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Have you Ever lied about your "number?"

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A recent study from the University of Glasgow indicated that men are more likely to exaggerate their number of sexual partners than women.

It also found that women are more likely to under-estimate their number of partners...

Men, it turned out, claimed an average of 14 sexual partners over their lifetime, while women reported only seven.

Statistics released by the dating app Tinder show that men use a broader strategy, indicating their approval of someone's photo by swiping right on 46% of profiles, while women swipe right on only 14%. A study of raw data from Tinder also found that about 80% of female users are all competing for the same 20% of men.

I think it's pretty obvious that men are perceived as more desirable if they are desired by other women. So it makes sense for men to overestimate their number.

Women seem more likely to underestimate their number in fear of being "slut-shamed." Side Note: I hate the term "slut-shame."

So have you ever lied about your number? Do you care about your partner's number? Do you think this is something that should even be brought up in a relationship?


don't think it should matter, honestly. anyone asks, i simply admit to being experienced. and honestly, i have no idea of what my number is. *shrugs*

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

Nope, nope and nope. It doesn't bother me. It's about the relationship between you both when you're together. Obviously, if your partner is riddled with STI's and has about 30 kids with other women then that's a different matter...
Nope. I've never lied about it, if I bother to actually tell it at all. It is not a big secret but those kinds of things are nicely expressed to those you like and trust.
Of course not! Then again, I do have a 13 inch horse cock so why would I?
i've never been asked - nor do i inquire. it's irrelevant. i'm more concerned with whether or not you practiced safe sex.

Say. Her. Name.


Yes I've lied and will continue to do so lol
I don't tell my number.
No...Why would ya do that?...Kinda mean don't ya think?...You reap what ya sow I think.

I tell them I don't give meine number out to just everyone I've only met,
they can have it after I know them better, and they can have mey email now if they like,...which is the truth.
If that's not ok with them, then I not think they very interested in me.

Has nothing to do if I want them to fuck me. Not need my number for that...
No, but I usually don't keep track of the exact number, so I just give a close approximation if asked.
It's not something I volunteer and, if asked, how I answer depends on the asker. If my wife is in any way involved or likely to hear it, it's "one". If not (e.g. on Lush), then it's "more than one".

As for how I feel about other's numbers, I'm not fussed about it. If they have a history, that's enough for me to know. I don't need the accounting.
What the hell difference does it make....asking that question only shows a level of immaturity and probably, insecurity on the behalf of the asker. No matter how small or large the number might be, who would keep track of such a thing. That's like asking me how many orgasms I have had in my life.....
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No, but I usually don't keep track of the exact number, so I just give a close approximation if asked.


3,433? just a guess biggrin

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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3,433? just a guess biggrin


Hey! That's a prime number! (not a correct number, but it's prime!)
I did when I was younger because I didn't want anyone to think I was a slut. I couldn't do it now even if I wanted to because I have no clue what the number is, nor do I care about whether or not anyone thinks I'm a slut.

I might have cared about the number of sexual partners when I was younger. I couldn't care less now. It's more important to me that they are clean of any STD's. I also never think talking about previous lovers is a good thing, unless it turns you on, it doesn't do much for me.
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Hey! That's a prime number! (not a correct number, but it's prime!)


i am a math genius, as everyone knows

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

No I don’t lie, and if I’m in a relationship with someone I will tell them my number if it’s important to them... I don’t care TOOOO much about numbers as long as they are upfront and honest and doesn’t have any diseases.
Everybody lies, so it's pointless.
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.


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When I was younger I used to keep track of my number... It was important for me back then for some reason. I was kind of anxious and thought I only had a short amount of time to fuck as much as possible. When you're 20, you think your life is going to be over at 30.

But now I don't care.
That's nothing, Damon. We used to keep track of how many people we'd kissed. Strangely I would lie about that and say more because I'd always kissed fewer people than my friends. When we all started having sex though I made a few mistakes while drunk at parties so would lie and say less.

I'm so glad I'm not in my 20's anymore and have to worry about any of that shit.
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Everybody lies, so it's pointless.


Right on
I only lie about the number of people I've murdered. (coincidentally, it's the same number of people I've had sex with)
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I only lie about the number of people I've murdered. (coincidentally, it's the same number of people I've had sex with)


You've tried to seduce me a number of times, should I be worried? *narrows eyes*

Hey Beth
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You've tried to seduce me a number of times, should I be worried? *narrows eyes*

Hey Beth


...only if I succeed!

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...only if I succeed!



i have my eye on you...

You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.

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There will only be one that ever counts. sigh


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