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Do other bi-females prefer, other women, guys, or both equally?

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This site has so many bi-women. As a recent addition to this bi scene after many years of fantasizing; I am asking whether you prefer women, guys or both equally? from my recent encounters, I must say that my preference is with other women.
just curious... if you prefer chicks...are you not a lesbian??maybe it is the ahh feel of a guys' package u like..so perhaps a strap on? ps all sex is fabulous...all...my sis was with guys all her life..the she had sex with a lady...never went..back..so it is all good smile
My profile says Lesbian, but I more likely should be labeled as BiSexual. Most the time I enjoy the tenderness of a woman.

But I also need a man from time to time. But during a certain time of the month it seems like there are not enough men to be found.

Strange is it not?
I like both and for different reasons. I think I enjoy sex with women more, maybe 60/40 but I still love men too. I have just been screwed over by men my whole life that I cant see myself in a meaningful relationship with a man again. But as for having sex, I could never see myself choosing just one..
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I like both and for different reasons. I think I enjoy sex with women more, maybe 60/40 but I still love men too. I have just been screwed over my men my whole life that I cant see myself in a meaningful relationship with a man again. But as for having sex, I could never see myself choosing just one..


This!^
I love both and the sex is very different. I couldn't make a choice or decide from one day to the next what I want or need more. Ultimately it's usually down to me responding to the person coming on to me.
I agree with 1nympholes. My profile also says lesbian but should be bi as I've never entirely ruled out guys. I'm probably 90/10 in my preferance of women.
I would say that I'm more "Bi-Lite" (yes, I made that up), meaning that on very rare occasion, with no emotional involvement factoring in, and as purely just a sex-thing, with the right hot girl/situation, and usually some alcohol factoring in, I'm really into girls.

I don't state 'bisexual' on my profile here because - orientation doesn't matter to me, since I'm not looking for any cyber hookups anyway. I also feel like, in a way, bisexual should mean a true openness to both genders on a consistent basis, and my interest in girls isn't a really driving force in my sexuality at all.

I think sexuality is a very fluid thing, and preferences can definitely change at various stages in life. As well there is the question of emotional attachment vs physical attraction. I may enjoy playing with girls now and then but I don't want to 'date them', hold hands, get romantic/intimate. I just see it as a playful no-strings thing where everything goes back to normal afterwards, and we laugh it off as just a fun experience and get on with our lives. I'm also very careful to pick girls who are of a similar mindset to me because I've had crossed wires once or twice in the past and it can be very awkward, especially in cases where you were already friends/acquaintances first.
I find this topic very interesting. The differences in attraction and arousal in women is something I have noticed a lot recently. The differences in what women who identify with different sexual preferences seem to enjoy seeing/watching vs doing ect. I'm bisexual and married to a man, but I am rarely physical attracted to men and prefer sex with women. Interestingly though I've noticed that many lesbians find looking at men and porn with men in it much more enjoyable than I do.
I like both equally. Men and women are so different (obviously lol) and fulfill different needs.
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My profile says Lesbian, but I more likely should be labeled as BiSexual. Most the time I enjoy the tenderness of a woman.

But I also need a man from time to time. But during a certain time of the month it seems like there are not enough men to be found.

Strange is it not?


Perhapse you should try someone like me.
I like both men and women equally. Both when its about pure physical attraction and more emotional relationships.
But i have never been able to keep a relationship with man, but i think that is because of what i do for living.
I think it's 40/60 for me. The 60% being women. But men are far less complicated to date :-) lol. x
What's bi females? I am so confused, How many kinds of human live on earth now?
I am fairly new to the bi scene as well having finally my first woman experience two years ago and though I do think of myself as bi the only time I am with a man now is if I am in a threesome with a couple. I much prefer the toucb and feel of a woman!
Until 2 weeks ago I had only ever been with another woman. After staying with you for 2 weeks Tracey, I got to meet and have sex with your (Edited for content). It was different, and yes I enjoyed it; but nothing will ever be greater than the last night we spent together. You are truly a wonderful and loving woman.
I love both equally. I get the chance to flavor both the taste is so different its nice to have a variety.Women are more gentle than guys when it comes to kissing its so much more passionate and softer,but at the same time a cock feels good wherever it ends up in me.
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I am fairly new to the bi scene as well having finally my first woman experience two years ago and though I do think of myself as bi the only time I am with a man now is if I am in a threesome with a couple. I much prefer the toucb and feel of a woman!


