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Amnesia
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Male, 36
United States

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Capricorn, born in year of rabbit


I do however believe that when you where born has something to do with your personality.

Then again this may just be how i was raised, my mother was very spiritual so to speak.
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Yeah i contacted nicola, she is looking into it. Sent her the copy.
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Most replies i ever got on a thread, sweet.

I was starting to think no one read the forums, but me.
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lol nice, just testing the waters.

I am thinking of starting a scavenger hunt for subs, trying to get people more active on forums. Its been a little slow.

Pats the kitty on the head.
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Its just, to set up a scavenger hunt.

I don't expect all subs to comply. I am aware how it works. Relax.

Trying to get people more active.
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If you are a sub and you are reading this, you fail as a submissive.

If you are a dom and you are reading this, if you look down i have a subs read this thread. This is testing the waters for an idea i have, of starting a little scavenger hunt for subs.

Subs will be instructed to find pictures, look at certain profiles, read certain storys. Varies things, this is just good fun. Subs need attention, need affection and need to be played with. I want to see if any doms are interested with any ideas or what not.

Now we just gotta find some subs..........
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If you found your way here, you are a good sub following a command.

Now go to the bdsm looking thread and read what i wrote.

After Viewing what i wrote there. Return to this post.


Type i can read in response. As well as tell me one thing you saw on my profile.

If you followed all these steps, your a good subby. If not, are you really submissive?
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I agree Mart, sex, should be more then cumming, and rolling over to sleep, its an artform, a form of communication between you and your partner, You should be able to express your naughtiest thoughts, your passion, deepest desires, and act them all out, biggrin.

Yawns.....3 more subbies as friends.....grinds teeth.....the search continues.

Throws salt over my shoulder, what? gotta keep my karma good ya know. Can't wait to get my hands on the right sub.
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bunny that is funny as hell

I was born in year of rabbit, very funny to me indeed.



I agree on the fact that you should be interested in who ever you are involved with on not only a sexual level, but a personal level as well, a dom/sub relationship isnt just about sex. Well some are, but a truly great relationship has much more. Trust is the most important factor, getting to know someone can be a slow process, though most subs are eager to please a Dom or domme.

Seems you are looking for a female, same rules apply.

What do i know im still in my twentys, oh wait i have had a couple great relationships, been slow for me, but then again i dont bed any sub, only the sensational ones.
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:d/ what do you mean kinky?:d/

I thought putting a women in a collar, pulling at her leash to draw her close, ordering her on your lap, rubbing the leash across her breast, inserting varies anal toys into her ass as you whispered sweet somethings in her ear, and making her sleep at your feet was vanilla.

Wait till i start getn kinky

The perfect women is flawed, needy, hungry for more, sometimes needs to be put in her place, often needs a light spanking or two. Knows what she wants, melts at your fingers, and sharing isn't even an option. Sit, Stay, Rollover, Moan, Where did i put those handcuff keys?

Damn last one wasn't an order, i really need to keep a spare key.
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I was hopn people from illinois would read this, 13 views and no comments,

Stares back at you
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sorry transgenders, not shemales, for those that take offense
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I love shemales, shemales are the main reason i am bi.

I love the female form, but i dont hate cock.

I am a dom, and honestly i think the perfect sub would be a shemale, i only know two shemales in real life, they are a couple and inspire me to be more open everyday.

You go girls.
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I am a dom, looking for a sub.

I have concerns about the looking thread.

Very few people where sincere with there post, most of it was garbage, ten pages of garbage.

I spent the last seven hours sifting through the garbage to mail the few subs i found interesting.

Is it possible for a new thread to be posted, maybe have some requirements.
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hi all, I am a Dom, started out as a sub when i was 17, have about a decade exp in the lifestyle. My foundation is in pet play, my first mistress owned two subs, my partner in crime was a 43 year old women into age play.

I am looking for one sub for online play, and a real life subby to love. I started the thread Illinois Connections. I frequent the mens chatroom, at times the lush basement. I am working on bdsm, pet play stories for lush, editing etc at moment. I am a full time student, and usually not on thursday nights.

I moved away from illinois for awhile and now i am back, trying to form real life connections. I have pics on my profile. I am very openminded, and will speak with anyone on anything.


Collar views= I do not throw collars around like candy, Collars are a significant symbol of a doms feelings for their sub. I believe each one should be personalized to the sub, and no collar should ever be used on one sub then another. Collars are more significant to me then wedding rings. They form a true bond, and dont be offended if you do decide to become my sub and have to wait months to receive a physical collar.
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Hello all.

