I've noticed- both with the girls that I work with and with the girls online here at Lush that easily half of them call themselves bi-sexual.
With guys though, you hardly ever see a guy call themselves bi-sexual on Lush, and I don't have any girlfriends that have dated bisexual guys, so what is the deal?
Are there really 10 times as many bisexual girls as there are guys? Or are the bisexual guys, except for a brave few, homophobic and in the closet, afraid to be honest about themselves?
I fail to see how a bisexual male can be homophobic, without also being schizophrenic.
I do enjoy seeing males who proclaim to be 'mostly hetero', but also professing an interest in, or fantasies with cocks and scrotums, which are not their own.
How does that work?
The same GQP demanding we move on from January 6th, 2021 is still doing audits of the November 3rd, 2020 election.
In my opinion it is sexist. There are more bisexual girls than there are bisexual dudes. I mean when I was in High School, about 50% of the females were bisexual or lesbian, when the guys percentage was around 5-10%. I think guys just have a bigger ego. Especially in today's world.
I think Dancing_Doll has a very fair point... I have friends, who have on nights out snogged each other, to get drinks out of men.
Also there was a saying going around - I'm all for gay marriage, as long as both girls are really hot! It's sad but true, that girl on girl action is more sociably acceptable than guy on guy, and it tends to get more and more acceptable the more attractive the women are...
Or maybe it just that more women are interested in both sexes than men are...
one word: hedonist
Pursuit of or devotion to pleasure, especially to the pleasures of the senses.
Some people are true hedonists without boundaries of gender.
Van
I think there are lots of reasons why if a man is bisexual he may not want to advertise it.
Female bisexuality and female homosexuality are more acceptable by both males and females. Gay and bisexual men, IMHO face far greater bias in society at large. There are lots of reasons why some men prefer to remain in the closet, shame, fear of being found exposed, social status, all kinds of reasons where the man fears some kind of retribution for coming out. I would wager that more females are turned off by male on male action where the same females are not turned off by female to female action. Rejection by females plays a role in male behavior, that is we act, sometimes to our detriment based on our desire for female acceptance. So, a bi male would not want to lose the affections and approval of females, things gay males don't worry about. Its complicated.
I know a lot of gay guys but come to think of it no bi guys that have admitted it to me.
Throughout time, men were always seen as the strong ones in control. And of course, men come with egos. Think about it, anal is one of the most submissive positions. Being on your knees is also very submissive. Some men don't want to be seen as weak to the population.
It's been my experience there are lots of bi sexual men on Lush they just don't advertise it and they are not really homo phobic they just don't want to deal with the stigma involved. They lead everyday lives where their partners or friends would never accept their bi sexuality so keep their true desires hidden. This goes for many hetero submissive men too. They all seem to be quite surprised to find out a dominant woman with a strap on can ring their bell better than anything! hehehe I never seem to have a lack of men who have that little epiphany after I'm done with them. I've also run into a lot of women claimiing to be bi sexual but have really never been with a women sexually so are really just curious I suppose.
Bunny12
Bunny Rabbits cute and fuzzy they want to love you but they have razor sharp teeth - don't piss them off! ok.. I will out myself.. I am physically attracted to beautiful female impersonators and very femish shemales.. somehow I can rationalize the fact that they are piped the same as me.. I am not attracted to males nor would I seek contact individually... I also have been in 3somes where male contact has been made and wasn't rejected.. now that being said.. WMM you have absolutely no chance of reaching into my pockets.. unless Bunny or Lady is between us...
I have had a few experiences that may be considered to be homosexual in nature, but I wouldn't consider myself gay or even Bi. Bi-curious would be a more apt title. Of all the 'gay' experiences that I have had it was always in the presence of my wife as part of a threesome (well, ok. All but one).
Unfortunatly, some professions would take an extremely dim view of an openly gay or even bi male. I suppose that I could be an ass right now and say that it is perfectly alright for an interior designer or hair stylist to be gay and quite open about it, but it would be another story altogether for Charlie working the third shift at the local steel mill or Frank running the steam roller building the new section of I-86 in PA.
Therefore; I will come out and say it... I am a bi-curious male but shall remain in the closet about it.
A lot of people just don't want to label themselves. Many men feel that to label themselves as bisexual really means gay. Are you gay just because you fantasized about sex with another man or do you actually have to do the deed? Are you gay because you just want to have sex with another man or only if you are interested in romance as well?
Erotica is writing that is intended to arouse and excite sexual feelings and desires in the writer. We read erotica to get turned-on, to get hot and bothered, to get hard and wet. Admit it. Enjoy it.
I thought everybody knew this: guys don't want to out themselves in front of a group of straight guys, and I think it's safe to say that most guys here are straight. The same is true in life. But when a guy who is on the DL finds a guy that he is attracted to, he will send the signal. I get them from guys all the time, but I let them down easy most of the time and tell them I really don't want anything to do with other men. It took courage to approach me, I realize that, and it happens a lot.
funny, but i had this conversation recently with a male friend. our conclusion is that it's more socially acceptable for a girl to label herself as bi. many women are ok with it, and men think that girl on girl sex is hot PLUS if they are bi, they have a chance to get involved as well. On the other hand, most men would probably be labled as gay if they admitted to liking other men, despite the fact that they also like woman, hence they are afraid to admit their attraction to other men.
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
I find that I am not attracted to men at all....but...along with women, I am also interested in transexuals and CDs. Sure, I know they have a cock and balls and some of my fantasies have included such things. So yes, I've fantasized about cocks before...The difference for me is that it has to be someone that looks like a woman. I can't get excited over a hairy guy with a cock (or even a guy that has no hair) but someone that has a womans face who also has a cock, yes, I can get excited over that. Does that make me gay or bi-sexual? I don't know and really I don't care. It's just a label after all.
But I think the original question has already been answered. I believe there are 2 answers to this and that one is the answer of women being prettier. I believe the second part of the answer is that in general, guys will not admit to liking another guy or a cock. It's the way we have been brought up and the way society leads us for now.
i understand, dont forget that along with men who will be hiding the fact they are bi, not every man like anal. so they might be mentally attracted to men but say they are not because they dont feel they could have a physical relationship.
so maybe its just factors which are more apparent to men than they are to women.
HH
