Quote by Jim_Beau

Shave it, it's like a new woman, grows back it's like a new woman, shave it...

In the first couple of years my wife and I were together, she changed her pubic hairstyle frequently. And although she never let me shave her, she did let me watch a couple of times while she was shaving herself. When we just met, she was fully shaved, but as I told her I like a bush, she started growing it out every now and then, before shaving everything off and keeping it shaved for a while. I've watched a few times when she went from full bush to bare, that was such a big difference. I can recall one time that we had sex in the morning and I was eating her out. Her pussy was very hairy. Not long after sex she told me she would take a shower, and that it was time to shave her pussy, so she asked me if I would watch. I saw her big bush getting covered in shaving cream, and as she didn't trim before, the razor got clogged with her long pubes with each stroke. It took some time before the bush was gone. After showering, of course I wanted to see the result up close and we ended up having sex again, and of course I did eat her out again. She could always do an amazing smooth shave, and I couldn't feel a single hair, not even a bit of stubble. It felt so different than earlier that day, like I was eating a totally different pussy.

Quote by 22yogirl

She's lucky you respect her wishes even though it might not be your preference 😊

It's give and take. I consider myself lucky that she has been willing to grow a full bush, even though that has never been her preferred style. I guess she has had a bush during some 80% of the time that we are together. That is very sweet of her. If she sometimes wants a change for a while, I can understand it.

Quote by 22yogirl

Thank you for the long answer! My preference was always to be completely smooth because I hated to be hairy, now I would experiment if I could, but laser really changed my life. It was really painful before I did it. Even when I wasn't completely shaved I had bumps that made me uncomfortable.

I'm happy for you that laser had such positive effects. If you had so many issues with bumps, I can understand that laser is an ideal solution. If you feel comfortable and confident with it, that's the most important.

It might sound weird, but although I like a full bush, my second preference would be fully shaved/bare. So, either all or nothing. 😄 I like that even more that partially shaved/trimmed. And even between different trimmed styles I have preferences, I like a landing strip more than a small triangle or the tuft like my wife used to have. But she was really happy and confident with her tuft, so if she would shave again, it would be fine for me if she chooses that style even though it isn't the style I prefer.

Quote by 22yogirl

Do you guys prefer a smooth pussy, trimmed or hairy? Or it doesn't matter?

I had a lot of hair, but since I got razor bumps easily, I decided to get laser. Now I have very few hairs here and there, but I still like to shave and be completely smooth.

I know some men thinks is juvenile to have a completely smooth pussy, but I wanted opinions on it.

I prefer a hairy pussy. My wife used to be shaved smooth when we met and after some time I asked her to grow it out. During the first years of our relationship she changed frequently between smooth, trimmed (like a landing strip/triangle/tuft) and hairy, but over the years the shaving and trimming became less frequent. In the last 15 years she mainly has kept a full bush, there have been two longer periods she was fed up with the bush and kept a different style. Ten years ago she kept a small tuft for about a year, and some seven years ago she went for that same style for a bit less than a year, even shaving fully bare twice to grow out a decent tuft again. Since more than six years she always has a full bush. And I like that. She told me she visually doesn't like it, stating it is "way too hairy", but she likes it that she can please me this way, and she actually enjoys not having to worry about how it looks down there, not having to deal with ingrown hairs and razor bumps, and the hassle of shaving every (other) day. She finds it very easy.

That said, I always liked the other styles she had as well. Even though it might not be my preference, I will accept it. It's not a dealbreaker. If my wife decides to shave or trim again, that's fully her decision. Although I don't expect it, some years ago she said that she wouldn't feel comfortable anymore to be fully shaved, as she feels she's too old for that since she's in her 30s. The last time she fully shaved, she was 29. She told me that if she would shave again, she would leave a tuft or a landing strip as that's the look she likes the most.

If I would be with a woman who is lasered, like you, well, there is not much to do about it, so I would have to accept it.

