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ScreamQueen
living dead girl
Very good question
probably not obviously something in lacking in their marriage

Though really its a hard question to answer
I am sure for some not many but some they just need a connection to someone else besides the one they are married to..
spending all your time with the same person everyday for years at a time can be hard.
curious3045
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Quote by MarinaC
Since I'm in this situation, I'll give you some of my thoughts on the matter. My opinion is that not getting enough sex isn't a grounds for divorce by any stretch of the imagination. No relationship is perfect and never will be. I am happy the majority of the time and I don't want to change that. Now whether or not coming here and flirting online etc is right or wrong, I can't say. I will say that coming here and flirting makes me happy which makes me feel better all day long. And as the saying goes, happy wife, happy life.

It's a tough question and there probably isn't a good answer.


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Hmmm....I will say just for me.. not for anyone else...If I was...I wouldnt be here....
Coco
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Interesting.

I've often thought about what brings folks to Lush besides the stories, and why they stay. This answers that question and provokes more. Anyway, I am happily married. My husband knows that I am here, does not have an account here, but doesn't hesitate to read what I do here. I don't do anything that would hurt him. We have boundaries that are just not worth me encroaching upon, who needs unnecessary grief in their home? At times Lush makes me ...thirsty, and when he cannot quench my thirst, there are one or two here that can. He knows that and appreciates it, in fact, it often turns him on. I'm lucky that I don't have to hide it from him, grateful too.

No judgement from me, to each his own.
lotmorethanfun
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Quote by MorePleasin
I think it is natural to look around, flirt, and engage in lusty thoughts about others you are not married to, even when in a successful long-term and long-lasting relationship. We are more like bonobos than we want to believe.

Thoughts are not criminal. The only potential problem occurs when it goes beyond thoughts and becomes reality. And then, to each his/her own, in terms of what is tolerable. There seems to be a wide spectrum of what is considered acceptable, and that level of acceptance seems to vary throughout a longer relationship, so I will not pretend to have the right answer.

However, one should always remain cognizant of what might be put at risk by engaging in sites like this, or in extramarital dating sites, and any of the associated activities that relate to others outside of an established relationship. Your SO may be OK with what is happening, while someone else's SO is opposed. Probably, many justifications are founded on two principles: 1. It makes me feel good, better than I would feel otherwise; 2. I don't want or intend to hurt anyone else. In the ideal world, all things can be communicated freely and openly, so everyone is at least aware, if not also in agreement. It is the communication that is often the most difficult, and not undertaken because it is quite likely that someone will feel hurt.


I so agree with you. I make my own ruled and abide by them. Yes, I am a flirt and feel good about it. But I know my limits! Angela
Rider47
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Nope....And shes not either cuz it goes together.
matureman56
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I am sure it can happen but probably not often. Personally speaking, I discovered cyber when my marriage was going down the pan so was not happily married.