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Over 90 days ago
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Quote by Saintz
I like watching amateur porn. The "real" pornactors are always overdoing it and it is way more fun to see regular people do it.
Maybe a show with strangers meeting just to fuck each other and afterwards tell how it was for them.
a reality show just got fucked??lol
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To read storys, the forums first because I could find answers and opinions on things I could not bring myself to ask, to not feel alone and learn that there are many who think and feel similar thoughts as we do. Now its also beginning to be to make friends that its safe to discuss said thoughs,feelings and experiences.
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very nicely said. Im asmall women and feel the same way. If everyone was alike we'd all be bored all the time. What a horror that would truly be. On side note I have found many years. Of people watching those larger women have for a great deal of the time a much better attitude and manner. Are more apt to humanize then the model types...Quote by Dirty_D
I've mostly avoided this thread as it's "ask the guys" but in reality, more guys then girls tend to answer the ask the girls threads anyway, so why shouldn't I put my two cents in.
I'm a big girl: I stand 6', weigh between 250(winter)-230(summer) #. I'm not a stick, never will be. But, that doesn't mean I'm not active of fit. I follow a primitive diet: vegetable based, very strict grain/dairy/sugar limitations, absolutely no processed foods. Typically I eat about 10-12 salads a week. I also exercise. In the past week alone, I ran 8 miles, and biked 85 miles(my summer plans include a century ride and a half marathon). Plus, school and work. So I'm not sitting around eating Doritos. To say that fat people are lazy can be both true and a misnomer. Like all else, it depends on the individual.
That said, I prefer fit women. I get very frustrated with threads like this as I find it to be an excuse for thin bashing and for plump girls to validate themselves. Neither is okay in my book. I'm a big girl. I'll own up to that. But I don't need a bunch of online people to tell me how they prefer me. I've got my good points, and my flaws. I'm aware of them both. Luckily for me, there are plenty of men who find me their cup of tea. We are all individuals and we are attracted to different things. What a boring place this earth would be if we were all the same.
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No way in hell!! First he was a jerk, second he knew as much as me and that was less then nothing,it hurt was never fun and gave me the entirely wrong idea about how sex was supposed to be. Majority of my time in life having sex was unenjoyable to me... thank god its in the past lol if I had it to do over would definitely be with someone who knew what they were doing!
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Ok bare with me. In all the time I've been here this is first time ive asked a question. My husband is really into fisting. I've never been able to do this with him, but I agreed to give it a shot....not going so well..it hurts and he hasn't even gotten there yet. Getting discouraged. How do I make this possible for him?? Im small statured at 5'2" 122lbs but geeze I've had 5 kids with him and I know he thinks that should make it easier but apparently it doesn't...help please ?
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Why would you have to be bi or gay? First if its a woman doing it ....obviously not gay. But to me even if you brought a guy into bedroom and he did does that really even make you bi?? I don't think so to me it would be bedroom fun. Either fulfilling her or your fantasy. And afterall fantasy is just that. Why does it need any other label? We have invited other females in, and I want to invite another man in but I still only consider myself bi curious. I don't want to be with another woman all the time, only when the mood strikes to spice things up...if he agreed to allow another man join I wouldn't thi k he was gay or bi, just interested in trying something new....
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The fact that you haven't been honest with your partner to me makes it cheating. Intimacy with anyone not your partner or their knowledge is cheating... it may sound trite but its true do as you would have done to you. Put yourself in your partners shoes.. how would you feel if you found out they were sharing intimacys with someone that wasn't you without your knowledge?? If you have to lie, sneak, or hide it you already have your answer... why not try sitting your partner down and telling them what your doing? Or what you want/need and why.. it may still hurt them but it could open lines of communication and put you and your partner on a whole new level. Who knows if you feelthis need maybe they have unmet needs too...could make everything even better all around..
he loves my finger though I know the right spot with that...