When you get a friend request do you accept all of them?
I specifically state that I don't accept random friend requests on my profile and say that I don't have cyber sex and I'm constantly hounded on both of these topics.
Do you answer the emails or do you just ignore? Please advise.
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I'm sure I get far fewer of those than you do. However, since my main interaction with the site is as an author, it does seem reasonable that some people will come to "know" me through my stories. If they then check out my profile, such as it is, and then send me a message that seems it was written for me, and not a form letter "let's be friends" copy-and-paste job, then I'm inclined to accept such.
I think I've gotten the occasional truly out of the blue, no message included friend request, and my memory is that I have deleted those.
As a guy I am sure I get far less unsolicited attention on the site than you and other women. And your avatar has a nice ass, to boot.
I've had rather a lot of random friend requests too. I am under instruction to delete them unless He approves them as one to one chat with anybody is inappropriate.
I have often said, "one has to know what they are dealing with on an adult media site." It doesn't paint a rosy picture. One ha to off kilter to post cock pictures. We all know what they look like. I'm here to write and not play childish BS games.
I used to have a photo of my wife as my profile avatar and constantly had requests from people who had obviously just looked at the picture and not read my profile. These ones I did gradually start to ignore and delete When I changed the picture to one of myself, the requests I got were from people who had read my profile and my stories.
I usually accept random friend/chat requests because I'm interested in chatting to new people
I accept random friend requests IF they send a message along with it or have chatted with me either in the forums or in the chat rooms. Beyond that, it's not difficult to remove someone as a friend later on, at least for me.
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When I first joined I almost always accepted all requests...that changed after too much BS. Now I am super selective...But I do at least check out the profiles. I don't usually deny the request unless I can tell by their profile that I have nothing in common with them, so I have pages and pages of requests that just sit there (just in case our paths cross in another way and I change my mind). Now if I get a message, I will at least respond but that doesn't mean I will be their friend, I just want to be polite. Random dick pics amuse me, and come off a too needy and desperate and definitely do not get a response. I do not specify on my profile either way, so I don't let it get to me.
When I get a f/r I always read the profile. But it mainly goes by what the request said its self. If it is one I am unsure of, I will read it to Milik first and get his opinion. But for the most part, if we have chatted, or it's not just a message of let's have sex, I will usually accept. But I am fair more careful now then I was when I first joined lush.
If you send me a blank request I will ignore it, a cock picture will diffently be deleted with out a second thought.
I am feeling left out. This member, Random, has not sent me any pictures of roosters.
My profile is explicit. It states I accept all friend requests. It doesn't say how long they would stay on my friends' list if they become obnoxious. I'm not a woman so I don't have as much of a problem with sexual come ons. Actually, I can't say I have ever really regretted accepting a friend request. I have deleted people for inactivity.
I do not accept all friend requests. If they are rude or crude, I ignore them - luckily, that has only happened twice since I have been on the site. If I do not know the person and think perhaps it is someone I knew under a different name, I will inquire.
On a different note, however, how many of you HAVE sent random friend requests? I have never done it - just curious.
if someone I've never come across before sends me a friend request I will definitely take a look at their profile. If they have a red avatar and don't write at all, unless I really like their bio I won't accept them. The profile thing really goes for anyone, so I'm fairly picky whom I become friends with. If I find out they are just collecting friends and don't interact with me i will usually delete them.
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