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Do people really fall in love on lush?

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alliet14
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I guess it is possible, but I couldn't. My definition of love maybe different than other peoples. The thing about falling for someone on Lush is that there is never a complete trust. Someone can tell you they love you, yet have sexual talks with other people at the same time, and to me that is not love. I believe that you can find someone that can fill a void in your life, and give you the attention you desire, but still its not love. My reply may not be welcomed, I lost a dear friend on Lush because of it. He was/is too blind to see the writing on the wall, but we are all supposed to be adults yet we throw the word love around like a deflated football. smh
secretspice
Active Ink Slinger
I do think that if you were compatible with each other and happy there is always a possiblity of falling in love with someone on lush.
georgiebites
Active Ink Slinger
No you can't people lie you don't really know anyone here they are just a picture some are not even of themselves they just copy and paste or in some people's case snip and clip. I know for a fact that there was one person in particular that was a bold face liar was pretending to be someone they weren't. I could quote them and out them out right here because they did post on this thread but I won't. If you are interested or just curious just message me but you might find out when you read my profile. They were caught and have since left Lush but not after they hurt a lot of people not just here but in their personal life as well. So no you can't fall in love here on Lush you may fall in lust but not love. Me for one I want to know, see, meet a person before I give my heart to them and even then people can fool you so why not as a made up person who feels everyone is made up? You might say I'm not a romantic on the contrary I am but as far as falling in love on Lush or Face Book for that matter I don't believe anyone can and if you do it's very rare and I hope the best for you. As I've told people before if it sounds too good to be true then it is you are being played a fool and your feelings are being toyed with.
Verbal
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
Yes. smile
Guest
Lurker
As is life, you get what you ask for. But be careful, showing your emotions. I have said a thousand times, "without common sense and logic," one is a pawn.
Milik_the_Red
Internet Philosopher
Quote by georgiebites
No you can't people lie you don't really know anyone here they are just a picture some are not even of themselves they just copy and paste or in some people's case snip and clip. I know for a fact that there was one person in particular that was a bold face liar was pretending to be someone they weren't. I could quote them and out them out right here because they did post on this thread but I won't. If you are interested or just curious just message me but you might find out when you read my profile. They were caught and have since left Lush but not after they hurt a lot of people not just here but in their personal life as well. So no you can't fall in love here on Lush you may fall in lust but not love. Me for one I want to know, see, meet a person before I give my heart to them and even then people can fool you so why not as a made up person who feels everyone is made up? You might say I'm not a romantic on the contrary I am but as far as falling in love on Lush or Face Book for that matter I don't believe anyone can and if you do it's very rare and I hope the best for you. As I've told people before if it sounds too good to be true then it is you are being played a fool and your feelings are being toyed with.


I'm sorry you got burned - that is always a risk when one puts their trust in another. From what you've said, it wa your real-life partner that hurt you, though he did it online

Still, one can find love here. Simplicity and I are proof of that. We met here and despite the miles between us, we found a way to be together, she is sitting right here, next to me as my fiancé. She moved three thousand miles to be with me.

To me it seems that giving your love to someone always means risking betrayal. From your post, it seems this is just as true in real life as it is online. I do hope the pain he caused will one day heal
georgiebites
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by Milik_the_Red


I'm sorry you got burned - that is always a risk when one puts their trust in another. From what you've said, it wa your real-life partner that hurt you, though he did it online

Still, one can find love here. Simplicity and I are proof of that. We met here and despite the miles between us, we found a way to be together, she is sitting right here, next to me as my fiancé. She moved three thousand miles to be with me.

To me it seems that giving your love to someone always means risking betrayal. From your post, it seems this is just as true in real life as it is online. I do hope the pain he caused will one day heal




Thank you so much for your kind words Mike; I hope I do heal it is really tough when you have to face them every single day and know what they did. What is the hardest is the lies that continue knowing full well I have proof of things that happened and still lies but as I said he keeps telling me it meant nothing to him and he didn't care about anyone at all that it was all just a game. So sad to think that there are many out there that think the same way he does. I could and would never toy with anyone's emotions and don't.

So sad but true when you say that loving someone means risking betrayal even in real life it happens all the time just never thought it would happen to me and not with him. I know I will heal it will take a while though just taking it one day at a time. He knows he did wrong by me and he has apologized for what he did to me he knows he hurt me a lot. Forgive him for what he did yes but forget I never can he lost my trust and it's going to take a long time to earn it back.

I am so happy for you and Simplicity you are a rarity and I hope you have a long and very happy life together I'm so glad that you found each other and are honest with each other.

I still don't feel very many people here on Lush fall in love I just think they throw the word around like they do with the word fuck. Some people I feel wouldn't know love if it bit them in the ass. They say they love someone and are "married" to them on here and then go and role play with anyone else that comes around and asks them to play. Unfortunately it's the ugly truth 9 times out of 10 when someone says they have fallen in love with someone here it's just lust and not true love.
georgiebites
Active Ink Slinger
Quote by Adagio
As is life, you get what you ask for. But be careful, showing your emotions. I have said a thousand times, "without common sense and logic," one is a pawn.