Quote by SebastianTombs
I much prefer a natural bush. Not too crazy though... growing wild down into the butt hole and onto the thighs is kind of a turn-off, but a nice full muff above the slit and hairy labia really get me going. Watching a woman pull on her long pubes and dig through her garden to spread it open to reveal the pink inside (or, watching her partner do it)... oh, that's the stuff!

Seriously, when I have some time to watch a few clips from (or add to) my porn stash, I even sometimes intentionally skip the clean-shaven stuff and look for nice bushes. That's one thing I like about Asian porn... seems like the majority of the chicks have nice fluffy pussy hair, from what I've seen at least. I guess I'm in the minority.

I prefer exactly this. I'm very happy with my Asian girlfriend who has a nice full fluffy bush which doesn't go all the way to her thighs or butthole. I love the fact that she hasn't shaved or even trimmed for years.

I have enjoyed shaved pussy as well, but I always get bored of it quickly. A hairy pussy always remains interesting for me.

Quote by Amoderndesire

All-in-all I’m very pro female pubic hair. I think that for giving oral, it’s nice to have something to work with in terms of texture and extra natural scent. I also think that it shows that they’re comfortable in themselves and have fewer hang-ups about their body image or superficial maintenance, which for me is hot. Something neatened or hemmed-in a little is probably the best; a full-on gangly bush is a bit much sometimes. A Brazilian is nice too (though weirdly they don’t seem to be popular in London).

Fully waxed pussy is nice too in some respects, and fun for licking in terms of texture with it being pure skin, but there’s something kind of surreal in my mind about it; a grown woman with a bald fanny. Can’t quite shake it, but wouldn’t refuse it.

Natural but neat, is the best IMHO.

I agree. I'm happy with my wife's bush; she doesn't get extremely hairy. She doesn't shave or trim at all, but even her natural hair growth just fits in a regular bikini, she doesn't even need to trim a bikini line. The hairs she has get about 2 inches long, so it's definitely noticeable when giving oral and it looks a bit unruly, you can clearly see this is a real untrimmed full bush.

She used to keep it shaved in the past, so it's nice to see (and feel!) the big difference. I really enjoyed her shaved pussy, I've never been with another girl who could get it so smooth with a razor. And her hair grows quite slowly, so if she shaved it, it remained smooth for almost two days, without any stubble. You can imagine she was quite surprised when I asked her to grow out her bush, but she wanted to give it a try. In the beginning, she didn't like it that much, she found herself way too hairy. She then bought a trimmer to keep it shorter, and started to change up her style frequently. She would grow it out to please me, but after that she would shave or trim it again, or keep something like a landing strip. She experimented with many styles and during our relationship there been periods that she didn't grow out a full bush. The last time she shaved or trimmed was more than five years ago, by then, the shaving and trimming already had become less frequent and she had gotten used to having a hairy pussy. Nowadays, she really can't care about her bush. She told me it isn't the style she likes the most. She doesn't want to go back to bald, she thinks she is too old for that (she's 34), but she thinks a landing strip looks best. That said, she knows I love the bush and she has gotten used to it, it doesn't bother her anymore, it doesn't get in the way and she now actually finds it easy not doing any maintenance on her bush whatsoever and not having to care about how it looks down below.

When it comes to oral, nothing is easier than just putting your mouth on a smooth pussy and start licking. Now it's more of a challenge, she has a cameltoe-style pussy with her inner labia not visible, you can only see a slit. And as she doesn't shave or trim, her outer labia are quite hairy! When I start giving oral, I feel the hairy lips with my tongue, and my nose gets covered in the hair on top. It's soft and fluffy, but it's still 2 inches long so it can tickle quite a lot on/in my nose and face!

If I'd never asked her to grow it out, I think she'd probably still keep it bare. I sometimes get excited when I think about her hairy pussy, it's still quite uncommon. Most women of her age do shave it, fully or partially, or at least trim it. And most men of my age (I'm 38) have a woman who shaves or trims, who at least does some maintenance to look presentable. Most other men who see my wife would expect that she would shave or trim. But when I take off her panties, I see that big hairy triangle covering her pussy, and a few times a week I'm eating a pussy which is hairier than what most men of my age ever experienced. And already for more than five years, nothing has changed, it's the same big hairy bush every time. She doesn't care about it anymore and I love it.

