Carlo which was an awesome set... too bad the car had rusted out! The truck was a POS but had some great memories in that old truck!
I'm sure y'all (Yes I said Y'all, I'm from Texas) would love to hears those stories.
Advanced Wordsmith
It will vary. If you're newly weds I'd say do whatever it takes to relax him when he gets home. For some that means a hug and kiss, or a beer, or in my case if the kids aren't home jump my bone!
If you have kids. I would share the attention. He needs to know that he is loved and appreciated but the kids needs usually come first. At night have the kids in bed at an early/reasonable time and rock his world.
Either way, don't get into a boring rut. I love sex but if it is the same EVERY time if get boring/routine. Get creative, since you're a member here you should have NO problem finding ways to spice it up!
I hope to commend you for showing the initiative to please your husband. I hope you get the answers you are looking for. If not, keep searching!
If you have kids. I would share the attention. He needs to know that he is loved and appreciated but the kids needs usually come first. At night have the kids in bed at an early/reasonable time and rock his world.
Either way, don't get into a boring rut. I love sex but if it is the same EVERY time if get boring/routine. Get creative, since you're a member here you should have NO problem finding ways to spice it up!
I hope to commend you for showing the initiative to please your husband. I hope you get the answers you are looking for. If not, keep searching!
Advanced Wordsmith
How many chics have you taken there virginity??? (That you know of) Some it is easy to tell. Others may have had their hymen already ripped another way (sports, horse back riding, etc.)
BE HONEST GUYS! I KNOW HOW YOU LIKE TO INFLATE YOUR NUMBERS!!!
Me?? I've taken only 1. The second chic I was with.
BE HONEST GUYS! I KNOW HOW YOU LIKE TO INFLATE YOUR NUMBERS!!!
Me?? I've taken only 1. The second chic I was with.
Advanced Wordsmith
I know many married friends complain about this. I don't know the reason (great idea for a question for the girls here) this happens. Guys will typically have sex with their wife as much as possible until something stops them, they start having marital issues, health issues, personal/mental issues.
My Ex and I while still married had sex a fair amount, separated then still had sex, divorced and still had sex for a while then finally stopped. Every situation is different.
THERE IS NOT ONE CORRECT ANSWER!
my2cents
My Ex and I while still married had sex a fair amount, separated then still had sex, divorced and still had sex for a while then finally stopped. Every situation is different.
THERE IS NOT ONE CORRECT ANSWER!
my2cents
Advanced Wordsmith
I've always looked for the ones who could be the Lady in the street and the freak in the sheet. I want them to controller themselves (play well with others) during the day but be ready to fuck our brains out at night without limits.
A bit of a challenge to find so sampling to find the right one is fun!
my2cents
A bit of a challenge to find so sampling to find the right one is fun!
my2cents
Advanced Wordsmith
Tasting it sure.... After cumming in her mouth (kiss), after cumming in her (licking pussy).
Would/Have I just cum and eat it for not other reason but to do it... no. In the heat of the moment everyone should do what THEY are comfortable with, not what sociality says is OK.
My 2cents
Would/Have I just cum and eat it for not other reason but to do it... no. In the heat of the moment everyone should do what THEY are comfortable with, not what sociality says is OK.
My 2cents
Advanced Wordsmith
I recently met a woman who said she would prefer NOT to have oral sex (me going down on her). Though WE had not ever done that.
Do some of you ladies like oral sex and some not? Or Can you confirm my suspicion that she probably never had someone do a good job?? Love your comments!!!
Plus I'd really like to go down on this chic!! Advise???
Do some of you ladies like oral sex and some not? Or Can you confirm my suspicion that she probably never had someone do a good job?? Love your comments!!!
Plus I'd really like to go down on this chic!! Advise???