I'm sorry this guy chose to be like this especially when you took you're time to try and explain your reasoning behind doing what you did. This guy had absolutly no right to say any of these things to you, You're a wonderful person and you did exactly what you were comfortable doing. Don't let anything he said bother you and bring you down, Just know that you have plenty of people here who like you for who you are and are always willing to listen and talk.