I am an author fortunate enough not to have to worry about money, so I get to write whatever arouses me at that particular moment rather than what sells.

I enjoy places like these where people can be themselves. I especially enjoy making friends and more here, where the veil of plain, beige normalcy is lifted, and men and women may reveal their true selves. Cuts through the bullshit, so to speak.

Kinks are not lifestyles. I'm a gentleman to the public eye; privately is where I play. As the Dalai Lama once so wisely said, 'I prefer a lady in the streets and a freak in the sheets.'