Not all of us are assholes. Some of us are nice guys. But if you use a pic of your very sexy body as your avatar, you are kind of inviting the creeps to hit on you.
yes this is so true i have a bunch of creeps in my ignore list....they just dont get that women dont want to be attacked....we want to be befriended first.....we're not like guys we dont think with the thing between our legs
Yup, totally agree with you. There are a few nice guys on here though, you just have to find em.
I hope I'm not creepy. I love the lush ladies! In a total brotherly love type of way.
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I agree with you the type of picture you have for your av shouldn't mean anything and like Jebru said not all of us guys on here are assholes I have a lot of girlfriends on here some that are guys to and hold normal conversations all the time with them. But just cause you put a sexy pic up does't mean they should give you any less respect then you would get otherwiese ya know? I try to be nice to all the ladies I meet on here and have made some very good friends since joining Lush.
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Well there you go bikebum; you meet interesting people on here, and yeah if you talk to them for a while it may lead to some naughty conversations. There’s nothing wrong with that, we’re all adults here --- but come on some guys can’t even talk right, and they’re asking for naked pictures, that’s what gets me mad. They make no sense at all, but they feel like a fucken Casanova and shit...
I ended up turning chat off. It seemed like I was only being contacted by men who wanted to turn the conversation in the cyber direction. The private messages I get are always friendly and I enjoy reading those.
Me too, dont close it!
Its not that hard to just ignore the perverts really is it??
I think the type of guys being referenced here are getting a little desperate with so many of you females blocking your IMs. I have a high volume of guys trying to IM me lately. I generally don't respond to any IMs from handles I don't recognize from the forums postings.
"I can resist everything except temptation." - Oscar Wilde
The whole purpose of chat was for meeting people and chatting maturely. Nic's fed up with handling problems from people abusing it and I don't blame her if she cans it. A few trolls spoil it for everybody.
"In a perfect world..."
Seriously people!! If your getting so many friggin IM's then TURN THE DAMN THING OFF!! Easy fix! Dont bitch and moan and complain about it! Geesh!
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I love the IM. It's great.
I usually don't contact people with it since I'm shy, but everytime someone opens up a chat with me I'm always happy about it.
Thinking that I will have a giving conversation. I even talk to the one person I've let in to my msn, from here, over Lushs IM instead of msn.
I prefer the simple feature of the Lush Im.
Only annoying thing is when I forget to copy/paste what was said. (oh yes I do like to fill my computer with conversations.)
Ok so everyone is getting upset now; I just wanted to know if the lame pick up lines worked. I enjoy the IM feature, and yes I do have quite a bit of people on my blocked list. NO messages to Nicola about this from me --- so chill out…
Just so you know, Mara: It isn't just "guys" being rude. I've had "girls" do the same thing.
I have already apologised to Mara, and I want to extend my apology to the rest of the lush ladies. I did not mean to condone the behaviour of the assholes on this site, and I do not defend it in any means.
I was trying to say that an erotic picture of a beautiful woman such as Mara, unfortunately seems to attract the creeps more than having no avatar at all. I did not mean to blame the victim. Because lets face it, its sexual harassment, and no one deserves that.
Again, I want to convey my sincerest apologies to anyone who felt that I was implying she, or any other woman, was at fault. Hopefully we can find a solution where the lovely ladies of lush do not need to put up with that kind of thing.
It is unfortunate cause a few bad apples have to kind of in a way ruin it for us nice guys on here that really do just want to talk to the ladies and become friends me I don't really care what your av is as long as oyu are nice I treat ya the same way guys and gals. Doesn't matter just show respect towards each other. And have fun with it.
Ughrr .. ok so really, are girls the only ones worth chatting with? FUCK I get it, we’re on an adult site, I write adult stories, but really do you need to ask me if I’m horny all the time? Do you need to ask me for nude pictures? --- and then you wonder why you’re on the ignore list..! 
I know you’re entitled to your opinion but I don’t think that because I have a sexy picture on my avatar I’m inviting creeps to hit on me. I’m going to replace it with a picture of Dora the Explorer and see how that goes…
