Not at all - think about it - they're with YOU now, so obviously the previous partners lacked something.
Course, some time in the future, YOU may be the one they're talking about to someone else - ah well.
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does it bother you to know about your partners previous lovers?
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Quote by JasonM
Not at all - think about it - they're with YOU now, so obviously the previous partners lacked something.
Course, some time in the future, YOU may be the one they're talking about to someone else - ah well.
Not always, if they were dumped they may still want to be with them. I was ok knowing about ex's but didn't want to know any details, first name was enough and certainly nothing sexual. I never wanted to meet them. I think it's an Alpha thing.
Story Verifier
My wife of 43 years told me all about them, no details, when we first started because she thought she should. She was right, but I never really liked it. I knew that was my problem so I just accepted that as part of the deal and kept trying.
It's worked so far.
It's worked so far.
I am always a gentleman.
Advanced Wordsmith
Not an issue for me. My wife was certainly sexually active long before we married (as was I), and I've never felt the need to pry into her sexual past. She's volunteered a few tidbits here and there, and I've never felt threatened by it, nor has it aroused any jealousy or envy. As was mentioned earlier, its about us now and what happened before we met is simply history.
Classified
Not at all. It is part of my wife.
Lessons for me to learn from as well!
All helps to be a better lover.
Lessons for me to learn from as well!
All helps to be a better lover.
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previous? No.
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Only if they are still in the picture!
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no not really
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No problem with her fucking and sucking before me or while we are married, enjoy her fuck stories, and love to be a part of some of them, but then I'm a nasty old man.
Cheeky Chick
No, it's in the past. I don't mind talking about my past, so he shouldn't either. No reasons to be jealous.
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In most cases of talking about the past, most people dont tell the whole truth. It is something that women would like to keep just between
Themselves and the other man. I myself would never talk openly about my past to anyone other than those who were there.
Themselves and the other man. I myself would never talk openly about my past to anyone other than those who were there.
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I don't like to know anything.. I prefer to imagine I'm the only one who ever mattered
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I don't like to know anything.. I prefer to imagine I'm the only one who ever mattered
My god I love an honest lady! YES YES YES
Advanced Wordsmith
Even before we were a couple, even before we were intimate, we were totally honest and open about our sexual experiences. It's one of the things that brought us together. We still share that information if one or the other (or both of us) have sex with someone else. It can be very titillating to hear a 'play-by-play' review and then dive into bed together!
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As some locals around here might say, "It don't make no difference. I love her irregardless of who she did before me." 
"There's only three tempos: slow, medium and fast. When you get between in the cracks, ain't nuthin' happenin'." Ben Webster
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The question of truth and honesty is, and I believe, should be a very big challenge for most people. That is the case on both ends. I try so hard to know my lover as she currently is. I only bring up the past if I think it is impairing what is possible for us and go with precisely that...what is possibler for US in the here and now and down the road.
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No, not at all :-)
Advanced Wordsmith
It doesn't bother me at all. He doesn't talk about them unless i ask. But I'm the longest relationship he's had, I'm not worried about the past.
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Not at all. Can really make for a hot time.
Advanced Wordsmith
It doesn't really bother me to know about them, it only bothers me when they try to return