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Catnip
Over 90 days ago
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Internet Sensation
There are more people having this problem.
I just had a chat with another person on here who couldn't get his requests through.
I'm curious to what method you're using to send a friends request.
Are you using the pop up chat add to friends button, the chat room's add as friend option, the profile ask nn to be a friend or manually typing their name in the friends settings?
I don't know if it has anything to do with it or not, but maybe one of the four alternatives is efficient.
I just had a chat with another person on here who couldn't get his requests through.
I'm curious to what method you're using to send a friends request.
Are you using the pop up chat add to friends button, the chat room's add as friend option, the profile ask nn to be a friend or manually typing their name in the friends settings?
I don't know if it has anything to do with it or not, but maybe one of the four alternatives is efficient.
Internet Sensation
We've opened a new chat room for members to easily get in contact with the chat moderators.
If you have any issues in your own room, or one of the public rooms and there's no chat moderator there check if there's one in the Lush Helpdesk.
If there's none online or there's noone in the helpdesk you can find a list of all the Chat moderators under the help tab, Lush contacts.
Enjoy your chatting!
If you have any issues in your own room, or one of the public rooms and there's no chat moderator there check if there's one in the Lush Helpdesk.
If there's none online or there's noone in the helpdesk you can find a list of all the Chat moderators under the help tab, Lush contacts.
Enjoy your chatting!
Internet Sensation
It seems to me the both of you have a rather open mind towards sex as it is already.
I don't see the harm in taking this up with her aswell.
If it's something she's not comfortable with you exploring further, things will (hopefully) just be the same as before.
The sex talk in bed might be even more exciting when she knows more things that triggers you.
I don't see the harm in taking this up with her aswell.
If it's something she's not comfortable with you exploring further, things will (hopefully) just be the same as before.
The sex talk in bed might be even more exciting when she knows more things that triggers you.
Internet Sensation
I have.
Some have been great, some have not been and two ruined a relationship I truly wanted to work.
Now cheating is doing something that you know you should have discussed with your partner beforehand instead of just doing it on your own. Sleeping with others isn't always cheating.
I'm a person who needs attention, if I do not get it from where I think I deserve or need it, I'll get it from some other place.
However I'm working towards a new "better" me with honesty in focus. So when ever I will feel neglected I'll tell the poor person who's probably just busy, that I'm having that feeling and we'll sort it out.
Some have been great, some have not been and two ruined a relationship I truly wanted to work.
Now cheating is doing something that you know you should have discussed with your partner beforehand instead of just doing it on your own. Sleeping with others isn't always cheating.
I'm a person who needs attention, if I do not get it from where I think I deserve or need it, I'll get it from some other place.
However I'm working towards a new "better" me with honesty in focus. So when ever I will feel neglected I'll tell the poor person who's probably just busy, that I'm having that feeling and we'll sort it out.
Internet Sensation
Nohead, I do feel sorry for you. Why? Well, you gave up something you claim you LOVE doing.
She's not keen on giving head, she doesn't like it. You love going down on her, you said so yourself and then you stop?
For her to go down on you, you must find a way for her to enjoy it. Give her encouragement when she's touching your cock with her hands. Moan, or tell her how great her hands feel against your cock.
Make her be in the centre of what she's doing to you.
Lets hope this isn't the problem but how am I to know..
How clean is your cock?
Shower once a week
Shower every other day
Shower every day
Apart from showering how often do you clean your cock:
Once a week
Once a day
After peeing
after sex
Do you get sweaty balls?
Do you clean your balls as often as your cock?
Sex shouldn't be about giving or receiving favours. She's your girlfriend, not a prostitute.
She's not keen on giving head, she doesn't like it. You love going down on her, you said so yourself and then you stop?
For her to go down on you, you must find a way for her to enjoy it. Give her encouragement when she's touching your cock with her hands. Moan, or tell her how great her hands feel against your cock.
Make her be in the centre of what she's doing to you.
Lets hope this isn't the problem but how am I to know..
How clean is your cock?
Shower once a week
Shower every other day
Shower every day
Apart from showering how often do you clean your cock:
Once a week
Once a day
After peeing
after sex
Do you get sweaty balls?
Do you clean your balls as often as your cock?
Sex shouldn't be about giving or receiving favours. She's your girlfriend, not a prostitute.
Internet Sensation
Would like that feature too elit, not for me particularly but for the people who are colour blind. They're probably missing a lot of wonderful things said to them.
I think We have enough of bg's as it is right now. Still fun to post possible additions. Maybe some day one'll run across one that is screaming "must have!" to all of us.
I think We have enough of bg's as it is right now. Still fun to post possible additions. Maybe some day one'll run across one that is screaming "must have!" to all of us.
Internet Sensation
Right now I'm sitting on the bus to my bf's place. It's a 2.5h ride and the wifi is free. Monday mornings I go home and Wednesday afternoons I travel there.
In between my bus trips I'm at one or another home using lush, in bed, by a desk, when soaking in the tub.
Where do you lush?
In between my bus trips I'm at one or another home using lush, in bed, by a desk, when soaking in the tub.
Where do you lush?
Internet Sensation
She's your daughter, she's bound to have somewhat same taste in men as you do.
He might leave her, she might leave him, but if they don't I think it's better for you to accept the fact that these two persons fell in love and are now a couple.
