Pixie, can you be more specific -- If she won't have sex that could be a deal breaker but otherwise...it might be ok.
OK it feels pretty good if it is a finger or a small dildo. This works best with the girl on top. If I'm thrusting then it becomes hard to keep the finger/dildo in place. I'm not bi or gay so the idea of a guy doesn't work for me, but this probably has some mechanical problems because I'm guessing that two thrusting penises might have trouble getting a rhythm.
In my case a bit of anal pressure works just as good as penetration. It isn't mind blowing for me and simply just adds a bit to the experience. Usually not worth the trouble during intercourse. The one case where I really like it is if I'm getting oral sex standing up, it is easy and not uncomfortable to use a finger to provide a bit of anal pressure or hold a dildo in place.
Again this is not mind-blowing for me. For example, when getting oral sex it works just as well for me to have the girl rub my abdomen, inner thigh, or butt. Overall, touching things as well as the penis and balls for me ups the pleasure and is sometimes forgotten.
Hope this helps.
Never faked an orgasm, but I'll change position if it is taking a while.
I try to make sure, with oral or fingers, that she comes before I really get going. So if its taking me a while after this then, I'll switch to doggie or tittie-fucking -- both of which do it for me quickly. I try not to just keep pounding away forever :-)
It would be nice for an author to see the ratings by sex. For example, are women rating a story a 5 while men are rating it a 2.
Is this possible?
My hand is all I use. I do alternate between dry hand masturbation and using a lubricant. The orgasm from the dry hand is sharp and very intense but it doesn't feel too much (to me) like a vaginal orgasm. Don't get me wrong it is highly pleasurable. Girls should note that getting this sharp intense orgasm is one reason for continued masturbation even when a guy gets a lot of intercourse with you. Don't worry about it.
Lubricant starts to capture the feeling of a vaginal orgasm but not exactly. Ejaculating in a vagina has a fluid churning fluid feel that ejaculating into air--even with lubricant--lacks. For me any lubricant needs to be thick, I like KY Warming Jelly as the warming actually numbs my penis a bit so I can sustain a longer "session."
Lovely lady worries that her wing size may be inadequate and may not give adequate pleasure to males.
Ahh posting is ok, at least I didn't have to cum :-)
Doggy makes me orgasm quickest even though it doesn't feel quite as "tight" as other positions -- something about the view just does it for me.
I got a blowjob in a cornfield once in broad daylight. It was weird standing up in the wide open field with my penis in her mouth, kinda exposed. It was a great orgasm!
Oh one final thing...to finish the thought above...once I reach orgasm my penis becomes hypersensitive and he doesn't want to touch or move it for several seconds. This causes, at least me, to want to hold my penis deep inside when I cum inside someone. Or to stop and just hold my penis tight when masturbating.
First, it feels good. Regardless of if the erection is followed by an orgasm or it just subsides.
Typically it is sight, smell, or feeling that starts the erection rather than deep feelings. For example, if there is a sexy ad on the TV an erection might start and then subside after. The guy doesn't have any deep feelings toward the sexy model on TV, but the animal part of him does. Remember, it is a biological imperative to "get it up" for human reproduction.
OK, back to how it feels which was your question. If I'm clothed in pants or underwear it can become uncomfortable because my penis grows significantly in bulk. An "adjustment" might be required to position my penis upward in my pants (and off to one side) so that it fits. If a guy is rubbing his clothed erection against you he needs his shaft to be point up or it is going to hurt badly.
As an erection hardens I get a warm feeling around my whole genital area and lower abdomen not just the shaft. It becomes more sensitive to touch and wants to be rubbed. The feedback loop to orgasm is a positive one -- it feels better the more you do it and the more you do it the harder it is to stop. Well, at least until...
Hope this, helps, feel free to follow-up.
I'm wondering what styles of story make the ladies want to touch themselves.
Probably about 12, not 100% sure. I couldn't jack off because it hurt and felt good, but mostly hurt. I would stare at pictures of girls with a hard-on. What I ended up doing was placing a plastic bag with lotion between my mattress and box spring and sliding my hard penis in and out, and in and out (you get the idea) until I came. Cumming was a bit of a surprise as I knew about cumming but not how the cum spurts out one glob after another. Ahh, good times.
I like shaved, but it can't be stubble (very bad)