“Never?” “Never!” She responded. “Let me get this straight. You went to college, right?” “And grad school!” She added. “You were athletic and played on any number of teams?” “Oh yea, field hockey, softball, track, even sailing.” She listed. “These were all women groups, often coached by other women, right?” “Yes, nearly 100% female.” She confirmed to me. “And you have never even kissed a girl, let alone did more?” She rep...

I was getting in line at the airport when I saw Kim, who had her arm around another woman, a striking blonde. I kept half-an-eye on them and was more than a little surprised when they kissed before Kim boarded the plane ahead of me. The blonde passed me by and I saw her wedding ring and realized it was the same one as Kim wears. “Kim is a lesbian?” I thought. I wasn’t overly shocked, just surprised. Kim and I have worked...