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HanoverPhist
Over 90 days ago
Male, 154
United States

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that was so appropriate and and quite entertaining...thank you....never was much of a Spice Girls fan...but you may have changed my mind
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this is an easy one.... bad behavior is not rewarded....you have to be good to get a spanking
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There are truly too many to mention but the big three are Whips, Uniforms, and Boots
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Foggers aren't that difficult to construct. The table leg method described above is fairly quick and easy, and with some imagination you can go from mild to wild. I suggest a trip to your local hardware store, dollar store, if you have a farm supply store around, they can have all kinds of neat stuff. The thing is to use your imagination. I have used anything from a carwash mitt to an oversized flyswatter I found. I can tell you that if you make it, no matter what it is, your Master will love it and there will always be a special feeling between you when he uses it.
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I find it odd, if not a bit scary that people have even tried to replicate a life from 32 works of fiction. Of course there are a lot of people who live their life according to a work of fiction. I find that a bit odd and scary as well. Dancing_Doll mentioned that these contracts are not legally binding. Truth of the matter is one cannot consent to assault, I would like to site Paddleboro here. I think that the idea behind it is hot, erotic even. I could a weekend of such activities, even a week long vacation, (IMHO it's better than a golf vacation.)I just don't see how it is possible to live in that fashion in everyday life. I also have to concur with BlackTalon. I have my opinions, they are exactly that, MY OPINIONS. I am not telling, or even asking, anyone to agree 100% with them, as I don't agree 100% with the opinions of others. I have found, over the years, that it is often best to agree to disagree. This ,by no means, is reason for us not to like each other, or be friends, lovers, or what have you. Live the way you want to live. And I shall allow you to do that as long as you don't infringe upon my rights to do the same.
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There once was a man from Bel Aire
who was fucking his wife on the stair
the banister broke
he doubled his stroke
and he blew his wad off in mid air
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There once was a man from Bel Aire
who was fucking his wife on the stair
the banister broke
he doubled his stroke
and he blew his wad off in mid air
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Quote by Metilda
The term you're wanting is to 'submit' - not to 'be forced' - or 'be used'

Everything is consensual and she is the one to stop things if it goes too far or she truly doesn't want to.



Though I tend to concur with the general thought of all this, force or being used can be a fun roll play
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Please share your favorite Dirty Limericks here:

There once was a girl from Madrass
Who had an incredible ass
Not rounded and pink as you probably think
but was grey, had long ears, and ate grass
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I think the AV speaks for itself. I didn't spend all that money on whips and floggers for nothin DUH
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I don't know that these songs are about female submission, but defiantly have a BDSM tone to them:

Nine Inch Nails - Head Like A Hole
Depche Mode - Master and Servant
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Quote by Ravyn
These 2 glass dildos are amazing.........



I have one similar to the one on the left. Not only can you warm them up in some hot water, but you can throw them in the freezer too
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Quote by Ravyn
These 2 glass dildos are amazing.........



I have one similar to the one on the left. Not only can you warm them up in some hot water, but you can throw them in the freezer too
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yeah... I say WHACK HIS PEE PEE probably won't help the situation much, but I bet it makes ya feel better. Though my first thoughts are that he's up to no good. I would agree with GingerKitty stay calm and talk it out if at all possible
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yeah... I say WHACK HIS PEE PEE probably won't help the situation much, but I bet it makes ya feel better. Though my first thoughts are that he's up to no good. I would agree with Ms GingerKitty stay calm and talk it out if at all possible
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Quote by IronRaven
I think one thing W/we all must remember is instant access sites like this are the equivalent to a free concert in the park (with a lil more nudity). Even ppl who aren't really into the music may stop in just to check it out ..and if they see someone there who they think is hot...they may ACT like they enjoy it more to try to hook-up.

Not to mention the fact that there are a huge percentage of ppl who are "occasionally kinky" instead of "Lifestyle Oriented"


Well said. Ain't it the truth.
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Quote by janet_haney
1965 Chevy Corvair. Probably no one here even remembers it or even heard of it


Yeah they billed the Corvair as the 6 cylinder Muscle Car.

Beats my 79 Pinto. It had an 8-Trak in it. I was SOOOO COOL

"The rear bumper of the Pinto does little more than reflect sunshine."
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Quote by IronRaven
....but it's always seemed to me that the terms are interchangeable


I would tend to agree that regardless of which you choose that the priorities are be placed on being as safe as possible. As I was told many years ago, don't do anything that you can't undo. Holding in mind that I speak of safety not only am I referring to the physical but the mental and emotional as well.
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All this and all I ever intended was to see how many people subscribed to what. I'm not tellin ya how to do it. I am just expressing an opinion. My OPINION is simply that most of the things that I do during play are not ever totally safe. Yes there are measures taken to ensure safety, and to make such activities as safe as possible. Sanity is subjective. Some people would say that jumping out of a perfectly good airplane is insane, but there are people who do it all the time. They do so in the safest possible manner and aware of the risks associated with doing so. And as far as consent I mean if you show up to play that's pretty much consent. Notice that I said CONSENT and NOT NEGOTIATION, for those are two very different things. I mean you show up at a car lot, chances are you're there to buy a car.

Quote by overmykneenow


If someone tells you they want you to cut their arms off, you really shouldn't.


If someone tells me that they want me to cut their arms off I see that there are two options. HOLD ON AND HEAR ME OUT NOW. The first, and more likely, option would be not to play with them because it wouldn't be healthy. The second option, and this would be only with someone I knew well, make em think I cut their arms off.

so now have at it folks... I'm sure you're all gonna chew me a new asshole. My opinions are rarely that of the general populous.

I been doin this a while, I kinda know what I'm doin and in 20 years I'm sure that all the people that I have played with would come play with me again, and I haven't caused harm to anyone, physical, mentally, or emotionally
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I have read all of the posts in this forum. I have to agree with most of what is being said. I also feel that modern technology is the one that must take the blame. Several have mentioned that there is no school for this kind of stuff. I contend that there is, or at least there was. Not too many years ago, when our lifestyle was not proliferated by the internet, there was a system of self policing. One had to hang around, get known by someone. If they were able to pass the initial tests, perhaps they may be invited to a gathering. Perhaps after a few gatherings play may ensue.
Another thing that has gone by the wayside is starting from the bottom. Maybe you knew you were destined to be a Dominant. You still had to spend your time on the bottom. Reason being is to learn what that is like so that when you have charges of your own you have some kind of reference. That time may have been short, but not only did you have the experience to guide you but you had other experienced people, from both sides, to guide, help, and instruct you. Those people watched and let you know when you fucked up. And when you fucked up you had to fix it, those people were there to make sure that things got fixed. If you got listed as bad player or a manipulative bottom you were out. Turn in your beanie and your tie tack.
Today, most play spaces and groups ask for little more than an ID. Any Joe/Jane Schmuck can put up a website proclaiming themselves the GREAT AND POWERFUL MASTER BATOR. Then it’s simply getting enough people to climb on their bandwagon with them. I actually witnessed an occasion where a gentleman walked into a public play space, to meet his play date for the evening, and asked what the floggers hanging on the wall were for. When he was informed, his retort was, “Oh, so that’s what I’ve been online for all these years.”
I apologize for the rant and I shall now get off my soap box.
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Quote by Peter_Pan
We answer this same question in various versions quite often. I always have to say that any man who expects a blow-job better learn to eat pussy, and do it well! I, myself, love muff-diving, or, I guess we can't call it that now since all the ladies seem to get rid of the muff. But pussy is made for eating as much as fucking.


My sentiments exactly

NO MUFF TOO TOUGH
WE DIVE AT FIVE