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Should couples watch porn together?

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bill11
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If they enjoy the video, what is wrong with the activity??
BagOfHammers
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A girlfriend of mine proposed a game one evening. Put on a porn movie and sit next to each other naked. The first one that touched themselves had to deliver the sex act that the other one requested. We played the game many many times. Sometimes I won, and sometimes I lost and then won. smile
Shaman
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Depends on the people if they enjoy it sure
Dreamer90
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I don't watch a lot of porn on my own. However watching with someone else is so much more fun. I don't see anything wrong with watching porn with your partner. It can be erotic and inspiring and fun, so if you like it do it.
NaughtyG
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I think it can be hot watching it together.
bill11
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If they are both interested in the material!!
Guest
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that's tough....somethings are for sharing and somethings I enjoy alone
ChuckEPoo
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My personal life includes no porn. I have never found a woman that desires to watch it. When I was young it became addictive. Did not enhance sexual relations with my ex but it made her feel demeaned and less attractive. It is legal but the thought that it is a victimless addiction is ridiculous. Before anyone jumps on me for judging them, I am not advocating abstinence from porn for anyone but me.
Guest
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It can add a little spice if it's sexy, but not my first choice of things to do.
Langley
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I think it can be very exciting and spicy for both parties. So my answer is yes !!
Guest
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Yes! Nice prelude to sex
MrTimmy
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Hell Yes. My first girlfriend wouldn't let me perform oral on her until she saw how much the girls in the movies loved it. and once she tried it she couldn't get enough.
Guest
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Well as that I don't really like porn I would say no from a personal stand point. My husband and I do enjoy reading erotica together however, I have found that to be much more pleasing that the visual ever could be.
curious3045
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Hell yes.... Porn is awesome to watch with a partner
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ChuckEPoo
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Together would be better than solo. However much of the porn market portrays women in a demeaning manner. It is unfair to wives and girl friends to have to compete with select plastic women that are grinning while they have all kinds of things done to them.
honeydipped
The Bee's Knees
absolutely. it's not like you're going to finish it.

Say. Her. Name.
BarefootAngela
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Quote by honeydipped
absolutely. it's not like you're going to finish it.


This. My girlfriend and I watch a lot of online porn, but we've never seen how they end. Unless they're 3 minute clips, then we have a chance.
Guest
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Sure provided their tastes in porn coincide. Most guys, being visual in sensory orientation, prefer more explicit stuff than most women. (Not ALL but most)
Unknown User
Yes, my significant other and I enjoy it as part of foreplay, but you need to have something that both enjoy as suggested by Weavindreams
Couple4Play
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Sure. What the heck, right? I might even suggest inviting a friend. Get freaky and have some fun! ;)
EroticInfinity
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Absolutely! As long as both are into it and ya put on something that both would like it certainly could lead to lots of fun.. plus a great way to explore new ideas and perhaps let the other person know about something you want to try.
HotWife4U
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Quote by ChuckEPoo
Together would be better than solo. However much of the porn market portrays women in a demeaning manner. It is unfair to wives and girl friends to have to compete with select plastic women that are grinning while they have all kinds of things done to them.


Yup. Agree. Porn is demeaning of women. From what I've read, guys heavy into porn are not as active with the real thing. There are too many porn widows out there. It is personally not stimulating to me. I want my partner focused on me, not some surgery altered bimbo.
PervyStoryteller
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"Should" suggests that it's either right or wrong to do so. If both parties are happy to watch it together - why not? It beats watching the stuff alone.

As for the point about it being plastic - not all the stuff out there is like that. I'd agree that the obviously glossy stuff isn't much fun, but the great thing is that there's something out there for everyone.
Poppet
Cheeky Chick
It is not right or wrong to watch it one way or another. I don't mind watching porn once in a while. However, I'm really rather turned off by how fake so many of the female porn stars look like. Not to mention they often act so poorly, it's unbelievable. At least to me. I'm not sure if men care about that or not. You have this blonde big-busted fake woman who is so dark she looks like lather, who is moaning with all she has, just to sound fake and most of the time a pained expression on her face as if she is not enjoying what is being done to her at all. How is THAT sexy? Well, to me, it's NOT.
Guest
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Absofuckinlutley!
Guest
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We liked to fuck with the scenes!
bill11
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For sure if they enjoy it. Each to there own
Guest
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Abso-fucking-lutely!


It's the best way to learn what your partner is into.

I'll put on the dirtiest porn I can find... If she's into it, I know she's a keeper.
NOLAHotGal
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As long as both get some enjoyment from it. It did work well for us. Like going to a regular movie, sometimes he chooses them the next time she chooses. We usually have some playing during our swing group parties.

Brandie
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Yes. It should be another avenue for communication into a couples desires.