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Ian
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 34
United States
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Advanced Wordsmith
if you believe in gay rights then you'd have to count it as cheating. True, many men embrace the idea of two women being together, but if emotion is involved then it should be classified as a man's woman being with someone else, especially if its behind his back, but it all depends on how he chooses to look at it... maybe its a happy accident? lol
Advanced Wordsmith
it feels like im fucking rubber when i have one on rather than feeling the softness and warmth when i don't have one on. along with making things less exciting between me and who i'm with, just knowing its there, they can go dry and mess up the flow of sex sometimes if you're going for too long. hands down, i feel way more comfortable without a condom.
Advanced Wordsmith
i'd say he's over working himself to please, maybe the one doing most the moving between the two of you? that would explain being tired, unless you notice him being too tired for the amount of effort he's putting in, then that could be medical. losing an erection sounds more like stress, maybe he's focusing too much on the "tired" bedroom situation to keep excited?
Advanced Wordsmith
its common. everyone has their needs for sex, but sometimes sex can get tiring if you and your partner are having sex so often, but your sex drives aren't on the same level. you could try waiting a bit so he can start coming to you for it or maybe extra teasing to build him up.