Not at all - think about it - they're with YOU now, so obviously the previous partners lacked something.
Course, some time in the future, YOU may be the one they're talking about to someone else - ah well.
My wife of 43 years told me all about them, no details, when we first started because she thought she should. She was right, but I never really liked it. I knew that was my problem so I just accepted that as part of the deal and kept trying.
It's worked so far.
Not an issue for me. My wife was certainly sexually active long before we married (as was I), and I've never felt the need to pry into her sexual past. She's volunteered a few tidbits here and there, and I've never felt threatened by it, nor has it aroused any jealousy or envy. As was mentioned earlier, its about us now and what happened before we met is simply history.
Not at all. It is part of my wife.
Lessons for me to learn from as well!
All helps to be a better lover.
Of all our inventions for mass communication,
pictures still speak the most universally understood language.
Walt Disney Only if they are still in the picture!
No problem with her fucking and sucking before me or while we are married, enjoy her fuck stories, and love to be a part of some of them, but then I'm a nasty old man.
I want to know who my lovers previous lovers are. I know all of my boyfriends ex lovers and none of them bother me because in the end they are exes, he chose to be with me not them, and i have done more with him than any of his exes would have dreamed of ;)
I've specifically asked to not hear about it, but I also know I have really bad jealousy issues. =/ I've told him anything about my past he's asked about though.
No, it's in the past. I don't mind talking about my past, so he shouldn't either. No reasons to be jealous.
In most cases of talking about the past, most people dont tell the whole truth. It is something that women would like to keep just between
Themselves and the other man. I myself would never talk openly about my past to anyone other than those who were there.
I don't like to know anything.. I prefer to imagine I'm the only one who ever mattered
Even before we were a couple, even before we were intimate, we were totally honest and open about our sexual experiences. It's one of the things that brought us together. We still share that information if one or the other (or both of us) have sex with someone else. It can be very titillating to hear a 'play-by-play' review and then dive into bed together!
Everyone has a history. If you truly love them you accept all of them. The person is who they are now because of how past loves changed them and what they taught them. Change someone's past and you change the person they are now. Would you still love them if they were different?
The question of truth and honesty is, and I believe, should be a very big challenge for most people. That is the case on both ends. I try so hard to know my lover as she currently is. I only bring up the past if I think it is impairing what is possible for us and go with precisely that...what is possibler for US in the here and now and down the road.
I think its gr8 to know and,it can also be fun too.
why should it we were not virgins when we met, i like reading stories here... it is much better when its someone you know
and love
No, it actually makes me more excited.
We've decided that it is not important for us to discuss who and how many people we have been with in the past. It only matters that we are together now. The past is in the past. No need to keep bringing that stuff up.
It doesn't bother me at all. He doesn't talk about them unless i ask. But I'm the longest relationship he's had, I'm not worried about the past.
Not at all. Can really make for a hot time.
Not at all why should, it we have an open relationship anyway.
It doesn't really bother me to know about them, it only bothers me when they try to return
previous? No.
