When does a woman and her sexual actions go from a turn on to a turn off?
Ok, for clarification.... what do you mean by sexual actions? What she does in the bedroom (or concerning sex in general), or what the world sees?
Anything less than swimming out to meet troop ships is okay.
Slutty is a word over used. One is not slutty by reading or writing. Slutty is one who prefers something other then playing in the pond of carp that lay on the bottom and looking up.
There is nothing wrong with being slutty. It's how you use it and where 'you are'.
When she stops caring about herself or others. Looking for quick gratification/cheap thrill over friendships.
For example: Dangerous actions such as unprotected sex with strangers. Or hooking up with friends partners without their knowledge or consent.
The two above me and I will add to that.... when her being slutty and sexual becomes more about her and she disregards the feelings and respect for her partner.
Big-haired Bitch/Personality Hire
Ok, I'll be the one to say it: So this same question as well as all responses apply to men too, right?
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"I'm not calling you a slut, I'm calling you a penny; because you're two-faced, worthless and in everybody's pants!"
"If you knew what you were doing you would probably be bored."
To me, there's nothing 'too slutty' as far as sexual acts, attitudes and roleplay goes (that goes for both men and women). Not everyone is sexually compatible and people are into different levels of sexual exploration and not all of it is 'classy/pretty'. That doesn't make it bad - it just means it's on a different energy and intensity level. If it's providing sexual pleasure and release and is consensually enjoyed, then anything goes. Just like human personalities - people's 'sexual personalities' vary widely. As long as nobody becomes overwhelmed or bored with their partner(s), then it's all good.
Even as far as 'promiscuity' goes - if a person is staying healthy (protected, taking care of themselves) and it's not become a point of sexual addiction where it's negatively impacting their lives, then I don't have any issue with it. The only time it becomes an issue is when someone is maliciously 'playing' someone to get laid. If everything is up front, there's no commitments or false promises - then who cares. It's just sex. It can just be for recreational pleasure too. Our biology would attest to that, despite all the social conventions and meaning we've attached to it.
Only when those actions are a turn off because they relate to something I'm simply not into.
In MHO, a slutty woman is fine so long as she still retains some class. For example, a woman who is sexually active and even forward is ok with Me - I like a woman who is adventurous and enjoys sex.
On the other hand if she is SO loose that she embarrasses Me (and I don't embarrass easily!) and acts like a cheap dollar-a-holler whore, then we may have an issue.
The old edict - A lady in public and a whore in bed works! I want a woman who makes other women mad and other men jealous!
Too slutty? I've never met too slutty.
Imho, if she wears really short, tight, revealing clothes and will sleep with anything with a pulse then I call slut. I like girls who dress decently in public (leaving more to the imagination), and only show the fun stuff to a partner in the bedroom. Showing a little flesh to tease is always welcome, but not so much that if you got her into bed, you already knew exactly what you were going to see. I like to work for it.
In the sexual acts department, it's all down to compatability. As long as she's not being passed around a room of people like a joint then I wouldn't call her a slut.
But hey thats just my opinion.
I don't know, call me old fashioned or close minded or whatever, but when a girl is going home with a different person every few nights I think that falls under the term. Also anyone who doesn't respect themselves, or boundaries of relationships, or will simply sleep with pretty much anyone. I'm sure there's more but I cant think of it right now.
Oh, and of course these definitions can be given to men as well, there's always a point where one has gone too far.
I wonder if this applies ...
“An alcoholic is someone you don't like, who drinks as much as you do.”
― Dylan Thomas