Hopefully, long enough to empty the magazine of my weapon into his heart before he could reach me.
In this day and age, when sexual harassment is something you can be hauled off to jail for, women had BETTER take charge more often...otherwise sex as we know it may die on the vine.
The moment you realize that you have found someone who will allow you past the shield they live their lives behind, so that, even if only for a few hurried moments, you can hold off the darkness and share the light together.
I can't speak for other men, I can only tell you what I think. Hair color doesn't turn me on, nor does a great body, nor does a great mind...what turns me on is a woman's honesty and her attitude. The sexiest woman I ever met wouldn't stand out in a crowd; in a quiet corner or in a room alone with her, she could move the earth...literally. It's all about attitude.
There must be a lot more to this woman than a pair of tits! If she turns you on that much she's worth more effort on upur part...she could be a keeper.
I saw a question asked. and I read a lot of judgments...at least you struck a nerve. Here's some advice from 34 years of being married to the same woman.
You asked the question with your mind alrady made up. You are looking for justification, and you won't find it here, 'cause we're all different. Only you and your wife know all the circumstances of your situation, y'all are the only ones who know how much water is under the bridge and how you've dealt with it. After you've reviewed your information, make your decision and then live with it. If it makes you a bastard, who cares? You are a male, and by some people's definition, that makes you wrong...period. The only person you HAVE to live with is yourself!
Satisfy-the only true objective!
Make her cum uncontrollably while she's kissing that guy!