Wife libido is gone.

This is one of a few reasons I don’t want to get married. I think it’s human nature for a partner in a long term relation ship to get tired of the mundane then the fun is gone.

Is therefore a thread where the man looses sexual interest and the female is ready to rumble?

Now that will be different.

Quote by Harddesires
My wife and I have been together for 14 years. Over the last year her sex drive has gone completely away. We have had sex a handful of times over the last year and it hasn't been all that great. Mostly wam bam thank you mam... She used to be very active and loved to do kinkier things. We had a lot of great sex when we first got together but it is no longer happening. I have tried to initiate play and intimacy but am always turned away. Needless to say I am getting sick of taking care of myself knowing she is right next to me. She is a sexy attractive woman that I love very much but I can't go on like this anymore. I have discussed this with her many times and she says she is going to seek some help but it is taking forever for her to move forward. This morning she got angry at me for bringing it up again after she was gone all weekend. My question is what to to next? I have looked up sex therapists and Doctors the specialize in this area but here I sit waiting. HELP!!!

Insightful responses from most. I hope it was resolved well.