Thanks,
Dave in Mesquite Nv
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I am a closeted 63year old married man living in rural Nevada. I have stayed married only for financial reasons. I know I am gay, bi for sure. I constantly read and watch gay, tv and ts stories and videos. Any advice on how to proceed or connect with people, especially since Craigs list is down?
Thanks,
Dave in Mesquite Nv
I feel so much empathy to everyone here that knows what they want and are having a hard time finding that special guy. Gay bars or spas are ok as long as you are careful to start. Online sites can be a bit scary until you find someone you can trust and have mutual attraction. I have heard a couple of stories of hook ups getting filmed and then the married guy getting blackmailed, so be careful and safe.
I like Silverdaddies, as you can find local guys, some times men you know, or a relative. It makes approaching them much easier than just asking them if you could enjoy their cock. It takes all the pressure off. I still do sneak ads on Craigslist under "Missed Connections", and it isn't at all unusual to get 6-10 responses every weekend before they get flagged. I'm 67, and don't have the stamina I used to, but still usually suck off 4-5 men each weekend,and when I get lucky, one or more will fuck me.
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It sounds so hot and exciting to do random hook ups with guys been fantasizing for awhile havent tried anything yet
I haven't had much luck with my hookups (and they were all pre-pandemic, too, so I've kind of backed off). Either I'm not as bi as I thought or I have been having terrible luck with partners.
A woman goes shopping in the local mall. But what the heck is she shopping for in that outfit? My Festive Flash comp entry.
Mostly happy with my marriage (except that I crave gay sex too) and not looking to leave, but definitely closeted. Sounds like even with the Internet it can be tricky to find good partners. If I do finally start seeking men, I'd probably lean towards wanting friends with benefits (or at least someone with mutual affection) rather than random hookups with strangers. I suppose I'd start with the dating sites and see who I meet. Or even try meeting up with a Lush friend. There seem to be quite a few of us middle-aged bi guys on here.
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Mostly happy with my marriage (except that I crave gay sex too) and not looking to leave, but definitely closeted. Sounds like even with the Internet it can be tricky to find good partners. If I do finally start seeking men, I'd probably lean towards wanting friends with benefits (or at least someone with mutual affection) rather than random hookups with strangers. I suppose I'd start with the dating sites and see who I meet. Or even try meeting up with a Lush friend. There seem to be quite a few of us middle-aged bi guys on here.
Yes there does and a few surprises. I am looking for someone to top me on occasion . My gf is totally on board with me finding someone to give me some dick now and then.
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Recently tried oral...loved it, but am very concerned about STD's so it will be very limited I wish I could suck more cocks without worry.
I think your point is well-taken. I wonder how many of these random hookups resulted in someone bringing home something they didn't want.t
I’m married and tried coming out as bi to my wife with the hope she might be interested in a threesome. I had to walk it back a bit.
I am an avid cocksucker, and love groups, so when I came across a local email list for hosting all male parties, I started occasionally going. It’s always safe, and it’s rare I don’t swallow at least a couple loads every time I go.
Otherwise, I’m on Grindr hookups, my favorites being guys in hotels traveling.
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It sounds like so much fun to suck cock i fantasize of it i get so turned on . Just need to get the courage to try it . Maybe i procrastinate cause i might enjoy it to much..
I only did it once, before meeting my wife, but I sure found it to be as much fun as it sounds. You might very well enjoy it too much!
I think if I hadn't done it, I would have strayed by now, just to satisfy my curiosity. Not sure if/when I'll try it again, but I sure think about it often.
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Will those who have been living a false lifestyle while being married, will you ever allow yourself to live like you'd like to, in old age?
I suspect one of the reasons a lot of guys come back around to recognize their sexuality as they hit their fifties and sixties is that with the kids getting grown up, they can do so with less risk of destroying their family.
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Will those who have been living a false lifestyle while being married, will you ever allow yourself to live like you'd like to, in old age?
Thing is, I wouldn't say that i have been living a false lifestyle for the most part. Maybe in more recent times. I'm bi, meaning I can be satisfied by men or women so I can have fantasies and desires around men but still be happily married to my wife. Just like I can fantasize and have desires about other women but not act on them out of respect and love for her. And I was not even out to myself for much of my 30 years of marriage so it's not like I was deliberately hiding anything. I had some discoveries of my own to make before that even became an issue.
A woman goes shopping in the local mall. But what the heck is she shopping for in that outfit? My Festive Flash comp entry.
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Thing is, I wouldn't say that i have been living a false lifestyle for the most part. Maybe in more recent times. I'm bi, meaning I can be satisfied by men or women so I can have fantasies and desires around men but still be happily married to my wife. Just like I can fantasize and have desires about other women but not act on them out of respect and love for her. And I was not even out to myself for much of my 30 years of marriage so it's not like I was deliberately hiding anything. I had some discoveries of my own to make before that even became an issue.
Well said. "False lifestyle" is overly simplistic.
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Festive Flash competition entry: Amy's Mom
I get dicked by a federal agent in Recommended Read Dick Job
I pork everyone in my other Recommended Read, Pork by Northwest
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