I was just wondering because I see all variations of this in stories, what is the proper spelling and past tense use of this word?
I think it would be
Must have cum
or
came
"Come" is definitely the verb, meaning to orgasm. For example, "I'm going to come", "I'm coming", or "I came". The past tense is always "came". It's never ever "comed".
As for "cum", it's the noun meaning semen or sperm. For example, "I shot my cum all over her tits", or "my cock was oozing pre-cum through my pants".
I hate using "cum" as the verb, such as "cumming" or "cummed", but as a story moderator, I'll let it slide. The one that really chaps my ass though is when people use "cum" in place of "orgasm" or "climax" etc. For example, "I had such a good cum." *shudders*
My latest story is a racy little piece about what happens when someone cute from work invites you over to watch Netflix and Chill. I hate, hate, hate any form of slang, the only one you'll catch me do is "lol" (not in a story, but ever) I use come and came. I despise the word "cum" to me, it is very juvenile. But, I don't judge those who choose to use it. Everyone has their own style of writing and spelling.
Cummed aint a proper word.
Come n came
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
I prefer the cum/came combo.
I've never liked the use of 'come' versus 'cum' simply because 'cum' is just shorthand for 'succumbed', which when used in a sexual sense is to 'succumb to pleasure'.
I get that came is just past-tense of come, but it makes more sense to me than cummed. *Cringes*
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I like cumming myself. I also appreciate the simple and straightforward cum. Paste tense is came.
“It's nice sometimes to open up the heart a little and let some hurt come in. It proves you're still alive.”
Please don't use 'cummed'...just so wrong.
The responses here are fairly standard. Almost every thread of this nature, no matter where it appears, trends toward "come" as the verb and "cum" as the noun, with "come" being acceptable for the noun as well.
But you can rest assured that there are numerous authors looking at the screen and muttering that "cum" is a perfectly legitimate verb in all its tenses. They typically won't say anything because nearly every post in the thread is looking down its nose at them, up to the level of treating them as sub-human.
They're not alone, either. I've had feedback many times in the past where readers dinged me for using "come" as the verb for orgasm with the same fervor you see when people mess up their/there/they're. I've had people blast me with a 1 over it.
So there are segments of the readership out there who not only consider "cum" legitimate, but believe it to be the only proper usage. ( This despite major dictionaries providing definitions to prove them wrong, while many don't have "cum" defined in this capacity yet. )
when in doubt ask yourself, "What would Lenny Bruce do?"
“It's nice sometimes to open up the heart a little and let some hurt come in. It proves you're still alive.”