So long as you're both over the age of legal consent, it doesn't really matter. Maturity and age aren't inevitably paired together. Many older people are quite childish and immature and there are many younger people who are wise and experienced far beyond their years. Beyond that, it's just a matter of mutual attraction.
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How big a gap in years would you consider ok for a sexual partner?
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I began to fear the young. I can feel it. I don't know what happened to me.
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For just sex... anything between 21 and 50
For an actual relationship, i'd go between 35 and 45
For an actual relationship, i'd go between 35 and 45
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For sex? Anyone ready willing and able over 18, but for a full relationship, the age difference would be less important that attitude as long as we were able to do things together.
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when I was 40 had a young woman of 20 for a year , so now that I am 64 I would have to say 44 but wouldn't turn down a 34 O I would say 20 difference would work for me
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Well, I wouldn't go for a partner older than myself these days, otherwise, I couldn't care less.
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Quote by 4myjunkI agree. My last three partners have all been in their 60's.
For sex? Anyone ready willing and able over 18, but for a full relationship, the age difference would be less important that attitude as long as we were able to do things together.
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Legal and older
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I'm in my forties and am happy with 25 years older and 25 years younger for a sex partner
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for me, I would have to say the youngest 25 and the oldest 70. I have seen some very beautiful and sexy 60+ Ladies!
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youngest 25 and oldest 65
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The biggest age gap I have had is 14 years older than me.
But yesterday I met a 50 year old man (I'm 29) and I can't stop thinking of fucking him. He is delicious and the age gap wouldn't bother me. I've felt similar with men in their late fifties too.
It's not an age gap or anything tangible that matters. It's personal and each case is different!
But yesterday I met a 50 year old man (I'm 29) and I can't stop thinking of fucking him. He is delicious and the age gap wouldn't bother me. I've felt similar with men in their late fifties too.
It's not an age gap or anything tangible that matters. It's personal and each case is different!
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The most for me was 10 years. That's a safe number I think.
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I would be comfortable with an age difference of up to fifty years. In reality, my first husband was twelve years older than me, and my last girlfriend was fourteen years younger.
Looks like we're in for a nasty spell of wether.
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20yrs
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Age is just a number. Looks, attitude, and personality are more important.
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Age does not matter... i have been with guys much older then me
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I am not very experienced, but in the last 116 cocks (sorry boys but for the moment you are just cocks) I find the men over 60 are by far the best lovers and they are followed by the men over 50.
My annoying men are all in their 20-30s and I think they watch too much misogynistic porn. But they learn quickly if they want to fuck me, being polite and quick to obey, plus of course fuck like a mad man on steroids with an Energizer Bunny probe stuck up his ass!
Now mixing in a few 20s guys after the 60 year olds have warmed me up and given a few dozen orgasms, then a young cock works fine, but they are not very good to warm me up.
I will be forming my "Private Pleasure Circle" which will be men tested and only involved with me and my girlfriends so we can do bareback and my cuckold slaves can do clean up.
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My annoying men are all in their 20-30s and I think they watch too much misogynistic porn. But they learn quickly if they want to fuck me, being polite and quick to obey, plus of course fuck like a mad man on steroids with an Energizer Bunny probe stuck up his ass!
Now mixing in a few 20s guys after the 60 year olds have warmed me up and given a few dozen orgasms, then a young cock works fine, but they are not very good to warm me up.
I will be forming my "Private Pleasure Circle" which will be men tested and only involved with me and my girlfriends so we can do bareback and my cuckold slaves can do clean up.
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Oh a few things. My husband is 31 years older than I am and is an Alpha.
My girlfriend is 21 years younger.
the 116 was just in the last 3 weeks. My husband, who is a sexual psychotherapist and I are developing a training program to teach women how to be multiorgasmic and men how to properly attend to a woman's sexual, mental, gastronomic and physical needs, being more successful with women.
Anyone interest please feel free to contact me. Hope this is allowed.
My girlfriend is 21 years younger.
the 116 was just in the last 3 weeks. My husband, who is a sexual psychotherapist and I are developing a training program to teach women how to be multiorgasmic and men how to properly attend to a woman's sexual, mental, gastronomic and physical needs, being more successful with women.
Anyone interest please feel free to contact me. Hope this is allowed.
remember to always
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Your Goddess Germanika
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I'll be honest here. I need to have a relationship with a man before I have sex with him. I've never just had sex for the sake of sex. Not judging, just saying that isn't me. Most of my boyfriends have been within a few years of me for that reason, too far either direction and you start having less and less in common. However, I guess the real answer is that as long as the two people are comfortable with whatever age spread there is between them (legally that is), then it shouldn't matter to anyone else. That said...
I had a great relationship with a man who was eight years my senior while I was an intern in Law School. He was my mentor and I guess technically it was a bit daring and perhaps a violation of the firm's policy but we rationalized it by telling ourselves it was OK because I wasn't really part of the firm. Legal sophistry looking back on it. We meshed very well together, both emotionally and physically but we never thought of each other as boyfriend/girlfriend even though we were certainly an "item." I learned a lot from him in both areas too. Among other things, he taught to appreciate my ass, introducing me to anal sex which has since that time been one of my great joys and pleasures.
One more thing, sometimes too great an age spread can cause other problems. I know this man who is in his 70's but who has a very youthful outlook on life. When his wife of some 50 years died, he ended up marrying a girl in her 20's! Now he had daughters who were grown and had had children. Him and his new wife had a daughter who was younger than any of his grandchildren at the time. That puts both them and his child in an awkward position, especially in family gatherings. We might not like it, but we are ALL constantly judged, both by those who know us (not just our peers either) but those who don't know us. Children are especially susceptible to peer pressures/judgment and adults don't often take that into consideration.
I had a great relationship with a man who was eight years my senior while I was an intern in Law School. He was my mentor and I guess technically it was a bit daring and perhaps a violation of the firm's policy but we rationalized it by telling ourselves it was OK because I wasn't really part of the firm. Legal sophistry looking back on it. We meshed very well together, both emotionally and physically but we never thought of each other as boyfriend/girlfriend even though we were certainly an "item." I learned a lot from him in both areas too. Among other things, he taught to appreciate my ass, introducing me to anal sex which has since that time been one of my great joys and pleasures.
One more thing, sometimes too great an age spread can cause other problems. I know this man who is in his 70's but who has a very youthful outlook on life. When his wife of some 50 years died, he ended up marrying a girl in her 20's! Now he had daughters who were grown and had had children. Him and his new wife had a daughter who was younger than any of his grandchildren at the time. That puts both them and his child in an awkward position, especially in family gatherings. We might not like it, but we are ALL constantly judged, both by those who know us (not just our peers either) but those who don't know us. Children are especially susceptible to peer pressures/judgment and adults don't often take that into consideration.
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For quick meaningless sex - does it matter?
For a relationship - it depends on so many things that it is impossible to say in general.
For a relationship - it depends on so many things that it is impossible to say in general.
I am 65 year old man and realize I have some health related limitations that can be overcome. In some chat rooms it seems that there is an openness from women younger than me to have a relationship with a man my age. I also am fine with any age. There are more important characteristics-humor, compassion, self respect, intimacy, passion, intelligence-I believe these need to be present no matter long term or short term sex relationship.