Great words of wisdom and there are a few people here that don't have common sense or logic if they live in a fantasy world. Fantasy is great and nice but is just that fantasy. Don't get me wrong I love my Lush friends every single one of them I am happy when I receive messages from them or when I see them online but I'm not in love with anyone of them. I would never leave my husband for anyone and some have professed that I know for a fact that it has been said; was told to someone who used to be here more than once.
69Kisses96
Active Ink Slinger
I am very reticent to throw that word around. The other issue for me is that I am not really a cyber person. My feet are firmly planted in the 20th century. Like Bruce Springsteen says, "I need a little of that human touch". I have every once in a while felt a certain vibe on Lush from a few friends that I think have the potential under different circumstances to be something like that.
Guest
Lurker
Definitely yes! And I'll NEVER let it happen again! Love on Lush hurts...
69Kisses96
Active Ink Slinger
Caution is wise. One of the things about Lush I may never understand are these Lush relationships. I just don't get it. If you live thousands of miles away, what is the point? If you have never met face to face, isn't being friends better? It almost seems to encourage possessiveness, which is a big negative for me.
Guest
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Randy, I can see why having friendships with possessed people is a big negative for you.

Love on Lush can be a real head turner, but it does project something, does it not?

For a better understand of this cryptic comment, check out the Exorcist.
Guest
Lurker
I live in a real world, of truth, lies, and where fantasy balloons leak. One has to believe in something. I choose to trust myself. I got over Santa Claus and Cinderella at an early age and tend to scribble a fantasy world without inheriting a make believe ego. I have a few 'online acquaintances,' but love is reserved for my family. I'm not a swamp person.
Unknown User
I've heard people do fall in love on lush--and I'm glad they do.
Verbal
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
Quote by Adagio
I live in a real world, of truth, lies, and where fantasy balloons leak. One has to believe in something. I choose to trust myself. I got over Santa Claus and Cinderella at an early age and tend to scribble a fantasy world without inheriting a make believe ego. I have a few 'online acquaintances,' but love is reserved for my family. I'm not a swamp person.


I don't know that I'd say love on Lush is for "swamp people," or that is is like believing in Santa or Cinderella. Yeah, there are a lot of people not showing their true selves, or a very edited version of themselves, but that happens in real life too. It's online, so there are a few more trust issues to be dealt with, but that cuts both ways - online sometimes allows for an intimacy that might not take place in real life, because you are cutting straight past a lot of meaningless social niceties. There are lots of genuine friendships here, and genuine loving relationships too.

I fell in love here, and eventually made her a ring, dropped on one knee to present it to her, and proposed.
MollyDoll
Southern Charmer
Quote by Verbal
I don't know that I'd say love on Lush is for "swamp people," or that is is like believing in Santa or Cinderella. Yeah, there are a lot of people not showing their true selves, or a very edited version of themselves, but that happens in real life too. It's online, so there are a few more trust issues to be dealt with, but that cuts both ways - online sometimes allows for an intimacy that might not take place in real life, because you are cutting straight past a lot of meaningless social niceties. There are lots of genuine friendships here, and genuine loving relationships too.

I fell in love here, and eventually made her a ring, dropped on one knee to present it to her, and proposed.


I have found (and shared this before), that with Lush we lead with our "dirty secret" and guard our name. In everyday life we start with our name and guard our kinks. Like V said, 'That allows for an intimacy that might not take place in RL.' It's easy to care for people once that is out in the open.

Do people really fall in love on Lush? Yes. How could we not when we open ourselves up?

I think most of us have at least one friend on Lush that we care for/love and would be friends with them in RL as well. So the idea of falling in love with someone shouldn't be too far out there.

I have a new story out! Wish You Were Here A teasing sub may I have pushed too far, but the punishment is oh so sweet.

If you haven't already, please check out my story with leftlingula. A husband and wife rediscovered each other and It all started with one simple word...
Nightshade Part 1 & Nightshade: Part 2
Verbal
Gravelly-Voiced Fucker
Quote by MollyDoll


I have found (and shared this before), that with Lush we lead with our "dirty secret" and guard our name. In everyday life we start with our name and guard our kinks.


This is really well put.
angiegirl
Princess D
i think when you make a emotional connection, yes falling in love usually follows , thats my opinion..Made a few mistakes, but I am in Love..
Guest
Lurker
I think it is possible to fall in love on lush in its various forms and with all that it has to offer. The bold, the beautiful and the not so beautiful situations and instances.

Still, people take a plunge in it for an experience that they might never had before in their lives. Just like our rl, Lush gives us love, friendships and relationships that has the potentiality to last a lifetime.

It is just a matter of choice and the decisive factor that comes into play. Falling in love on lush? It is possible, yes, but at the same time is it possible for every relationship to be considered taken outside the realm of Lush? No it is not.
Guest
Lurker
There are many websites out there to find that special someone with whom ya can maybe fall in love...
I not think Lushstories.com is intended to be one of them.

This is a fantasy sex site, for people who want to experience,
and play out their sexual fetish fantasies, that they may not can, or would do in their real lives.

