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I masturbate in waves. I'll have a week where it's every day twice a day, and then I'll go two weeks and maybe do it once.
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BarefootAngela
Over 90 days ago
Lesbian Female, 34
United States
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I see that all the sociological and philosophical responses have already been covered (not that there is anything wrong with them), so I'll just give the short answer - yes, I have given it up for money. I wanted to go through the process once and see how it made me feel, and I was surprisingly neutral. Didn't feel bad for doing it, and also didn't feel like it was anything I needed to do again. At least I don't think so...
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As a teen there were days like that
This. I could get off 10 times a day in my teen years, and often I did, whether someone else took care of me or I had to do it myself. These days, I'm good to go with once a day, maybe more on weekends.
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I'm a bikini girl, but my g/f loves wearing babydolls or other little things around the house in the evenings. In each case it works to turn the other on big time. Like Cyndy, I'm trying out the idea of putting heels on when we fuck, because it really seems to turn my girl on, but it's taking some getting used to. I could drool over her in heels all day long though.
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I'm a naked girl most of the time, but if my girl and I are out shopping, and we just happen to share a dressing room, and the outfits look good, well sometimes things just happen where being naked isn't a requirement.
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I've never had it done for me, at least not that I'm aware of. I'm not sure if I would consider it creepy, or flattering. I think I'm leaning towards it being creepy, however I'm not sure if that's because I really think so, or because society has trained me to think so.
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The Sydney girls were cute, but I'm all about Crystal Palace and the Crystals.
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We live out in the country with no neighbors so it's not necessary, which is hot enough that it usually leads to multiple sessions.
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Wow, talk about inferiority complexes, saying that the part that goes inside a woman is a "penis" and the mass of flesh around it is a "dick", is like saying that a "cunt"is a life support system for a "vagina"! My question was a serious one and I expected serious answers, some of which were. My bad!!
My answer was 100% serious. Apparently it wasn't the one you were seeking. My bad!!
And yes, there are plenty of cunts that are life support systems for vaginas, and I guarantee they drive men insane with their own complexes.
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I'll take the bait. All too often for women the part that goes inside them is the "penis", and the mass of flesh it is attached to is a "dick." In my own personal experience I have decided that to some degree there is male inferiority complex at play here. "How can a girl possibly prefer plastic over the real thing?" Or my favorite, "She just hasn't had the right dick inside her yet." Every guy believes they're the exception to the rule.
In my case it's simple - I'm madly in love with the person attached to the dick in question, it just so happens to be a fake one. I like taking it and she likes giving it to me. I see no reason to confine myself to fingers and tongues just to meet someone else's definition of what a lesbian is.
In my case it's simple - I'm madly in love with the person attached to the dick in question, it just so happens to be a fake one. I like taking it and she likes giving it to me. I see no reason to confine myself to fingers and tongues just to meet someone else's definition of what a lesbian is.
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The Way Up by the Pat Metheny Group. One track, 68 minutes, can take it slow and easy.
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Beetlejuice from Howard Stern. He makes my ladyhood tingle.
Of course. He's as bad as can and he knows he's the best.
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I don't know how much risk was involved, but I've done it at various jobs, the library at college, in my car(s), and almost always in dressing rooms.
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I don't think I ever really came out formally. It just reached a point in life where people only saw me with my g/f, and I assumed they put two and two together. Only now that many years have passed has family told me they assumed it was a college phase and I would change, but I'm not getting any grief or aggravation over it. My g/fs family has pretty much cut her out, as she was supposed to continue some fine southern tradition of marrying guys who wore pink shorts and golf shirts with blazers. Personally, I look way better in pink shorts...
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Absolutely. He was a good guy, and we still catch up from time to time. He insists he was so bad at it that he drove me to girls, and I think it's cute. He was actually awesome and a great friend. I was able to apply some meaning and memory to the experience without going overboard searching for unicorns and rainbows and magic and all that extra emotional stuff that makes girls question if they did it right.
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Hey I was a teenager once, God knows I used everything I could get my hands on. If it looked phallic, I had it inside me. Non-phallic shaped things included the hand-held showerhead and laying under a running bathtub faucet. Despite the number of sex toys in the house, my go-to for a long time was my Sonic toothbrush...
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Katie Holmes. Pre-Tom Cruise, pre-scientology, 19 year old Katie Holmes. Still.
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What I enjoyed about it back in my day was that it was really a shared belief of power. When I was on my knees with a swelling heap in my mouth, the guy was putty in my hands. On the flip side, my ability to look completely helpless and submissive while a guy pounded my mouth made him feel totally in control. I think it was a great way for both of us to get off, thinking we had full advantage over the other.
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While I understand the philosophical responses to the original question, and agree with them 100%, I figure I'll just play into OP wanting a sexual answer: Kissing. Like the ladies above me, when I'm making out with my girl I am just over the moon. It's all about the intensity and intimacy and just the general "wow" factor. I like to think I could get off with anybody where the other options are concerned, but when it comes to kissing, only my girl will do.
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I considered myself bi-curious until the first time I took a girl for a test drive - then I immediately graduated to bisexual. Where I tend to catch hell from people was how I determined I made the jump from bisexual to lesbian, but that's a discussion for a different thread. Anywho, I'm of the belief that the majority of women are at least bi-curious. Some act on it and some don't. I can say that the vast majority of women I know who make the kind of comments OPs wife makes do so because they're considering taking the next step. What I like about brianlarry's position is that he would take himself out of the equation in order to let her explore at her own pace. That's pretty awesome. A lot of guys wouldn't do that, and instead jump right into angling for the threesome, which could only serve to shut her down. Kudos to you!
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All the men in my life have been black, and the woman in my life is white. I think its about what the heart wants and simply luck of the draw. The heart doesn't see race.
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61% Honestly thought it would be a little higher given the way the questions were phrased.
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I'm an awful flirt, and gf knows it, but I'm not a cheater. I worked too hard for her to give it all away.
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I have none and prefer gf to have none - seems to be the norm with my age group.