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How many Lush users have you revealed your real identity to? How did it go?

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The only things I don't reveal about myself online are my business/home address and phone numbers. My face, name, hometown, and personal history are all visible to anyone online here and on the various other sites I've habituated for years. My name and photos are even searchable on Google.
I am single and I dont have any problem revealing my personal information. Nobody is going to stalk me or knock on my door uninvited.
No one.

This is my online playground. The consequences of the world offline are unnecessary here.

That information isn't required to have a good time and that's what I love about sites like these. It's an anonymous (kind of) network where people of all walks of life can come together and share our experiences or literary works.


If you mean personality wise then all who i talk to know the real me, who i am here is who i am in real life and quite possibly im more myself here then i am in real life because here i dont need to tone myself down due to social convention and norms.

If you mean knowing my full name, adress, phone, social media and so on- then its none and i would like to keep it that way.
One person. I gave it to him in a very creative way. We have a mutual understanding. Plus he is open as well, has a cool personality, but also very mature.
ZERO

Except for..........
Although I like to take chances, I do not give private details such as address, info on family or my place of employment....if you want to send me flowers, it will have to be pick up only smile
Joy and a few others know my true number and photos.... Must recently put real photos on my page because my trust is higher....
There's one who my phone number and email. All others can see the real me if you become my friend...
There are maybe 20 or so who know my real first name and/or age. there are maybe 6 or 8 that know my full name and address, 5 that have been to my home at least once, a good dozen or so that have an email addie, 3 or 4 that have my phone number. I have met 18 lushies IRL, and voiced with another 10 or 11. how did it go? for the most part, it has been all good. there are a couple I wish I had not ever met, but the ones that I have revealed more about myself to are all fine.

I have been very careful (for the most part) in meeting people, doing it mostly in public places first. one I actually traveled to New Zealand in 2012 and stayed with her for 17 days.
There is one guy I became close to, that I met on lush. We are fb forms and we message each other a lot. We still send each other pics and he, yesterday sent me a video of himself jerking off. Sadly I'm in the u.s and he is in England. But if we ever meet in person... Sex!!!!
I did once. NEVER EVER AGAIN. She hurt me emotionally more than I wish to ever experience again. NEVER WILL EVER FUCKING HAPPEN AGAIN
I have to all that have asked and reciprocated. I can't recall any notably bad experiences but I still do prefer to have my privacy up until I become comfortable with a person and have built up some sort of long-term rapport.

I can’t think of a good tagline so this will have to do. Suggest a better one for me?

I'm very tight with any and all personal info.
Yes I have with 5 women and 2 men and so far all is good... smile
Great minds think alike but dirty minds work together.... ;)
One, and got to spend Christmas at her parents


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I guess, relatively speaking, quite a lot of people know quite a lot about me. Lush friends have sent me things by post, called me on the phone, and seen me on (fully clothed). Never actually met with anyone, but certainly many people have seen pictures of me, and I them.

Of course, what constitutes my "real identity" is more of a philosophical issue. Why is the Lush-me any less the "real" me?

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A handful know quite a bit about me - name, personal details, where I live in general.

Only one knows, or has ever known, or will ever know, my heart.
A couple of members....Going great
you see I am who I say I am and the pictures are all of me so I would have to say that anybody who can read or view my pictures know who I am. if somebody wants to really get to know me then yes I will tell more of my kinks and perks. so I guess everybody who has talked to me
Just re-read what I posted on this thread four years ago. I've been here too long.

Best advice: the only people you should ever tell stuff to are people who don't want to know
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i am 100% real up front on my profile, no need to reveal anything. its all there for you to see.
At least four, and three that I now have as good friends outside Lush. One I see regularly for some fun times!!!