I am a dom in illinois looking to meet other people in the state. I use amnesia on all sights, so if you see me on other bdsm sites dont be afraid of me. Please note i no longer use all the sites. Lush is my main site these days.

Background: I started playing around with bdsm when i was 17, i started as a sub, i was lucky enough to find an understanding mistress at the time. Over the last decade i have grown into being more dominate. I moved away from illinois for awhile, but now im back. I am very open minded and will discuss just about anything with anyone. I have strong views on collars, I dont believe in throwing collars around like candy, i believe them to be a special bond between a dom and their sub.

Looking: I am interested in meeting real life friends, others into the lifestyle. I am interested in finding a real life subby to love, but not limited to that. I know in this day in age we all get busy with life, i am willing to take one online sub, knowing that not all people are looking for real life. Taking that into account i will never be here on a thursday night. At least not for the next four months. I started going back to college to finish up my degree and am a full time student. I make the time to get on lush almost every evening that i can.
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Collars are a dangerous thing, its a double edged sword.

Many subs believe that as soon as they get a dom, they will be collared. Not always the case.

A collar is a special symbol, showing a masters love for their sub or slave. Each collar should be personalized to the subs personality. Re using a collar is disrespectful to both your sub, and degrades your relationship with them.

However, being collared by a master does not mean you get your collar right away, personally i believe in taking the time to get to know the sub, having a steady bond before actually physically placing a collar on them.

I believe when a dom gives a collar to their sub or slave they are trusting them with a part of themselves. Do not be hasty my friends. Subs you are all lovely creatures, but be patient, we all know that dom/sub or slave, relationships are a process.
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Hello all, im a dom these days. I say that because when i first looked into bdsm at 17 many told me to try serving before dominating. I became a sub, to a mistress into pet play. My partner in crime was a sub into age play.

I have grown over the years, I avoid the darker sides of the art, scat, blood, hooks, needles, toilet play. None of these are my cup of tea.

I love, playing with subbys, i get more turned on pleasing my subs needs then my own, sensation play wether it be (water, was, electricity)/ pet play/ age play/ bondage, fetishes, etc.

I know that every sub has there own unique needs, I have never played with any two subs the same.

i have been known to push boundarys at times, but hell im a dom thats what i do.

The best doms know that when a sub says they arne't ok with it, then you need to stop. Dom doesnt mean god.

Experiencing both sides of the coins, i am strict when needed, always passionate, and understand that sub is not a slave, for those that dont understand the diffrence.

Sub= has the right to say no to something, You need to respect their boundarys, as a sub you should stand your ground, upsetting your Dom is one thing, betraying yoru beliefs are another.
Slave=doesnt have the right to say no

these are basic, i could expand them, but before declaring yourself a slave or a sub, you should understand the diffrence.

Looking for a female sub specifically for online play, thursday nights i will never be online. Most other nights here nightly. I am interested in real life as well, however i just recently moved back to illinois, and will be thrown out feelers.
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oh yeah can i have a random number too, im not really trying to win, but if it happens, errr, give it to the first person that dresses up as a sexy kitten, i love my pet play

oh yeah number......5 or....871....or 953

whatever is available, kisses all
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write those storys my lovelys, dont forget, free panties for all, silky of course
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im Bi , dont knock it till you try it.

I believe anyone thats purely straight just hasnt experimented enough, yeah laugh, roll your eyes.

It depends on the person but i have enjoyed the company of women, men, cd's, transgenders. It really isn't about ones parts, sex is an art form, a form of communication, passionate people are the best lovers, emotionless twits are the dead fish in the bedroom.

I use to be straight, i got into bdsm, and that is where i was introduced to my first cock. Yeah some punishment that turned out to be, i enjoyed it. biggrin I am grateful to all those into bdsm, that one doorway into the sexual community has opened up many more for me.
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of course i would, there are tons of people i would happily go out of my way to meet in person, those that have chatted with me, know that im very into details when it comes to chat sex. This alone should show what kind of person im into, caring about your partners satisfaction is a must, i take the time to satisfy them completly in real life as well. So yeah i would happily take the time to go out of my way to meet one of my buddys in real life, nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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i would love to get with a crossdresser

not only for the sex but maybe they can teach me a few things about dressing up myself biggrin