I'll be honest, I didn't think you could. Before the relationship I'm in now started I had broken up with a serious boyfriend and it hurt, a lot. We got back together three times before we finally called it quits and ended it. I think if we ended it the first time there'd of been no love lost and it would of been easier but the fact we went back to each other after it didn't work numerous times made the fact that it didn't work out hurt all the more, giving the impression I still loved them. Now if I fast forward a few months I met my current partner (who is now my fiancé) and I just can't even begin to describe the difference in feeling, it's on a completely different level. Someone on here mentioned it before, but it's most definitely the memory I loved, rather than the person so yes, I fully believe you can stop loving someone.
Your Seduction Style: Fantasy Lover
You know that ideal love that each of us dreams of from childhood? That's you!
Not because you possess all of the ideal characteristics, but because you are a savvy shape shifter.
You have the uncanny ability to detect someone's particular fantasy... and make it you.
You inspire each person to be idealistic and passionate, and you make each moment memorable.
Even a simple coffee date with you can be the most romantic moment of someone's life.
By giving your date exactly what he or she desires, you quickly become the ideal lover.
Your abilities to make dreams come true is strong. So strong that you are often the love of many people's lives.
Your ex's (and even people you have simply met or been friends with) long to be yours.
No doubt you are the one others have dreamed of... your biggest challenge is finding *your* dream lover.
I think the idea has always intrigued me, but if I was ever in that situation I would defiantly choose No.4. You never know what someone's forte is!
I understand the use of condoms in sex when you have mulitple partners, but when you have one sexual partner at a time and know of each others pasts then the whole condom issue really ends up not being an issue. I prefer not to use them as I too feel they restrict and hinder the mood, but I have been with my fiancé for five years and we're monogamous.
I've met a lot of people on Lush and a handful I consider good friends. There may only be a few left still on Lush but I'd definitely meet them for friendship, I wouldn't for anything more than that.