Picture ? What for ?
Dani gets to see it in the flesh , and she doesn't share well....
That's up to them. I don't really care if you have a pic or not.
I don't really care about pics, but I do not like people who don't put anything on their profile other than age, sex, and location. Give me some clue as to who I am chatting with....
Nine times out of ten, one is talking with an Elmer Fudd clone.
I don't care if they have no pictures, but if their profiles are not filled out, then I pass them by. As for pictures, the only picture I would like to see is a profile picture. I wish lush would do away with red and whites. It takes literally 2 mins to add some kind of avatar. Lush offers you a set of stock avatars, I think if a person does not choose one, lush should choose one and stick it in.
They should take a few and add something! But hey,,, to each their own
I don't think anything, because there is nothing to think about, just float on by.
In the world's harsh wear and tear many a very sincere attachment is slowly obliterated.
Είμαι ταξιδιώτης τόσο στο χρόνο όσο και στο διάστημα
i trust people who have their real photos up less than people who don't.
In a perfect world, adults would be grown up about adult stuff. In the real world, some grown-ups are shockingly judgmental about adult stuff. Ergo it's perfectly natural for people to want to preserve their anonymity. Nevertheless, not uploading any kind of avatar is a bit dull.
While I have yet to use my own pictures as my avatar, my profile is as complete and comprehensive as any on Lush. I actually want Lush folks to know who I am. If someone wants to pass judgement on me based on that, well they are welcome to perform unnatural acts upon themselves.
Considering the stories I write I wish to remain anonymous that why my pic doesn't show my face. I think it's up to each individual how they choose to display their profile. As long as it isn't offensive.
Anything other than the red and whites. Even if it's not really you it does let some of your personality shine through.
Personally, I prefer chatting with people that have their own picture for their avatar, it helps to give me a sense of who I'm chatting with. That being said, I don't mind chatting with women that use avatar's consistent with their user name, as I do understand the need for anonymity in some instances. On the other hand, as long as they're discreet with their other user information, what's the big deal? After all, the chances of actually meeting someone from this site are, for the most part, rather remote. I do dislike, and usually don't chat with people that use handsome or beautiful movie stars as their avatar's, it gives me the feeling that they are trying to hide something. I use my own picture for my avatar, some people like it, some, not so much. So be it, at least I'm being honest about who I am, and for me, establishing a true relationship begins with honesty. As for the red and white avatar's with no bio, blah!!! I hear people on here with those types of avatar's saying "I'm new here and haven't had time to post a pic or do a bio". I think that's B.S., that was the first thing I did when I joined this site and it only took a few minutes. Again, not providing a bio gives the appearance of trying to hide something.
It's their choice, but a pic of some sort does create more interest. I have to say the Ladies of Lush have some damned fine avatars on their profiles....thanks, Kee!
I am an alien shape-changer, so I always change to look just like my avatar. Just ask Bethany Frasier to verify this.
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Really there is no way to 100% verify that anyone is using a real pic of themselves avatar. And most people do not for reasons of discretion... career, family, business associates, friends, etc. Don't want their mom to know.
Now I do believe that is Bethany. And I might have to bite her on that cute butt of hers.
i'm assuming that you mean pics of themselves versus other images. having been on both sides of the spectrum, i have to say that it doesn’t factor into whether or not i choose to trust someone. there are a plethora of reasons why some choose to and others choose not to. all are valid. the only thing that will make me not trust you are your actions on the site or my intuition.
as far as avatars go, the red and whites are an absolute turn off. when i encounter them in a chat room, i automatically think their sole purpose here is to cyber. which is fine. however, most people here want to establish connections and if you can't even be bothered to find an avi, how are you supposed to put effort into some sort of relationship?
If somone came to Lush that recognized you, wouldnt it mostly be the case that you would be able to ask them what they were doing on Lush, as they were asking you what you were doing here. This is a community, and much like I would not wear a sack over my head in public, I am not afraid to show who I am. If someone I know in 'real' life came to Lush and recognized me, I would be the first to ask them why they are here, if they questioned me.
I'm new here - I came to read some stories, but found out it's so much more. I'm not sure it's viable as a hook up site, as people are all spread out (no pun intended) and thus far, I haven't found a way to do a geographic search.
Still: anybody should be able to post a faceless full body pick (unless you have a big tattoo that says "I'm Steve Jones from 123 Main St Omaha NE). As a veteran of bisexual hookup sites, I feel people are hiding undesirable body types. Come on: put it out there - whatever your physique, there are people who will like it.
I guess I meant actual face photos. Someone who's comfortable with their actual face being on here is someone I can't understand! so long as an avatar resembles you or an interest of yours, it's fine by me.
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