Fingers to start. I hit the g-spot and she goes off like a rocket in a few minutes. She can have multipuls when she's on top.
The easiest way for me to cum is on top and kind of grind my clit on the guys pubic hair and he's as deep as you can get. So grinding will rub his cock around my inner walls and g- spot.
If he's on top then he has to rest his pubic bone on my clit while he's sliding in and out. The outcomes great.
I find it quite hard to cum just through a guy penetrating me. There needs to be some rubbing!
Having my boyfriend fuck me hard while I fuck him back even harder and have him pull my hair and slap my ass in doggy style gives me more then enough stimulation.
one of the ways that I cum the hardest is when I'm curled on my side and my husband is holding down my hips while he fucks me. a little back-door teasing while this is happening doesn't hurt, either ;-)
For me it's either with me on top slowly moving my hips which is great for slower, more meaningful sessions or hard and fast in doggy position.
I hadn't checked this in a while. Lots of good ideas..thanks guys
Don't get uptight and worried about it first of all. Relax, and if he doesnt go where it feels good, talk to him or her! Communicate! It doesnt have to be "dirty talk" just moan or scream when it feels really good, so he will get it. Also, do not be afraid to rub your clit while having intercourse...if that does it for you, then do it!
I find that when the woman is on top she gets more pleasure out of it!!!
I come better and faster if I'm on top, or if it's doggy style. I have more trouble reaching orgasm in the missionary position.
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I find that i come the hardest when i am on my side and my lover stimulates my clitoris while banging hard on my cervix.
for me depends what mood im in but as long as its ruff ill get off. my fav changes a lot, right now i love when my legs are on his shoulders rubbing my clit or doggy with some hair pulling and spanking ;)
I find that I always orgasm when I'm on top because I can control exactly what I want to when he's inside me, I can also grind him when I want rather than pull him tighter to me
Any position that provides more stimulation to my g-spot, then I just cum and cum and cum.
A lot of great advice in this thread about the physical side of things but here is another aspect. For me it's all about being entirely in the moment, Multiple orgasms require mental discipline of not allowing my conscious mind to distract me with trivia. As soon as I allow my logical brain to kick in the chances of me cumming again drop dramatically. If i release control and allow the physical and sensual side of my nature free reign then OMG. I have been practicing this for years now and generally come multiple times.
I usually find that I orgasm when in doggy or cowgirl! I also find that when I'm against the wall with deeper penetration its the best. I know from speaking to friends most find it very difficult to climax through penetration alone and need clitoral stimulation as well
When I'm riding his cock for sure.
For me it's not so much the position as the duration. He loves playing with me, so I have great orgasms, but they build and build until eventually I am so wired that literally one kiss can get me orgasming. It takes a couple of hours alternating playfulness and seriousness until we've built the intensity, but once there, it's completely awesome. I literally still feeling the aftershocks the next day - little involuntary shudders of pleasure. And this from someone who could previously only achieve multiple orgasms by playing with myself!
Deep penetration with stimulation of the g-spot and the clitoris. You have to be aware of your sensitive spots as well. By having said that, it helps build the intensity of the orgasm.
extra stimulation is always welcome! Cowgirl as I've mentioned before doesn't do it - for some reason I don't get as much sensation that way. Bent forward with my legs closed I can't get the manual stimulation but it's still good if I've already err gotten off.
I really like the alternating idea and it probably has the side benefit of postponing his climax too. If anyone has a VCH or triangle I would love to ask some questions.
