Beethoven: Piano concerto No.5 in E flat Major Op.73-"Emperor"-2. Adagio Un Poco Mosso
Before that Paul Kalkbrenner - Gebrunn Gebrunn.. two very different types of music ;)
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DutchMike88
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male, 37
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Hi Martb40,
I'm also not gay but do enjoy some anal pleasure from time to time. When I introduce anal sex to a new bedpartner I always go very very slow and let them get used to the idea at all and then the size. But after some experimenting I found that in the cases I've been presented with its usually between the ears.
My last girlfriend loved anal stimulation and we've tried various things. At some point we bought a new buttplug and she thought it was huge and would never fit. One night a while later I let her put on a blindfold and made her relax on the bed. Took care of the seen, fresh sheets, good temperature et cetra. I started to gently touch her all over her body, kiss her everywhere.. All the while she had to stay silent on the bed.. until she was craving for some penetration or any other serious stimulation.
I started to go down on her.. well to detailed already anyway.. used one finger for her rectum and one for her pussy. Get her wet and ready. Then(while she was still blindfolded) I lubed up the new buttplug and while stimulating her pussy and clit started to work it inside. She never knew it was the big one until I later during sex took of the blindfold and she saw it in the mirror.
Same goes for myself.. I always started small but when we got some new stuff and she came back from a business trip we tried them on me. I hadn't been stimulated anally for months but within no time I could take 4.5 cm in diameter(the biggest I've ever had) just because I was very relaxed and eager.
My point is.. mindset and full relaxation of the body and mind make more possible then you think. As soon as you think something will be to big you're rectum will react and make it to big.
In my experience anyway. Hope this helps you.
I'm also not gay but do enjoy some anal pleasure from time to time. When I introduce anal sex to a new bedpartner I always go very very slow and let them get used to the idea at all and then the size. But after some experimenting I found that in the cases I've been presented with its usually between the ears.
My last girlfriend loved anal stimulation and we've tried various things. At some point we bought a new buttplug and she thought it was huge and would never fit. One night a while later I let her put on a blindfold and made her relax on the bed. Took care of the seen, fresh sheets, good temperature et cetra. I started to gently touch her all over her body, kiss her everywhere.. All the while she had to stay silent on the bed.. until she was craving for some penetration or any other serious stimulation.
I started to go down on her.. well to detailed already anyway.. used one finger for her rectum and one for her pussy. Get her wet and ready. Then(while she was still blindfolded) I lubed up the new buttplug and while stimulating her pussy and clit started to work it inside. She never knew it was the big one until I later during sex took of the blindfold and she saw it in the mirror.
Same goes for myself.. I always started small but when we got some new stuff and she came back from a business trip we tried them on me. I hadn't been stimulated anally for months but within no time I could take 4.5 cm in diameter(the biggest I've ever had) just because I was very relaxed and eager.
My point is.. mindset and full relaxation of the body and mind make more possible then you think. As soon as you think something will be to big you're rectum will react and make it to big.
In my experience anyway. Hope this helps you.
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I'm usually the dominant one but that's mostly because of the submissiveness of the girl in question. Would like to switch sometimes though.
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The frenulum is to me the most sensitive part of my penis. So yes I do love it and most of my best orgasms come from some kind of stimulation to my frenulum. Never use your teeth though, that hurts like hell ;)
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Quote by anonymous1526
I like to fantasise about a guy giving me a golden shower but can't find a man who is willing to! What are your opinions?
Also, I have seen on porn men actually putting a semi hard cock in a girls ass or pussy and actually pissing straight into it? I've heard that was impossible!
Please enlighten me
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Do you just want a golden shower or also the other things you've seen in porn flicks?
As has been said before: to pee with a rock hard penis is no problem, I've done so before.
Whether I would fulfill your or any other girls fantasy of a golden shower I don't know. It does not turn me on at all, I've never fantasized about it before and it used to be a hard limit for me. But if like for so many others.. the right person asks me at the right time and in the right way I might oblige and fulfill her fantasy.
