Imagine if your SO were to walk in while you were in your full glory during a hot cyber session. Would they smile and join you or scream and throw something?
If you think it would most likely be the second choice it's cheating.
well she has good aim so I guess it is cheating. Love my S.O. so I need to quit fucking around on her.
Yes, I believe to some extent, it is cheating. Even though you aren't having a physical relationship, you are putting forth effort to talk about sexual objectives. Besides, a cyber relationship is practically having sex with that person (just doing it online rather than do it physically).
i don't know.....but i love it....smile
no. if you've cheated or been cheated on you know the dif
NO, NO, NO, NO! Cheating is physical contact, feelings, emotions and very real implications. Playing out fantasy scenes with virtual strangers, looking at porn, daydreaming erotic thoughts, etc. etc. is NOT the same thing. Must say that I'm disappointed with the prudish attitude displayed by so many lush members, the comments read like they're right out of the religious right's playbook to take us back to the Dark Ages.
I have said before, and will cotinue to say, I don't care if you are on the internet, or hiding in the bathroom jacking off, or just lusting after pictures in some magazine or catalog. I don't care if you're just kvetching to an outside party about something your partner did. If you have to hide it from your partner, or if you have to deny doing it, that constitutes cheating.
"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
jacking off, lusting at pictures, bitching at....
i think there are different definitions of cheating being discussed.
or that's a joke i don't get.
yeah i'm totally confused.
My point was if you are doing something either sexually or emotionally that you have to hide from your partner, whatever you are doing constitutes cheating.
"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
ok say your partner disapproves of your spending habits. you just love buying some kind of nonsense that they don't like.
or anything like that.
there are things people keep private ie hide in a relationship. all people. fact of life.
that's not the same as cheating which to me means adultery.
and to you means... a lot more than that. or less.
well. its more complicated for me b/c I was doing it with a former crush.
I concur with Sprite, it would be cheating if you have to lie about it!
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