Quote by maree12

I have always thought that a glimpse of pubice hair is rather naughty so I prefer not to go bald, I have had IPL pubic hair removal, but just kept a small;l patch. i think a guy will get more of a thrill if he sees a flash of pubic hair, than a fleshy white mound. Guys can you answer that please, if there are any of you here?

I agree. My wife kept for quite some time just a small tuft above her slit, while she kept the rest shaved. She felt that it looked less childish and was very happy with it. While I prefer a full bush, I liked it that there was at least a bit of hair, even though it wasn't much.

I prefer a full bush, but a landing strip can look classy. My wife keeps a full bush nowadays, but if she would decide to shave again, I would appreciate it if she would keep a landing strip. She tried the landing strip a few times in the past.

Quote by subfrances
im very natural and full, but i do trim a little so i don't look like to much of a slut

Why would a woman with an untrimmed pussy look like a slut?

Quote by imaginativerogue
Go smooth! More sensitive!

Quote by gordonviolin
I like all three. I like the natural look that says, 'this is me, take me as I am.' Saved I find sexy because it shows everything. One of my favourite features--no-one ever mentions it--is the little dimple at the top of a pussy. I find it really sweet and you see it so clearly when the lady has shaved. I think I prefer either shaved or bushy to partially trimmed though. Just personal, but I have such a strong love of female anatomy as well as personality that I lovee all the styles. Like saying which is my favourite hairstyle.

Quote by joe71
Hairier the better, but neatly trimmed is fine too. It would be hard for me to get excited for a woman with a shaved pussy, because to my middle-aged eyes a hairy one is womanly and a shaved one looks prepubescent. Hairs stuck in my throat a small price to pay. When I was sexually active before meeting my wife in the late 80s and early 90s, nearly all women still had bushes - yes, even women who wore fancy armless dresses bikinis and makeup and lipstick, who diligently shaved their legs and armpits. I'm happily married so it hasn't really affected me, but I'm still heartened to see what looks like the beginnings of a comeback.

Quote by darkroot50
I prefer natural or trimmed. I think the fragrance from burying my nose in pussy hair is a turn-on. I'm OK with a landing strip but it's not my first choice. I really don't like a shaved or waxed pubic area on a woman. It makes me think of prepubescent girls and I'm so not into them.

Quote by black1
My view is that its upto the individual . Obviously if oral is going to be a big part of your routine then some sort of hair removal may enhance the situation more. This only needs to be a trim.

Quote by KJessica
He, however, asks me to let it grow out into its natural state... so all summer while home from school I let it go unshaved. He had said he just wanted to see what it would look like in an all natural state. What it would look or be like when I returned to school in the fall.

When he saw it for that very first time he really did like it with all that hair in-between my legs that way, but when he went down on me for his very first time… well, that ended his wanting me in our sixty-nine position with all that hairy mess down there in-between my legs.

He just no longer wants us in the sixty-nine position, which before he really, really had liked lots… he still really wanted me to still give him blowjobs, but he had no such interest in giving me orals in return… not with all that hairy mess down there!

Quote by macnwny
I say it's up to women to do what they want but I prefer trimmed at the least. Totally natural where it grows down the inside of thighs and abdomen doesn't seem attractive to me. Tuffs of hair poking out of bikini/panty line

Quote by Metilda
What do you mean by 'grow out'?

Full bush? No way.

It's not just about *looks* (which, I think, most men assume - they assume it's all done for looks AND it's all done for them). But there's also routine maintenance, like all other body hair. For some it's hygiene meant to keep down odors and unsavory things like 'pubis cling due to vaginal / menstrual secretions' . . . being female, I find these things to be absolutely disgusting - yet a fact of life if you grow any little bit of it too long (even with showering once or twice a day). Tolerate THAT just because he might want it longer? Nope.