The scenes you've watched in porno's go a little to far for me though.. Can't imagine peeing inside somebodies pussy is a very healthy thing to do! Peeing inside her rectum is less of a problem I guess, but lets first see how the shower would go and take it from there ;)
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Hahaha, I love this guy.. An other great post of the true master of domination!
Keep up the good work Amnesia!
And don't forget Amnesia.. Keep trying! Because one of these days... you might... maybe....
Keep up the good work Amnesia!
And don't forget Amnesia.. Keep trying! Because one of these days... you might... maybe....
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Quote by drillsarge2
Why would a man want to fake it?
The same reason why women fake it! I've been in a situation where I thought of faking it(very weird circumstances which will never happen again).
Anyway.. After ages of no so passionate sex which I had without my own full-consent, she came tons of times but I didn't feel like it nor did i get close enough.
At some point she actually asked me whether I had cum yet and I just said "yes, didn't you feel that?" and was done with it.
Even though I tried to make her understand the way I felt soon after she became a stalker. Had to deal with that until I left the country half a year later. (I didn't leave because of her btw).
ADDED:
I would never fake/could never fake with my partner! To me sex is not necessarily about cumming but more about the enjoyment of the act itself. Even though I usually do, often more then once, I don't mind not cumming at all during sex with my partner.
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If I haven't met the father(so I won't imagine the things following happening to him) it can be a fun role play but usually not that into it at all..
If the girl in question is very girly/cute etc. it might be easier to get into it.
If the girl in question is very girly/cute etc. it might be easier to get into it.
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Planned sex: Oef that's so hot, I just need to do some groceries.. why don't we reconvene at 20:00 and continue. WTF! :S
Talking about exes right before or during sex, usually a big no go!
Talking about exes right before or during sex, usually a big no go!
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Depends ... someone I've just chatted to since an hr ... no.
Someone I know well but haven't met ... yes.
Have you ever seen a show called catfish?
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I've shared some erotic action on , but only with my former partners when one of us would be overseas for a while. Even then always very careful with our identity.. never know what's happening on the hotel wifi!
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Going deep huh DocterLove!
Well.. I do dream of stuff that is still going to happen or people I'm going to meet. But never about sex!
It's crazy to read your post because I had something like this this very morning(it doesn't happen to often so..) anyway..
My friend invited me over for breakfast and I got on my bike to go there.. part of the trip I knew what was going to happen because I remembered it from a dream.
I got a text on the way there which i remembered. I knew what the next text was going to be and that I had to break for a blue car at the next corner.. it all happened.
Unlike you I do not have sex in these dreams.. these dreams only happen once a year or something and I never know which dream will be a future experience and which won't. Up until now none of them have been of any significance..
Use this sixth sense of yours as long as it sticks because I'm not sure whether its even real or just deja vu sometimes ;)
Well.. I do dream of stuff that is still going to happen or people I'm going to meet. But never about sex!
It's crazy to read your post because I had something like this this very morning(it doesn't happen to often so..) anyway..
My friend invited me over for breakfast and I got on my bike to go there.. part of the trip I knew what was going to happen because I remembered it from a dream.
I got a text on the way there which i remembered. I knew what the next text was going to be and that I had to break for a blue car at the next corner.. it all happened.
Unlike you I do not have sex in these dreams.. these dreams only happen once a year or something and I never know which dream will be a future experience and which won't. Up until now none of them have been of any significance..
Use this sixth sense of yours as long as it sticks because I'm not sure whether its even real or just deja vu sometimes ;)
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I'd do them both.. first have sex, then go to sleep. After sleeping have sex again so both came first ;)
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For me, I like to explorer and my ex liked the idea of being spanked etc. but I wasn't into that stuff at all. However I did not mind to be dominant and over time the idea of "punishing" her with pain grew on me. As it turned out she did like a few slaps on the butt but because of a very low threshold for pain it never got to be a very big thing.
