I enjoy talking with most everyone here. Then there those that don't talk becouse of my life style.
God... am I dumb... I don't even know how to initiate conversation in here... and have been here reading for months...lol
Going to check it out though...
Mara I know what you are talking about, my block list is long, my settings set to chat with friends only.
That said, every guy that has participated in this post can chat with me any time. And there are plenty of nice guys here
I won't name them for fear of leaving one off my list ,but there are a lot. Just look around the forum participants
Regardless of the picture posted it doesn't justify being crude, it's like saying a woman was because of the way she was dressed. We are all adults here if this is the type of behavior that some men exhibit, then they need to grow up.
Reading this thread, I am struck once again by the way in which the experiences of men and women on these sites are so totally different. The women get more attention than they can shake a stick (or anything else) at, and their problem is how to filter out the gold from the dross. The men, on the other hand, have to be extraordinarily patient and hope that a pleasant connection gets made once in a while, in spite of themselves.
Not a complaint, just an observation. Although at the risk of being accused of falling prey to the "grass is always greener" syndrome, I'd say that - at least in this one minor aspect of life - you women have the better end of the stick (warts and all).
Daniel
I agree Dan. And welcome.
Hey. I'm kinda new (aka never been on forums) but I've talked to a few guys who are really nice. Only one creep.
thanks nicola. NOTHING ever happened at my band camps. i think those movies lie.
Very well put indeed Satyr
=d> Well informed opinion. Yes, the women do it, too.
Hi
In answer to these comments, especially the long one:
This is a big site with a wide range of people who are all looking for something different. Indeed, I find that I am in need something different every day I come here. Some days I want intellectual chat, the next I want something else... If we're talking about sad people jerking off then what can I say? We all do it, we all use certain stimuli... video, webcam, pictures, text, telephone... and the world is a lonely place sometimes, despite all the many ways we have to communicate. Any happiness/solace we can impart or take from a fellow human should make the world a nicer place. Just because you can take it or leave it doesn't give you the right to judge others 'less fortunate' than, or with different appetites to, yourself.
Many people come here simply for instant sexual gratification. The stories get them hot and they need some company. They don't want to replicate a bar situation, where you chat for an hour, buy drinks, pretend they're interested, just to get laid. They want to cum and they have a limited window of opportunity. I think it's useful to lay it on the line. 'I could do with wank, but I only have 20 minutes... would you like to help me/join me/watch me?' It's more fun with two and, despite being a solitary pursuit, I find it can be very rewarding, liberating and fulfilling to share it with a stranger. Why beat around the bush, so to speak... life is too short. Not too short to be polite though - thought I'd better point that out. 'Please'/'thankyou'/'would you mind if?' are very useful phrases, both in 'real life' and here, 'surreal life'.
This is a sex site. The language and images are going to be sexual. The line between verbal obscenity and pictorial obscenity is not so clean cut. Wank, jerk, fuck, cunt, dick, spunk, ass, lick me out, suck my cock... these are very graphic and appear in virtually everyone's stories... so some guy has a picture of his hard dick as an avatar? That is his choice. He enjoys sharing that... that's his kick. Maybe you can put into words what he can't, perhaps you gain pleasure in another way... that does not lessen his need, nor diminish his right to express himself.
And ? Fuck off! Ever been ? No, I thought not. Your hyperbole does not blind me. Does a woman me when she shows her tits on page three of a morning (family) newspaper? No... Am I when a sex scene comes onto the TV unexpectedly? No. Or when Beyonce shakes her ass at my kids on MTV? No. It may be tasteless, but it's not . All the women here have seen a dick, they are surely not shocked by the sight of one... and to demean the guys by saying 'little' does you no favours at all. What? Is yours bigger? Is that why you're so 'cocky', so eager to criticise?
That sounds oh so serious. Not meant to be. Just one man's opinion. Tomorrow I may feel differently... now, where's that fucking webcam?
Good post Imalover. Welcome and keep coming back.
"insensitive prick!" – Danielle Algo
That must be some kind of record: posting on a thread that's been dead for close to 10 years!
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