Everyone here says..."I Love You" a lot, mostly out of habit maybe, or just to be nice,
and help fulfill their fantasy even more, or maybe because they have actually met someone here in person,
but for me, I can never say those words to anyone here again, not even to be polite or nice,
unless I've actually met them in person and I can mean it...Saying I Love You is a very special and literal thing for me now.

I do think someone could find and fall in love here, if they have communicated with them in a number of personal ways,
and know who they really are, but to feel that way from only cybersexing, or just talking with them in chat, or Lush mail here, without a more
personal experience with them, is simply foolish...
Ya take a nasty risk of your heart getting hurt very badly here, as a lot here are only playing out their sexual fantasies,
and you could end up being just another one of those.

Yes, some of us not mind everyone here to know the real person we are. I know many here, like me, have actually met people from Lush in real life,
and it was a wonderful, fun experience for me, as I hope it was for them too. I wouldn't think all of them are though.

I was very excited when I joined Lush in September of 2015, and by New Years of 2016 I was feeling very close to someone here,
as well I thought I had some new friends, male and female, that would last forever. I was very wrong.

By February of 2016 a girl here named...lussshgirl, said she wanted to meet me in person as she was coming to Europe on vacation anyway.
We had been a thing for a few months already and I was very excited to see her in person. It was her idea, not mine.
When the time got close for us to meet, things changed suddenly between us it seemed.
Then one day I got a Lush mail, from her mom supposedly, using her account, saying that lussshgirl had been killed in an auto accident.
Well...I freaked and left Lush for a few months. I realized how much I was hurt and that I had fallen in love with her, and now it was too late.
A friend from Lush came to Literotica to get me to come back to Lush. She also told me..."Guess who's back at Lush?"
My love affair with lussshgirl was all just a lie, because...lussshgirl, was really...a lussshguy, and I was nothing but part of his fantasy.

Sadly, I've learned many things from my experience about falling in love with someone here without really getting to know them,
and also how to tell if a guy is acting like a girl here. But I move on and try to trust again too.
Especially with those who I only let cyberfuck me, and I not really care who they pretend to be anyway as long as they are nice to me, and are good at sexing me up.
We can play any fantasy they like...smile

Maybe, I'll get a chance to meet someone in person from here again, boy or a girl, and just maybe, my heart will feel euphoric again someday...smile

Ya know what would be really nice? To have someone who likes to talk with me everyday, just because they like me.

Not because they only come around to see me when they want to cyberfuck me...I have plenty of those kinds of Lush friends already.
Denim_Daisy10
Southern Barefoot Angel
Yes it's entirely possible to fall in love here . I know I have smile
georgiebites
Active Ink Slinger
I am so sorry for what you went through Ivanka I can't imagine having been lied to like that so heartless but if you read my bio you'll find out that your lushgirl/boy wasn't the only one here playing around with people pretending to be the opposite sex. I was lied to by my husband and it hurts a lot.

I know what you mean about a lot of people only wanting to cyber with you it's nice to find someone that just wants to talk because they find you interesting and just want to get to know you no sex just chatting like real people; but this is a sex site and people want to live out their fantasies. That's all good and well but don't play with people's emotions.

As for falling in love as I stated before I think people fall in lust here not love if it's any indication from what my husband's actions and what he tells me is true. He used people women especially for his own fantasies and pleasure; I just take everything with caution and don't and won't get attached.
Guest
Lurker
Quote by georgiebites
As for falling in love as I stated before I think people fall in lust here not love if it's any indication from what my husband's actions and what he tells me is true. He used people women especially for his own fantasies and pleasure; I just take everything with caution and don't and won't get attached.


Yes Georgie, we heard you. It's on your bio and it's all over the forums where you keep bringing it up again and again. Thank you for letting us know about him and we're sorry he lied to you. You have our sympathy (if that's what you're looking for) BUT just because it happened to you, doesn't mean you have to go everywhere with a banner says "my husband cheated on me" or "I was lied to by my husband", 'preventing' others from falling in love.

As they've mentioned, it's a matter of choice. We're all adults. Some of us choose to love and to be loved. Be it with lust or not, they choose to do what makes them happy at that moment. Flip through this thread's pages, 70% of them have been in love on here and they loved it regardless of how it ended or if they have their future together. Some are lucky, some aren't but who cares. They take their chances. Even if they say they love someone and are "married" to them on here and then go and role play with others, that is their choice which they've agreed between them. You don't think you would fall in love on here? Well nobody asks you to, and once again, we heard you the first time you posted on this thread.

Of course your husband would never admit if he had fallen in love with any of them when you asked him. What did you expect. Him to say "I'm sorry I really loved them and it wasn't just lust"? Ironically enough, you of all people should have detested this site like the plague itself but here you are, with your gold badge. You seem to love everything on here while yapping away about him being a cheater or a liar, and you wondered why he needed this site and addicted to it.

One more thing. If he'd hurt you so much and lost your trust, why are you still with him. And "I would never leave my husband for anyone"? After knowing he was on here as the opposite sex?
Plungertool
Active Ink Slinger
I have had strong feelings for a couple of women on lush. But I realize I might be in love with the image and the shared interests.