Simple test--do you want a WOMAN to fuck you or a MAN? If you're fantasizing about her being a man when she fucks you, you may be bi or gay. If you aroused by a woman fucking you, you may be straight. The parts are just parts.
If a woman sticks a finger in there and you like it, that's not all that unusual. If she sticks a vib in there and you like, that too isn't that unusual (heck there are a growing number of toys for men desgined to do exactly that). So, what is it about the fact that it's strapped to her body that'd make it gay? Nothing.
As WMM said, even if you do fantasize about doing it with a man and even if you were to acutually do it with a man, you may still be straight (or maybe a little bit bi). Heck, go read some of the Kinsey report findings and you'll see that wouldn't even be all that unusual.
If a man takes it up the ass (not gonna sugar coat it) with another man's dick. He is gay. Vice Versa.
Once the deed is done, he is gay.
You can go around using the term Bisexual all you want ... but the real term is Homosexual or Gay.
If you haven't actually gotten there yet ... feel free to say bisexual.
So, if you like it up the ass from another man and you are a man ... call it what it is. No need to FREAK OUT.
P.s. Having a woman use a strap-on with a man, is not gay or bisexual
In response to LADYX .... (for some reason, I couldn't get your "quote")
THIS IS MY OPINION.
Bisexual - Being attracted to both sexes: sexually attracted to both men and women, or engaging in both heterosexual and homosexual activity. *yes, both*
Homosexual - Being attracted to the same sex: sexually attracted to members of the same sex.
Homosexuality - Relating to sexual *attraction or activity* among members of the same sex.
I know what you are saying ... I am attracted to both sexes. I'm talking about *MY Opinion* with once a male has another male's penis inserted inside them.
As far as MY Opinion .. It could be wrong, but it's my opinion.
The definitions of Bisexual and Homosexuality are indeed everything you said.
So with that ... I will say I am WRONG. Thanks for correcting me. I have never been one to be politically correct anyway. I am however open minded, and believe in diversity above all.
Don't let my "wings" fool you. ;)
Analheart, how dare you suggest that a man getting fucked by another man is so hella gay.
Didn't you read what wellmademale said. You can think about a man and have him fuck you all while thinking about a man when you're a man and it still isn't gay. It's Bi dummy.
i just asked an honest to goodness gay man his opinion on this - sorry, guys, according to my source, all men are gay, some are just not aware of it yet - the sooner you all become self aware, the better off you will be - oh, and he is offering his services to ass fuck all of you, so you can get on with your lives... umm.... as long as you're hot!
You can’t truly call yourself peaceful unless you are capable of violence. If you’re not capable of violence, you’re not peaceful. You’re harmless.
I do not think that you are gay if you want to share this experience with your wife or gf. You are branching out sexually, trusting one another, exploring new things and sharing your fantasies together. This is a fantasy of mine! At first I thought it would be exciting to do this with another woman, now I want to do this with a man. The thought of being in control and having him experience pleasure he has never had before is so exciting to me. I'm so curious about anal play now, all forms as I'm a virgin in this area, lol! I only hope that one day my man will be open to this, just as I am now open to so many things. Thanks to my fellow lushies for allowing the Vixen in me to come out to play!!
How then do you explain your aversion to anal? You must have seen it then too? lol
When the debate is lost, slander becomes the tool of the loser. Socrates Guess that means we were all kinky to begin with and only learned to 'straighten out' later in life. Some of us never completed the journey, lol.
In europe people are much more open about their sexuality, and more fluid too (that's not to be confused with 'sexual fluids' of course.. giggles). I love using a strap-on. In fact now they even make them without the straps. I've never met a guy that didn't want to play if you ask nicely. Shhh... you just don't talk about it in public if you have a shy-guy. But they all love it trust me. Plus its such a power rush for a girl.
xx B.
Pegging is quite enjoyable. I have no desire to kiss men. I do enjoy the feeling. It is an act of submission. Very hard to do for most men.
I'm a manly man and I really enjoy it when she toys with my ass! She's not into the strap-on thing although I'd love for her do it to me that way since I haven't experienced it. I'm not bi or gay. This type of play was introduced to me by an older woman and I've loved it ever since. Orgasms while my prostate is tweaked are very powerful! But none of this makes me bi or gay...
My opinion only. I am not a fan of strap-ons. Ann has had one for years. She only uses it at parties. I much prefer a warm, hard ,cock when I am on the receiving end of anal sex. Some people are really in to using them, that's fine. Like most things in life every one is different.
Mark
I forgot about this thread... I love this thread.
Oh yeah ... I forgot that you secretly (not so secretly now) would love to explore the strap on. Is that right?
Oh, wait ... that was something else entirely different. I like that you LOVE this thread ... cuz then you make me laugh later.
