I am not a fan of Hairy .
My wife shaved, nicely trimmed, at the end completely shaved .
My present (amie de coeur) is completely hairless down south . She told me she got tired of shaving and had (electrolisys ) "i hope the right word correctly spelled " done .
She said, she is glad she was not very hairy to begin with , seems it was not without some pain.
Never went there .
This is no jugment on those who do or did however .
Madame ,
It is Denis , in french there is only one (N)
I am a 35 years old widower.
French Canadian , owns a small business
I have posted one story so far, it was based on the way my marriage ended.
I have to confess to , first,, changing the names .
Second ,,, embellishing the facts ... a lot . In the interest of making it more readeable and add some (piquant) "spice it up ??"
I have someone now in my life for the past few mounths.
She is ( some may find this strange) the ex wife of the last guy to bed my wife . ( i say last guy because as i found after the facts , contrary to" Star Treck"" Many men had been there before )
I may write something about that if i ever find out how to upload something from Word to the site .
Up to now have only been able to print a hard copy and re-type the whole thing on the site , ( Maybe it is my stupidity ?? lolll.
Dennis
Living in the country just North of You. I have an interest in your politics , i fallow on CNN as much as possible .
It seems to me, you suffer from the same void as us and most other country these days.
A great surplus of politicians and a great shortage of Statesmen.
What your Country and the world needs , is another John Kennedy , a man with a dream for the future.
Denis
I will admit to going to a hooker once .
Many years ago when i first go to the big city as it were. I was not rich and she was far from a high class Dame of the nights .
It was a matter of pay your money , but on a condom , she spreads her legs and you empty yous sac
It was not very satisfying , i never repeated the experience after that.
Denis
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Maybe it has to do with my up-bringing, or my years in the Service (Special Forces) . But to me loyalty is very important to partner or friends , and towards me.
I am loyal and expected the same from my partner .
Once a partner has made a reflected decision to cheat , the trust is gone, the contract terminated .
It does not matter how sorry they are after the fact or the begging for forgiveness and promises to not do it again . It cannot be forgotten and forgiveness i believe will be interpreted by the cheater as a licence to do it again in the future . Having gotten away with once, why not try it again ?
I could not get over it and forgive in my case .
En Passant, i cannot believe these stories of guys encouraging their wifes to serve other guys while they watch. If some are trough it says a lot for the lack of courage and self respect of these husbands . To say nothing of the the disrespect for their wife in reducing them to practicly whores
I finally put the whole mess in writing with microsoft word. (Rough draft) I still have to put it in redeable form and correct the spelling . English is not my firs language. It was not easy, to write it still hurts after 2 years.
I am not ,i realise now, lily white in this mess. I handled it like (le dernier des idiots ) as we say here
I will post it sometime this week ,it is long , if needed there will be 2 installements if it is feasible .
I do not know if she was depressed Curious but the way i handle it sure sent her over the hedge if she was not before
Fortunatly, there was no children.
She committed suicide over loosing me and the marriage.
I am trying to find the courage to post the storie here on the site.
Hopefully , it may help someone else to handle such a situation better . also it may help my conscience .
Thanks for the answer
Denis
A question i guess more for the women on the site,
How can a wife go and bed another man and then claim while crying and hugging you that she loves you and only you , does not whant to loose you ect,??
Is she lying to you, herself or to both?
As for me i left her immediatly .
Denis