So to actually contribute to the conversation..
I do think people can grow accustomed to certain sexual acts and even learn to enjoy them even if they weren't their fantasies of kinks from the start. I do not think you can make somebody enjoy extreme pain if it is not something she's into form the inside (so to speak).
So to actually contribute to the conversation..
I do think people can grow accustomed to certain sexual acts and even learn to enjoy them even if they weren't their fantasies of kinks from the start. I do not think you can make somebody enjoy extreme pain if it is not something she's into form the inside (so to speak).
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If you want good lounge music but not buy it by the songs.. Best to go for:
Erotic lounge music series or Hotel Costes series. Both great album series with 90% great sounds!
Erotic lounge music series or Hotel Costes series. Both great album series with 90% great sounds!
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I think I was about 16 years old when I was staying over at my best friends place. His older sister(18/19) flirted with me all the time and he knew. But I was never into her and he was my best friend so I always tried to put her of in any way. That night I went downstairs to get a glass of water and short after his sister came down also.
She walked up to me in her long t-shirt, grabbed my hand and guided it to her pussy. She was extremely wet and told me that was from masturbating to the thought of me. She pushed me against the kitchen-counter and got down on her knees. She pulled down my boxers and freed my penis. I thought about stopping her for a second.. for the sake of my friendship with her brother.. But I didn't. It was amazing. She was the first and only girl to ever be able to perform deep throat on my larger then average cock and loved it.
After a while she stopped and bended over the kitchen table. I fucked her then and there, quite rough for my second experience! She came within no time and I soon followed after. I had just slipped my cock out of her pussy when we heard somebody else come down the stairs.
Soon my friend came in and asked what all the noise was about. I told him I dropped something when I was spooked when his sister came in. I wasn't very nice about her, I thought that would somehow make him believe nothing ever happened.
Me and his sister never done anything again. She wanted to but I felt horrified about what I had done. We never talked about it but I think deep down he knew and was quite hurt.
She walked up to me in her long t-shirt, grabbed my hand and guided it to her pussy. She was extremely wet and told me that was from masturbating to the thought of me. She pushed me against the kitchen-counter and got down on her knees. She pulled down my boxers and freed my penis. I thought about stopping her for a second.. for the sake of my friendship with her brother.. But I didn't. It was amazing. She was the first and only girl to ever be able to perform deep throat on my larger then average cock and loved it.
After a while she stopped and bended over the kitchen table. I fucked her then and there, quite rough for my second experience! She came within no time and I soon followed after. I had just slipped my cock out of her pussy when we heard somebody else come down the stairs.
Soon my friend came in and asked what all the noise was about. I told him I dropped something when I was spooked when his sister came in. I wasn't very nice about her, I thought that would somehow make him believe nothing ever happened.
Me and his sister never done anything again. She wanted to but I felt horrified about what I had done. We never talked about it but I think deep down he knew and was quite hurt.
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Martb40, I'd advice you to read My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday and give it to your partner after. I've not fully read it but it got me to understand why some women find it hard to talk about.
I also borrowed the book to my ex and to a friend who's a girl. It helped them both to explore and be open about it more.
I also borrowed the book to my ex and to a friend who's a girl. It helped them both to explore and be open about it more.
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Hahaha.. I at least expected to see something like City of Angels or something.. But some of these are so much better! Way to go on creativity ladies!
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Most comments refer to the people on lush, but I have to say I've been coming here to read stories for years before I got an account and started talking to others.
The first thing that kept me coming was not only the abundance of stories and the easy to use search tools but also the quality of the stories. I found that Lush has a ton of great writers who(as far as I know) only publish here. Once I started reading here I didn't look any further.
Only since I dove into the community myself; reading and posting on the forum as well as rating and commenting stories I also noticed the abundance of communication, feedback and just overall community there is on this website.
One thing is sure.. I won't be leaving soon!
