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If you were to get a divorce would you get married again?

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bluewolf12
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Got divorced after found out she was cheating on me while at work thing is married her again a year later guess I'm sucker lol
wistful_wonderer
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I can't be certain that I would. I would probably be like my father. He was married to my mother for 19 years before they divorced. He's never remarried and at this point probably never will. I see the loneliness from remarrying. My mother did remarry and is more miserable in her 2nd marriage. I guess I am saying I wouldn't remarry lightly. I would have to enjoy another's company more than I enjoy my own. Oh and I suppose being divorced would help too.

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I very much doubt it, though you can never say never.
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I say NO way, right now, but if the right man came along then who knows.
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NO...I would NOT remarry again. I've been deeply hurt/divorced by 1st wife and hurt by 2nd wife. I'm just miserably hanging on for the last 20 plus years of our 42 year marriage. My pride is a big stumbling block.




I forgot I had commented on this earlier. My answer is still the same! Some pain kinda/sorta goes away over the years, but other just festers and grows worse. Its just "too complicated" now for me ... but I would welcome being "alone" again if possible.
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I love my wife, but after 33years - Nah I don't think so!
Lilly
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I dreamt of the perfect marriage as a little girl and I have really tried. Now that I have found a beautiful honest love, I fear my time for marriage has ran out. I am going to focus on being happy and tell my inner little girl that happy is indeed enough. heart
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I don't think so.

When I commit it's just that, a commitment. I've been married once for 43 years but it wasn't necessary for me. She felt different but that's okay, she is a person in her own right and I'll give her what she needs as long as it's what we agree on.

We talk and decide together.

I love analogy so for this it's akin to buying a car. You will NEVER find one that's perfect in every respect. You just have to decide what you'll give up or tolerate to keep them. Of course she has exactly the same choices. If it's not mutual it'll never work so both are happy.

I hope all of you find what you "Need" because for most we just take what we want and regret it later. When it's coming to and end it's a very sad thing. Very difficult no matter why so for all in a situation like Firefly and others above, do NOT let it destroy you. You are what you allow yourself to be, and that can be happy.
I am always a gentleman.
LadyX
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Seems like an impossible question to answer. I have no way of knowing how I'd feel if I were ever divorced. I think I'll just try to make my current scene work for the long haul.
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no is the short answear
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Been there - done that.
Painful-yes it was. Cheating had nothing to do with it, either time, on either party. I am still civil to my ex's. Other things happen, even against our wishes or best efforts. I do not believe in divorce -(my religion), but most people do not marry believing it will happen or they might not marry in the first place. I do not always bounce back quickly either, however, I remain open-minded. I have been asked.

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I used to think I would, but life lessons teach us more each year. If I ever divorce my husband, I think I am done! Every man I have ever been with has cheated on me including my husband. I have no intention to go through it ever again. On a good note, my husband has grown up finally after 17 years and realizes that isn't how marriage works.
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I fought very hard to keep my marriage alive, and there was a lot that was good about it. When it ended I hoped that I would find someone new quickly, would marry, and would live happily ever after. While I still would love to be married again I won't die if I don't. I have discovered all sorts of different ways of relating intimately, and that has been satisfying.
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Nope, just the thought of losing hubby makes the heart heavy.
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Not a show of that happening !
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I'm on my second marriage, but it wasn't a result of divorce, so I can't speak from experience. But, just because something failed once, doesn't mean it will always be that way. I think if you look back with honesty and see where you succeeded and where you failed, and learn from that, you can move on. If being alone isn't your thing, then, go for it! But just don't jump in too quickly.
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NO (If I could find the HTML code on Lush that gives heavy under-lining and bold I'd use it.)
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Marriage! Marriage is a sacred institution.. if I was divorced or widowed... I would not need to be institutionalized again!
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Not right away. I would definitely want to enjoy being on my own again for a while. I wouldn't rule it out, though. If I did, I would be looking for a rather different person and relationship than the one I left.


Ditto for me
JohnSmith10
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If i found the right person again but like others i'd have to be alone for a little while
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I would say no. A big NO!!!

If I were to find myself single again I would take my time for me, not another man. I am not saying there wouldnt be room for another relationship sometime (much further down the road). As for marrying again, very hard to see it happening.
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I have no idea.
ChuckEPoo
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Been there done that. I was divorced and remarried. Most people that divorce get remarried in a hurry. They get use to the constant companionship. Being alone and not lonely is difficult.
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It would depend on how the marriage ended, but i've never been through that. But i would like to think i would be able to get married again.
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No