Slutty is a word over used. One is not slutty by reading or writing. Slutty is one who prefers something other then playing in the pond of carp that lay on the bottom and looking up.
When she stops caring about herself or others. Looking for quick gratification/cheap thrill over friendships.
For example: Dangerous actions such as unprotected sex with strangers. Or hooking up with friends partners without their knowledge or consent.
Quote by TheDevilsWeakness When she stops caring about herself or others. Looking for quick gratification/cheap thrill over friendships.
For example: Dangerous actions such as unprotected sex with strangers. Or hooking up with friends partners without their knowledge or consent.
Definitely those. Also when she lowers herself to porn standard slutness instead of a seductive classy woman who intrigues her lover. Oh, also when the passion is fake and her actions mechanical.
The two above me and I will add to that.... when her being slutty and sexual becomes more about her and she disregards the feelings and respect for her partner.
When does a woman and her sexual actions go from a turn on to a turn off?
The woman doesn't go from turn on to turn off, simply the person perceiving that behaviour perceives it to be so (a turn off or turn on), they change not the lady in question.
To me, there's nothing 'too slutty' as far as sexual acts, attitudes and roleplay goes (that goes for both men and women). Not everyone is sexually compatible and people are into different levels of sexual exploration and not all of it is 'classy/pretty'. That doesn't make it bad - it just means it's on a different energy and intensity level. If it's providing sexual pleasure and release and is consensually enjoyed, then anything goes. Just like human personalities - people's 'sexual personalities' vary widely. As long as nobody becomes overwhelmed or bored with their partner(s), then it's all good.
Even as far as 'promiscuity' goes - if a person is staying healthy (protected, taking care of themselves) and it's not become a point of sexual addiction where it's negatively impacting their lives, then I don't have any issue with it. The only time it becomes an issue is when someone is maliciously 'playing' someone to get laid. If everything is up front, there's no commitments or false promises - then who cares. It's just sex. It can just be for recreational pleasure too. Our biology would attest to that, despite all the social conventions and meaning we've attached to it.
It all depends between both persons involved, when she goes into her real sluty ways behind closed doors is great, when at an event and she walks up to me and whispers “ Baby do you want to take me home and fuck me”, that’s awesome. But on the flip side I have done the same back to her, so you can say both men and wonen can be sluts or sluty.
In MHO, a slutty woman is fine so long as she still retains some class. For example, a woman who is sexually active and even forward is ok with Me - I like a woman who is adventurous and enjoys sex.
On the other hand if she is SO loose that she embarrasses Me (and I don't embarrass easily!) and acts like a cheap dollar-a-holler whore, then we may have an issue.
The old edict - A lady in public and a whore in bed works! I want a woman who makes other women mad and other men jealous!
Quote by slipperywhenwet2012 Ok, I'll be the one to say it: So this same question as well as all responses apply to men too, right?
I agree.......and in my book yes it does. I sure don't want a manwhore, but those terms are mostly referred to for the women when it should apply to both sexes automatically.
Sexy is when you wear a respectively short dress and look to die for in it, slutty is when you are wearing that same dress with about 7 tequila shots in you, bending over to 'pick something up' and another girl still in a respective state has to tell you to bend your knees...
Imho, if she wears really short, tight, revealing clothes and will sleep with anything with a pulse then I call slut. I like girls who dress decently in public (leaving more to the imagination), and only show the fun stuff to a partner in the bedroom. Showing a little flesh to tease is always welcome, but not so much that if you got her into bed, you already knew exactly what you were going to see. I like to work for it.
In the sexual acts department, it's all down to compatability. As long as she's not being passed around a room of people like a joint then I wouldn't call her a slut.
I don't know, call me old fashioned or close minded or whatever, but when a girl is going home with a different person every few nights I think that falls under the term. Also anyone who doesn't respect themselves, or boundaries of relationships, or will simply sleep with pretty much anyone. I'm sure there's more but I cant think of it right now.
Oh, and of course these definitions can be given to men as well, there's always a point where one has gone too far.