Me also Lustylady.
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This site has so many bi-women. As a recent addition to this bi scene after many years of fantasizing; I am asking whether you prefer women, guys or both equally? from my recent encounters, I must say that my preference is with other women.


I prefer to be equal really. I had sex with a girl when I was in my teens so I've been bi a while
When i signed up on the site i actually had straight...Dark told me nope cause I had a on and off again relationship before him with a girl in school with me. she has been the only girl i had a "relationship" with but have been attracted and flirted with many others....but now....hmmm i would say i prefer both...but Dark is first above anything else smile heart
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it's gone back and forth during my life. i would have to say that, until the past few years, i've prefered men over women, not by a large percent, but enough that my only serious relationships were with men. that has switched drastically in the past 5 years, mostly because i fell head over heels in love with another girl. also, due to personal issue over the past year, my desire for men has dropped considerably to the point i consider myself a lesbian with bi tendencies.

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I would say that I'm more "Bi-Lite" (yes, I made that up), meaning that on very rare occasion, with no emotional involvement factoring in, and as purely just a sex-thing, with the right hot girl/situation, and usually some alcohol factoring in, I'm really into girls.

I don't state 'bisexual' on my profile here because - orientation doesn't matter to me, since I'm not looking for any cyber hookups anyway. I also feel like, in a way, bisexual should mean a true openness to both genders on a consistent basis, and my interest in girls isn't a really driving force in my sexuality at all.

I think sexuality is a very fluid thing, and preferences can definitely change at various stages in life. As well there is the question of emotional attachment vs physical attraction. I may enjoy playing with girls now and then but I don't want to 'date them', hold hands, get romantic/intimate. I just see it as a playful no-strings thing where everything goes back to normal afterwards, and we laugh it off as just a fun experience and get on with our lives. I'm also very careful to pick girls who are of a similar mindset to me because I've had crossed wires once or twice in the past and it can be very awkward, especially in cases where you were already friends/acquaintances first.


It’s strange how much I agree with Ashleigh on this. I’m a lot like her in these cases. The parts I put in bold is where I agree most.

I think women are beautiful, and I enjoy playing around with them. But, let’s face it, I love cock and want to be with a man. When I see myself settling down, it’s with a man. Women are fun to play with, and fool around with, however I don’t want to be in a relationship with them.

I did try it once, I dated a girl for 4 months, and we ended when we both realized it wasn't something we wanted. We’re still friends.
i am bi but I really do prefer a nice hard cock most of the time. For me there is nothing better than the feel of my holes being stretched and the feel and taste of his cumsmile But sometimes, I crave the touch of a woman too. Just being honest:)
I'm more physically attracted to women than I am to men; however, men tend to stimulate me more mentally which can be even more important.
I find it interesting that only the sex is emphasized. You DO know that gay, lesbian, bi-sexual, heterosexual means also you have emotional feelings (love, etc.) for these genders?
I've never had sex with a man, but I do know that I've been attracted to a rare man once or twice but I've only ever had sex with a woman and have been turned on by a woman. I prefer women over men in the romantic division - they just seem like better lovers in my honest opinion and feels like you could connect to them better emotionally as well -- that's just me though. For me, it's 75/25, but from time to time, I'll be attracted to men but most of the time it's women.
Both have their plus and minus sides. For long erotic and imaginative sex I prefer female company. but sex with a man can be fun with the right person. I also prefer evenings out with girlfriends
I prefer women 9 to 1 for all reasons. But, every once in a while I'll play with a guy.
I am still a virgin to both sexes. I am equally sexually attracted to both sexes but this might change once I have sex. I have kissed many boys and give a hand-job, but the kisses were horrible and the hand-job was more for him. I do like being sexted from either sex but find more pleasure with women. I kissed a girl for like .2 seconds in middle school as a dare and even though it was short it was great. I watch all types of porn but prefer something with two girls and one guy. The girls interaction with each other and the guy with each girl separately. I have a huge crush on a straight girl right now. It sucks! I am also gender fluid. So yeah, happy to be a part of this chat.