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BareLeAWriter
Over 90 days ago
Straight Male
United States

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The obvious answer is they stop being interesting.

Don't be predictable, surprise him, whether in the kitchen or the bedroom. Not just about sex, but about everything.
Experiment, play games, even try role playing, change it up and keep him guessing what surprise you will have next.

Do a little research, find what works with others. You don't need to go overboard, pulling out whips and chains (unless you want to) but be creative.
As massaging the prostrate will quickly cause an involuntary climax on a man, whether or not he wants to climax, I prefer not.

To me sex is not about how quick I can get off, it is about how much pleasure I can give, and I like to take as long as possible giving and receiving.
I would tend to allow her to almost make a mistake when stating her non de plume, catching herself and fixing it.

As in, "Hello, I'm Sh..." Shirley paused, then continued, "I'm sure happy to meet you, my name is Wendy."
It is an interesting question, and I am surprised at the range of answers... but I love my Lover and we satisfy each other far more than anyone else could... so for me the answer remains a resounding>


Although I have long kept myself trimmed above and shaved below, it would still never have been an issue for me. I do also find it increases my sensitivity.

And as far as her, as long as she keeps herself trimmed I am satisfied.
It is something that is really very arousing to me as well, so as long as her knuckles do not get in the way there is nothing bad about it.

If anything she is letting me know that she wants to climax while we make love... and that is a very good thing.
I believe you need to look beyond the wrapping, it is only paper thin.

There is a real person inside that woman, and the sooner you stop judging people by their appearance, the sooner you will become more desirable. But if you pretend it isn't important, than you become even more shallow.

Go get some prescription glasses to put everyone out of focus, and you might start listening to them, learning to understand them, and perhaps even find someone you like.

But that is just my own experienced opinion.

Not very close at all. I am very reluctant to have any woman probe or tease my anus.

The perineum is fine, but no further. I would much rather have her hand on my buns, and her mouth on my package.
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What about the opposite? Inverted nipples?


What better way for a man to gauge his girl friends arousal than to have her nipples start protruding as he teases them?

For myself, I prefer a full thick nipple, but more important is that she is sensitive and wants them played with, teased, pinched and even pulled. Not abuse, but passion.
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So, does reality ever live up to the scenarios u guys see in porn? I mean, if even a small percentage of the stuff that happened in the porn movies actually happened in real life, it would be one hell of a kinky world out there. So, how much do think "life imitates art" as they say?



Porn really is imitating life, but it is through a very narrow lens. When once considers that porn is business trying to profit from sex, it quickly becomes apparent that they will present only what people are willing to pay for. But people do not want to pay to see what they already have at home. People want to see something that is a step beyond what their own partner will agree to.

But as porn video pushes the boundary of what people are willing to do in their own bedroom, the bedroom becomes a imitation of the art. New things are explored, and perhaps partners will pretend to themselves that they really do love the new freedom they have found, but loose focus of why they first wanted to share their bed, and why they choose their partner. Emotion is replaced with sex, and loss of sharing is the result.

Porn videos do not show love, sharing or respect, and that is sad. Although it can be useful to loosen the ropes that society places on us, it should never lead us away from the emotional bond that is found in any happy couple.
Sunday morning, so it is Coffee, with a dash of french vanilla and almond milk... one of my favorites.

Slut is a very derogative word, although I wonder if you are referring to lifetime quantity or in one night?

Obviously a 40 year old woman has had more opportunity than a 20 year old, so there can never be a fixed number.

I much prefer to be in... not out. Cumming on her face equates to masturbating to an image, but that is just my opinion.


Yes, I do like to cuddle after sex, but I also like to cuddle before and any other time. It brings a sense of intimacy to any relationship.

I can't imagine faking something that either happens or doesn't.
If it doesn't happen, I would just keep the train on the tracks a little longer and speed it up.
I feel about the same for red haired women as I feel for all women... I guess I must be a little color blind.
I can't imagine one without the other... I go for the whole package, not the pieces.
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I think you're being a little sexist. Guys can have all the same hang-ups and sexual insecurities that women do.

We get nervous, anxious, and self-conscious. Some things are easy to say, but when it comes down to it, it can be terrifying for some guys.

I would imagine your attitude to the situation doesn't help him much. Cut the guy some slack.



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High heels on my lady, might lead me to bed, but I prefer to remove them once there.
Have any ladies opted for Laser Hair Removal for their pelvic area?
I am interested if they are happy with the results, how many treatments it required, and if they would recommend it to others.
Size has never been an issue in my relationships, I fall for the girl, not her height.

I am 6 foot and my lover is 5'2"... never a problem and the attraction was there from the first moment.