My wife
She makes me strive to be a better person everyday.
Why I'm sitting in the cold dark arctic at 5:25 am when I should be home wrapped up with my wife listening to her breathe.
We love it. We change who's on top pretty often. But we always seems to end up with him standing and her head hanging off the side of the bed. Her legs wide and pointing up and him fucking her mouth.
Wife and I were just discussing this. If he was confident enough to approach us and flirt with us equally that would be awesome. Never know where things may lead.
My wife is the perfect blend of both. Good girl reserved in public, bad girl in private, and very adventurous in nature. Funny part is she has always been this way. No one she dated would take the time to ask her what she wanted. So since we have been together it has been awesome to watch her transform. Best lover I've ever had. I'm honored to be the one to listen to her and ask what she wanted.
Boy shorts and thigh high nylons.
When I first introduced my wife to it (she was 39) I spent a lot of time teasing her anus with a well lubed finger. Very slowly and constantly reminding her to breathe and relax. I found with her that if I played with her clit as I was sliding a finger in her anus she would clench. So now I make it a point to stay away from her clit till she is good and relaxed and taking a couple of fingers. You also should seriously consider using some sort of a rubber glove it helps a ton. Also don't rush it. It can be very intense your first few times and depending on your lovers size you might not be able to handle more than a finger a two right away. Also invest in a small butt plug. I love it when my misses is worked up for anal she will put in her small butt plug and come snuggle on the couch with me to get relaxed. If you take your time you will find an amazing new sexual experience. Good luck and let us know how it goes.