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Dennis
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I am not a fan of Hairy .
My wife shaved, nicely trimmed, at the end completely shaved .
My present (amie de coeur) is completely hairless down south . She told me she got tired of shaving and had (electrolisys ) "i hope the right word correctly spelled " done .
She said, she is glad she was not very hairy to begin with , seems it was not without some pain.
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Never went there .
This is no jugment on those who do or did however .
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Madame ,
It is Denis , in french there is only one (N)
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I am a 35 years old widower.
French Canadian , owns a small business
I have posted one story so far, it was based on the way my marriage ended.
I have to confess to , first,, changing the names .
Second ,,, embellishing the facts ... a lot . In the interest of making it more readeable and add some (piquant) "spice it up ??"
I have someone now in my life for the past few mounths.

She is ( some may find this strange) the ex wife of the last guy to bed my wife . ( i say last guy because as i found after the facts , contrary to" Star Treck"" Many men had been there before )

I may write something about that if i ever find out how to upload something from Word to the site .
Up to now have only been able to print a hard copy and re-type the whole thing on the site , ( Maybe it is my stupidity ?? lolll.
Dennis
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Living in the country just North of You. I have an interest in your politics , i fallow on CNN as much as possible .

It seems to me, you suffer from the same void as us and most other country these days.

A great surplus of politicians and a great shortage of Statesmen.

What your Country and the world needs , is another John Kennedy , a man with a dream for the future.
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I will admit to going to a hooker once .
Many years ago when i first go to the big city as it were. I was not rich and she was far from a high class Dame of the nights .
It was a matter of pay your money , but on a condom , she spreads her legs and you empty yous sac

It was not very satisfying , i never repeated the experience after that.
Denis
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A question i guess more for the women on the site,
How can a wife go and bed another man and then claim while crying and hugging you that she loves you and only you , does not whant to loose you ect,??
Is she lying to you, herself or to both?
As for me i left her immediatly .
Denis



If your stories true, I know your hurting and feel for you. However, love and sex, and vice-versa, don't go hand in hand, you can always have one without the other.

Many people are married and have sex but don't love one another. It also follows that you can have sex with someone other than your spouse and still love your spouse.

Men . . . I think mainly men, see hookers all the time yet love their wife and would die for them. The bible says (Paraphrased) there's no greater love then to die for someone else.

Human nature being what it is, she could have been telling the truth.

The thing is people don't often think of the consequences of their actions. And often they are just playing around and let things go to far. There's also people that don't think they will get caught. Needless to say prisons are full of these type people.



I understand the doubt, i still think sometimes it was a bad dream. I am not sure i would believe someone telling me the same thing .
There are things i found out after the fact from one of her girl friend who use to go with her on their girls nights out , that helped me understand a little better her reason for cheating.
But the parts of her night with 2 guys that i left out and the things they done i do not understand at all.
The only places i have seen thing like that ,while trying to understand it , was on BDSM sites .
I find that writing about it so far, has helped me, it seems . I don't know if i will find the courage to really write all about that night . I am not sure any one would believe it , i know i would have doubts if someone told me such a story .
Thanks for your support
Denis
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I will make no comment here Dennis, but will read your story(s) - I may come back to you privately.

It is all there , if you come back to me. i will respond
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Maybe it has to do with my up-bringing, or my years in the Service (Special Forces) . But to me loyalty is very important to partner or friends , and towards me.
I am loyal and expected the same from my partner .

Once a partner has made a reflected decision to cheat , the trust is gone, the contract terminated .

It does not matter how sorry they are after the fact or the begging for forgiveness and promises to not do it again . It cannot be forgotten and forgiveness i believe will be interpreted by the cheater as a licence to do it again in the future . Having gotten away with once, why not try it again ?

I could not get over it and forgive in my case .




En Passant, i cannot believe these stories of guys encouraging their wifes to serve other guys while they watch. If some are trough it says a lot for the lack of courage and self respect of these husbands . To say nothing of the the disrespect for their wife in reducing them to practicly whores
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I finally put the whole mess in writing with microsoft word. (Rough draft) I still have to put it in redeable form and correct the spelling . English is not my firs language. It was not easy, to write it still hurts after 2 years.
I am not ,i realise now, lily white in this mess. I handled it like (le dernier des idiots ) as we say here
I will post it sometime this week ,it is long , if needed there will be 2 installements if it is feasible .
I do not know if she was depressed Curious but the way i handle it sure sent her over the hedge if she was not before
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Fortunatly, there was no children.
She committed suicide over loosing me and the marriage.
I am trying to find the courage to post the storie here on the site.
Hopefully , it may help someone else to handle such a situation better . also it may help my conscience .
Thanks for the answer
Denis
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A question i guess more for the women on the site,
How can a wife go and bed another man and then claim while crying and hugging you that she loves you and only you , does not whant to loose you ect,??
Is she lying to you, herself or to both?
As for me i left her immediatly .
Denis