I'm speaking as a late comer to sex/porn/erotica sites, having only started with a computer when I was in my eighties.
My wife and I were born and brought up in an era when sex was very much a hidden subject, when you were supposed to go to the marriage bed as virgins, - and it is surprising how many were, - especially girls. (No I'm not being sexist.) This was the time when mothers told their daughters that sex was something that men required, and to "lie back and think of England". Perhaps not literally, but to that effect. However, many (most) came to find it enjoyable, depending on their man's attitude towards them. But the amount and variety of sex was rather restricted, or unknown. The purpose of this preamble is to give an idea of my sexual experience before I stumbled across pornography/erotica.
After my wife died I turned to my newly acquired computer, and inevitably discovered 'porn'. This came as a complete and utter shock, at the amount and openness of what was on offer, and I became completely fascinated and dragged in. Now, after five+ years of exploration, the fascination has worn off, and I can look at the subject dispassionately, and , I think, see a difference between pure porn, and erotica. I think porn is more visual than literary. True, some of the more extreme writings could come under porn, but what I have read on here seem to be of a very high standard.
So I would say that Lush is a very high class site of friendship and erotica, where your own sense of sexual freedom can be expressed, but not a porn site.
Lush is not a porn site - it is mainly a place to post and read erotic stories. A lot of what members post on the site - on their own profile, and on others' profiles is porn - and I am as guilty as anyone else; and a lot of what is posted in the chat rooms is porn - again I hold my hand up, although I have decided to give up chat rooms, where I have been made to feel very unwelcome at times by younger members, most of whom have published nothing. The main reason I am here is to publish my stories and learn from other writers, and to chat one-to-one about all sorts of subjects to my close friends and my lover, whose support is a blessing and a delight.
I haven't been a member on here very long to have a solid opinion, but from what I've seen so far I wouldn't consider this as a porn site at all!
To me, Lush is a place where you can talk about things that you can rarely discuss in Real Life. People are free to admit their kinks to the world. Where else do you find people who describe their last masturbation session, or last night's sex, or their biggest sexual fantasy?
I have found lush to be very liberating, and I have seen new users go from shy and uptight to sexually open to anything. You don't have to hide anything, like you do in RL.
I think of Lush as a kinky community website. As for porn? Come on, any website that you have to hide the screen from co-workers...it's porn.
Is there anything else on The Internet other than porn?
Its at low end of. Porn. But isnt porn just that.....porn
No.....I think lynda should be a lush spokesmodel
Absolutely not!
Lush is a beautiful and safe place for human beings to explore sexuality, learn and grow whether through reading stories of other member's lives or dreams or by meeting people and learning about ourselves through their eyes.
True that Lush has displayed many erotic pictures of the naked body - but the human body is glorious even when not "perfect", whatever that means. (Regarding nudity: Is the Creator of The Universe a pornographer?)
Also true, there are or have been some members who may want porn or other un-tasteful content and activities but we have the ability to choose or deselect whatever and whomever we wish.
Thank you Nicola for creating and maintaining this wonderful place.
Gramps
The quiet and always horny old guy in Sunny Florida USA
No Lush is a multi faceted Diamond, there are pages for everyone and a lot of pages for particular people. I like it for the variety of all the various Chapters, subjects and people. Its rather like going into an old mansion, you never know what is around the corner ! Loving it
while there is a lot of pornography on lush it doesn't seem to be a pure porn site to me.
I don't think so but the porn filter on the work wifi seems to think so. Interestingly, tumblr is not per said controls.
No I do not. But I know the filter blocking of it does exist at some locations
Lush is a porn site. If you want a non-porn story site then go to the blue sister site of Lush.
No. I would say erotica not porn.
I think it is a site where people are open to share all of thier sexual thoughts and desires no matter how extreme they are.
how is this porn? Porn is porn.
This is reading
It sort of is but the forum at least isn't designed to get people off (well for the most part it isn't). I sort of wish all the pornographic images were not there on the story section of the site though as it makes potentially getting caught reading porn stories much higher.
I Think of it more as a social media site more then porn...
yes especially finding friends
Yeah, I'd say it's porn but intelligent porn! It's helped me a lot. The feedback on my writing is great and the forums are a help to everyone. Porn or not; great site!
not porn
as for the other question
has lush helped me
yes my writing is improving and I made some awesome friends and have enjoyed being here !
stay naughty,,
Feline