Also.. I prefer Lush over any other type of online erotica because most stories leave enough room to let your imagination go wild on them and make it an even greater experience then the itself writing alone!
The first thing that kept me coming was not only the abundance of stories and the easy to use search tools but also the quality of the stories. I found that Lush has a ton of great writers who(as far as I know) only publish here. Once I started reading here I didn't look any further.
Only since I dove into the community myself; reading and posting on the forum as well as rating and commenting stories I also noticed the abundance of communication, feedback and just overall community there is on this website.
One thing is sure.. I won't be leaving soon!
Also.. I prefer Lush over any other type of online erotica because most stories leave enough room to let your imagination go wild on them and make it an even greater experience then the itself writing alone!
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My ex always wanted pictures like that. We talked about it sometimes but never found the right mood or time to get them taken/take them.
Before we broke up we bought a professional camera for artistic and leisure purposes. My dad is a big photographer so I've been thought how to at a young age.
It was only after we broke up that one night when we were supposed to just have dinner we came to the subject because of the great lighting we had in our formerly shared apartment. She took a shower and I prepared the living- and bedroom for the shoot. Once she felt comfortable we took some great pictures. Non have been printed but she's very happy having them. It makes her feel pretty and sexy.
On the subject of letting a professional take them: I would not mind my girlfriend to do it, especially if it was as a gift for me. I wouldn't like her to go to just any photographer or one we know though.
Before we broke up we bought a professional camera for artistic and leisure purposes. My dad is a big photographer so I've been thought how to at a young age.
It was only after we broke up that one night when we were supposed to just have dinner we came to the subject because of the great lighting we had in our formerly shared apartment. She took a shower and I prepared the living- and bedroom for the shoot. Once she felt comfortable we took some great pictures. Non have been printed but she's very happy having them. It makes her feel pretty and sexy.
On the subject of letting a professional take them: I would not mind my girlfriend to do it, especially if it was as a gift for me. I wouldn't like her to go to just any photographer or one we know though.
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Enjoy the friend zone and put your mind of your dick. It is never going to happen if you keep thinking about how to and it will probably ruin your friendship if you're to eager!
If you love her.. take things VERY slow.. I don't have the full picture here but if she doesn't notice you've got bigger feelings for her something is wrong with your awesome friendship. And sending her a huge bouquet of roses on valentine's day is not going to help you further along.. Believe me, I've tried it once.
If you love her.. take things VERY slow.. I don't have the full picture here but if she doesn't notice you've got bigger feelings for her something is wrong with your awesome friendship. And sending her a huge bouquet of roses on valentine's day is not going to help you further along.. Believe me, I've tried it once.
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Even though she probably meant it sarcastically I think the approach Ruthie describes isn't the worse idea. I always tell friends who are girls who have boyfriends that want to do it to them instead of with them to agree but only if they get to do the boys first.
Some have done so and not only does it help to see whether they want to share the experience or just have +1 on anal sex. It also makes the idea of anal sex easier for girls who are a little reluctant towards it.
How ever.. what I should have started of with saying was that communication is the key here. The fact that you have the idea you need to find a way to persuade here means you're not sure how she feels about it in the first place. I personally think you can't talk enough about sex with your partners because it makes it so much better in every way. Try to make your relationship more open on this subject and discover each others wishes and feelings about things. Never pressure your wishes on your partner but let them know you've thought about things.
That usually does the trick for me!
Some have done so and not only does it help to see whether they want to share the experience or just have +1 on anal sex. It also makes the idea of anal sex easier for girls who are a little reluctant towards it.
How ever.. what I should have started of with saying was that communication is the key here. The fact that you have the idea you need to find a way to persuade here means you're not sure how she feels about it in the first place. I personally think you can't talk enough about sex with your partners because it makes it so much better in every way. Try to make your relationship more open on this subject and discover each others wishes and feelings about things. Never pressure your wishes on your partner but let them know you've thought about things.
That usually does the trick for me!
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Quote by Dancing_Doll
Sexual orientation isn't something you can just randomly change.