This summer my mother and I met the same man during the same weekend.
She was devastated when she found me walking around with him.
He was a gentleman, bought both of us beer. My mum told me about her attraction to him so I, as the obedient child, let him go.
She didn't even want him later on.. sheesh.. But she told me about him and how sweet he was and how hot he was in only boxers.. (gee thanks mum, for stealing him and rubbing it in.)
There are other men who've been after me who when they can't have me try with my mother.
Makes me realise how very right I was turning them down.
He might leave her, she might leave him, but if they don't I think it's better for you to accept the fact that these two persons fell in love and are now a couple.
This summer my mother and I met the same man during the same weekend.
She was devastated when she found me walking around with him.
He was a gentleman, bought both of us beer. My mum told me about her attraction to him so I, as the obedient child, let him go.
She didn't even want him later on.. sheesh.. But she told me about him and how sweet he was and how hot he was in only boxers.. (gee thanks mum, for stealing him and rubbing it in.)
There are other men who've been after me who when they can't have me try with my mother.
Makes me realise how very right I was turning them down.
Internet Sensation
I'd never go for the pill. Too many side effects and I'm no fan of pills.
I'm not a fan of condoms either... they give me itches.
Only hormonal thing I can agree on trying would be the plasters.
I'm thinking of maybe getting a pessary/diaphragm and use together with sperm numbing gel.
I just can't decide if I want the one that covers only the cervix or the old bigger one.
I think it's pointing towards the bigger one, you can use that one when on your period too, I've heard..
Pessaries are not very common in Sweden though, not very surprising since they're not really bringing in any money to the big pill factories.
Used the right way they are about as safe as a condom. (I'd say even safer since very many people don't know how to use condoms right, or pick the right size for their penis.)
I'm not a fan of condoms either... they give me itches.
Only hormonal thing I can agree on trying would be the plasters.
I'm thinking of maybe getting a pessary/diaphragm and use together with sperm numbing gel.
I just can't decide if I want the one that covers only the cervix or the old bigger one.
I think it's pointing towards the bigger one, you can use that one when on your period too, I've heard..
Pessaries are not very common in Sweden though, not very surprising since they're not really bringing in any money to the big pill factories.
Used the right way they are about as safe as a condom. (I'd say even safer since very many people don't know how to use condoms right, or pick the right size for their penis.)
Internet Sensation
Quote by Stillcurious
When we conduct a search to select stories to read we're given just one possible tag to use as the search string i.e. 'Lesbian' or 'Masturbation'. This is a very broad brush leaving us to sort through many many stories that contain the tag we selected.
There's no way to include more than one tag in the search string as in 'Lesbian, Masturbation, First Time'. This would rapidly hone in on each readers type of story they wish to read as each new tag is added.
Maybe four tags as a maximum would be a fine enough filter for most people. Of course you could still just use a single tag as now and leave the other three blank to keep the net spread wide for serendipitous discoveries. But for those more particular moments when only a BDSM Voyeur Masturbation Taboo story will do, there's the option to narrow the search criteria making access quicker and more accurate when needed.
Yes, indeed it would be nice to have a way to narrow it down.
By putting in more than one tag in the search box at this time will give you a broader array rather than narrower.
You can however pick what categories you want to search through by clicking "advanced search."
If you put a word within quotation marks you can search for a sentence or some words you want to appear just like that.
"Oh, yes, fuck me harder!" <--- will find all the (3) stories that have used that exact phrase. Leaving the quotation mark out of it will give you all the word search results (+20k)
being able to include and exclude words from searches would be really nice.
Simple commands such as + and - to add and remove words from the search.
Internet Sensation
Welcome to Lush.
I'm sure you'll soon get some good chatting going. It can take some time to find people to talk to but usually it eases up after a while.
If you ever see me in a chatroom I'm up for chatting. I've not been on much lately though, but I'm rather easy going when I am on.
I hope you're having a great time already,
Cheers
Cat
I'm sure you'll soon get some good chatting going. It can take some time to find people to talk to but usually it eases up after a while.
If you ever see me in a chatroom I'm up for chatting. I've not been on much lately though, but I'm rather easy going when I am on.
I hope you're having a great time already,
Cheers
Cat
Internet Sensation
Since you come from two different generations your way of looking at the world are different, therefore your way of relating to things can be a bit hard to match.
Me, I'm with a man who's more than 20 years older than me and though it's clearly noticeable in some situations it's not even close to being a problem for the relationship to work.
Me, I'm with a man who's more than 20 years older than me and though it's clearly noticeable in some situations it's not even close to being a problem for the relationship to work.
Internet Sensation
In my youth I always had a fairly easy time moving on.
Replacing what I lost with what new exciting thing I found around the corner.
I tried doing this when I lost my Australian lover, but it didn't work. I couldn't move on at all.
All I could think about for months was how to get him back.
Even when I found someone all I could think about was him.
But now finally I've let go of what we could have had. Focusing on my future.
Hoping he doesn't realise what we lost.
Replacing what I lost with what new exciting thing I found around the corner.
I tried doing this when I lost my Australian lover, but it didn't work. I couldn't move on at all.
All I could think about for months was how to get him back.
Even when I found someone all I could think about was him.
But now finally I've let go of what we could have had. Focusing on my future.
Hoping he doesn't realise what we lost.
