Wondering who else here enjoys all sober sex, and talking with others on Lush, without having to get high first?
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lol. i seem to be sober most of the time i have sex, (i think) and generally im not high when i come on lush too.
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Alcohol is the only drug I use every now and then, and even that is quite rare actually.
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I prefer to keep all things sexual, sober. Whether the real thing, an intimate conversation, or even just some time spent browsing adult videos, I find that the experience is more enjoyable the less crowded my body and mind is from outside influence. Alcohol and the like are pleasurable in their own ways and in their own setting but when in pursuit of an orgasm or sensual experience, I want to savor the emotions, unfiltered.
Plus, I once knew a couple that, for months, had a bunch of sex while high and later found it to be difficult to fully enjoy the act otherwise. I'd strongly favor the avoidance of such a disappointing possibility.
However, a gentle artificial-buzz isn't completely without its merits every once in a while.
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I'm uninhibited enough sober! I'd hate to see what I'd be like drunk!
I rarely have sex drunk and I don't get high. If I need to get high to do something then I shouldn't be doing it.
"A dirty book is rarely dusty"
I don't need alcohol to turn me on.
The scent of sex does that for me.
We never use recreational drugs and if you need to get drunk before sex, then maybe it wasn't the right choice.
I've never really done drugs and the two times I've been really drunk was nothing I feel the need to repeat. I would say either of the experiences in your question would be not as enjoyable if one were under the influence of anything.
getting high to talk to people on Lush? that's the first time i'm hearing of it, i didn't know it was a prerequisite! i like sex most when i'm a bit tipsy, not drunk to the point that there would be a chance of not performing at all but not completely sober i either! sex is an art, and you need to get your inspiration going somehow! i find that a few glasses of whiskey or gin always get things started!
hell I cant talk right sober...let alone type drunk!
Not a drug user, but I do enjoy an occasional drink while hanging out here on Lush enjoying you wonderful people
Say no to drugs. And I'm kinky, flirty, crazy enough without alcohol. Right now, I'm drinking wine though lmaoo
Someone I talked to over several months admitted to having a few drinks before a sexual adventure and that caught me off guard as I've pretty much always stayed clean of everything. It occurred to me that being high was very likely a factor in this person's erratic behavior and in telling me things he later regretted.
Another person messaged me once when they were high, but that was much easier to spot.
Lots of excellent answers here echoing my feelings on the beauty of sober sex and conversation! Thank you all for chiming in.
well, that would explain a lot of behavior... no. i don't come online drunk or high. at the most i'm a bit bubbly from nothing stronger than a glass, or two, of moscato. being completely aware of what's going on allows me to enjoy the site fully.
A drink or two will definitely lower your inhibitions or make them go away so you do things you normally wouldn't ! But the pure eroticism of hot wild kinky sex keeps me bubbly and tingly like crazy ! Just being on lush tends to open you up to more daring sexy thoughts anyway ! Just give yourself a pinch if things get too wild or kinky this way nobody has to get their feelings hurt in any way ! As adults we all need the fun as a friend told me Lush is a great place to escape to and forget everyday stressful bullshit ! Enjoy it but don't ruin it ! Happy Cybering People !! Lol
I think 99% the the responses to this thread are lies.
Myself, In real life I enjoy sex sober.
As far as lush, I'd maybe stop by for some poetry, but not likely.
Sober I'd feel embarrassed and creepy.
Wouldn't you rather have a nice cup of tea?
I've had sex drunk.
I've had sex high.
I've had sex sober.
It's all sex, so it's all good.
But I've never used drink or drugs as a way to get laid, or to enjoy sex, and I've never avoided sex because I was drunk or high. To me, the two things aren't linked. One doesn't depend on the other.
Don't believe everything that you read.
I really like forums. I really like the lush forum.
But, it is so transparent when people formulate their answers to look good instead of being truthful.
be brave people, be wise. Truth is sexy and impressive. Bullshit is week.