Sure, you were with another girl, but probably because you already have bisexual tendencies or like girls. He obviously isn't into guys. It's not like "honey, can we try a sex swing, or a new dildo" this is "honey, I want some other dude to shove his dick in your ass"... In other words, asking a guy to suddenly become bisexual just to please you is probably a little 'much'.
Also - it's probably a bad idea to demand literal reciprocation when it comes to sex. Do something if it turns you on or excites, not as part of some kind of exchange negotiation.
Why don't you continue exploring this fantasy with dirty talk, role-play etc and see how he feels about it. It might eventually turn him on enough that he'd be willing to try it, but don't pressure him, and don't assume that's the end-goal. Unless he has a natural bi-curious urge, he's ultimately going to say no. Just because he likes anal-play and a hot girl with a strap-on does not mean he's cool with a man swinging his dick anywhere near him. They are very different things.
As a man I fully agree with Dancing_Doll. I love mutual anal play with an other girl but, and I've been open to it, could never have sex with an other guys. I'm just not bi-sexual, not even bi-curious. Nothing is going to change that I guess.
sorry.. double posted
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Sexual orientation isn't something you can just randomly change.
Sure, you were with another girl, but probably because you already have bisexual tendencies or like girls. He obviously isn't into guys. It's not like "honey, can we try a sex swing, or a new dildo" this is "honey, I want some other dude to shove his dick in your ass"... In other words, asking a guy to suddenly become bisexual just to please you is probably a little 'much'.
Also - it's probably a bad idea to demand literal reciprocation when it comes to sex. Do something if it turns you on or excites, not as part of some kind of exchange negotiation.
Why don't you continue exploring this fantasy with dirty talk, role-play etc and see how he feels about it. It might eventually turn him on enough that he'd be willing to try it, but don't pressure him, and don't assume that's the end-goal. Unless he has a natural bi-curious urge, he's ultimately going to say no. Just because he likes anal-play and a hot girl with a strap-on does not mean he's cool with a man swinging his dick anywhere near him. They are very different things.
As a man I fully agree with Dancing_Doll. I love mutual anal play with an other girl but, and I've been open to it, could never have sex with an other guys. I'm just not bi-sexual, not even bi-curious. Nothing is going to change that I guess.
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This.
Although, I talk with my future partners about sex before it happens, so they know what turns me on..however time for me is the key, whatever is happening it should be hapening at the right moment with the right pace. But thats just me.
Me too!
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So is it true most guys love really big boobs? The bigger the better? I have always wanted to know the truth to this question.
I'm not a fan of Really big breasts. Whether they're medium or small doesn't really matter to me either, as long as they are nicely shaped and the nipples look great I'm a happy man, no matter what size they are!
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Yes I would, but most of the porn you can find on pegging is not the way I'd like to enjoy it. The cross dressing and the femdom stuff is a big turn-off for me! Not that I don't like to switch now and then but in those pornos it is usually to much degrading instead of domination.
Anyway.. in short: Done tons of anal play but never strap-on.. it's a fantasy I'd love to make reality some time.
Anyway.. in short: Done tons of anal play but never strap-on.. it's a fantasy I'd love to make reality some time.
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I wanted to add that I did not know he was married until I walked into his living room and saw the photos of his family. If I had known he was married, I would never have considered it.
I fully agree with you here! I kind of live by a Dutch saying.. translated it means something like: Never do anything to an other you would not want to happen to you.
My ex-girlfriend and I are still great friends since we broke up. As of lately she has started dating this other guy.. not extremely serious yet but they're dating and share the bed. Still sometimes when she comes over she tries to indulge in very passionate lovemaking. We've done so since we broke up and also after she had her first date with the guys. But when she started seeing him more often I stopped her every time. Not because I didn't want to, but because I would feel quite bad if I was the guy she was dating currently dating(who fell for her big time).
Wow.. what a morale code here! :P
Anyways.. Don't Cheat, Communicate!
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