I never did like double-standards. I never did like younger friends, or men in the romantic sense, but I have some younger friends and some older friends and all types and ages. I am with a much younger man now and the gap is significant. We have a larger age gap than even the older men I ever dated, etc. Maybe society is changing where it is less uncommon (?) We think it is kinky and it turns us both on, but it really never was about the age to begin with. He thought I was far younger. It is not about the age for me or for him, it is about the "person." We relate better than anyone my age or older has with me and I find his sex drive to match my high sex drive and so we are both happy rabbits! We share many things in common, some fundemental and some side interests, but it is the connection and the chemistry and the overall inside person for me... NOT age.
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My GF is 7 years older than me and i have no problem with it.
The Bee's Knees
i would prefer an age gap of no more than 5 years, junior or senior. HOWEVER, as we all know there are exceptions to the rules.
Say. Her. Name.
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Age is relevant.
I have no problem with a large age gap but when that age gap is the sole turn on in the relationship I find it a bit strange. Another weird thing about age is that unless you are very careful it can create a huge power imbalance which is very unhealthy.
Personally I'd stick to less than seven to five years just in terms of having similar life goals and such.
I have no problem with a large age gap but when that age gap is the sole turn on in the relationship I find it a bit strange. Another weird thing about age is that unless you are very careful it can create a huge power imbalance which is very unhealthy.
Personally I'd stick to less than seven to five years just in terms of having similar life goals and such.
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I have been with older men and younger men also. There is much to be said for both.
I have no problem with either, but I do prefer a guy a bit older. I have been requested to be a Tutor to the son of one or two of my gentlemen friends.
That can be very rewarding for both student and teacher
I have no problem with either, but I do prefer a guy a bit older. I have been requested to be a Tutor to the son of one or two of my gentlemen friends.
That can be very rewarding for both student and teacher
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I would say age doesnt matter if you are both on the same level and have a connection. People may be judgmental of you but there are no rules to life, you can do anything that makes you happy as long as its in the law now days.
However I think a lot of people see age as a barrier, I'm 25 and I work with people as young as 16 and the people between 16-19 will talk to me quite happily until they realize I'm 6-9 years older than them, they will suddenly lose interest.
However I think a lot of people see age as a barrier, I'm 25 and I work with people as young as 16 and the people between 16-19 will talk to me quite happily until they realize I'm 6-9 years older than them, they will suddenly lose interest.
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It's not the age its the person. Some people are old at 20 some are young at 60. My preference is for older guys. I know i'm generalising but the older guys have been more fun and interesting and know how to enjoy themselves more.
Advanced Wordsmith
Twice my age sets me on fire.
Chuckanator
Mine and my GF is huge. I'm 50 shes 21. But it is compensated because she is more mature than I am. I am still struggling with the question, what do you want to be when you grow up?
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Of course it depends on the person...but generally, I find age gaps a big turn on..my Dom is 21 years older than me (but looks 10-15 years younger than what he is lol)...but still very hot, knowing he looks so good for his age and all his experience..yum
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An older woman taught me how to pleasure a woman and have enjoyed younger ones it is all a matter of heart
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Age is just a number. So what if your partner is 5, 10, 15, 20 years older than you. It's all about the connection. :-)
I totally agree!
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There are 2 ages. Physical and mental.
I don't care about anything except the "Mental" age. If her mind is an adult then she fits not my sexual world. I control that too, not my ego.
I'm 72 so MILF is out though at 25 she was 50 and it went on for a year. I'd have married her but she was smarter than me. My wife is 5 years older than me and had 4 kids when I married her. I still adore her and all the kids, they're mine.
I have 2 daughters in their 50's and 2 in their late 30's, and a grand daughter that's 34 with 7 others down to age 6.
I tend to shy away from any that look like teenagers because most do not have the maturity to make good decisions about what they want. I do know a couple that are at 17 more mature than many of the 35 plus I know. They were both very sick for several years and saved their own lives by taking charge because their mothers were flakes.
I could live with either and see her as an adult because they are. I would marry them but in 10 years I'll be 82, in a wheel chair and needing care and I WOULD NOT allow that to happen to either of them. I'm not much into casual sex either so one night stands and affairs are out too. Mostly, but right now my wife still knows who I am so I won't, maybe later and the way it's going that won't be long.
I have a hard time with dominance, I do not like to hurt anyone. I've been approached, because of my name here I guess, but mostly I can not do what they want. They're looking for "Daddy" and want a master and I can't do that. Care, kindness, love, all that is what I'm after.
I am what I write in my stories.
I don't care about anything except the "Mental" age. If her mind is an adult then she fits not my sexual world. I control that too, not my ego.
I'm 72 so MILF is out though at 25 she was 50 and it went on for a year. I'd have married her but she was smarter than me. My wife is 5 years older than me and had 4 kids when I married her. I still adore her and all the kids, they're mine.
I have 2 daughters in their 50's and 2 in their late 30's, and a grand daughter that's 34 with 7 others down to age 6.
I tend to shy away from any that look like teenagers because most do not have the maturity to make good decisions about what they want. I do know a couple that are at 17 more mature than many of the 35 plus I know. They were both very sick for several years and saved their own lives by taking charge because their mothers were flakes.
I could live with either and see her as an adult because they are. I would marry them but in 10 years I'll be 82, in a wheel chair and needing care and I WOULD NOT allow that to happen to either of them. I'm not much into casual sex either so one night stands and affairs are out too. Mostly, but right now my wife still knows who I am so I won't, maybe later and the way it's going that won't be long.
I have a hard time with dominance, I do not like to hurt anyone. I've been approached, because of my name here I guess, but mostly I can not do what they want. They're looking for "Daddy" and want a master and I can't do that. Care, kindness, love, all that is what I'm after.
I am what I write in my stories.
I am always a gentleman.
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I am still struggling with the question, what do you want to be when you grow up?
Me too, and I'm older than you. 
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Quote by sarahxbunny
Not at all. I prefer older men, much older. So I prefer a big age gap to a small one.
So someone like me, who is in his fifties, is fair game?
When it comes to age gaps I like to think of it more in terms of maturity levels. You see, where I am at in my life and my maturity level is not that of a 22 year old. So I tend to gravitate toward people older than I am. And as to the question of do I find it sexy? Well the added experience is nice, but then again so are guys my own age who are just super eager.
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I think age is immaterial. It is the personality that matters. I have lots of female friends, young and old and can find any woman of (almost) any age attractive in a variety of ways.
It's not age, it's connection...of course, that's easy for me to say since I'm an "old guy" and a majority of the ladies here on LUSH are younger than me. That said, I want some connection...Friends with Benefits is great, but "friends" is important...I don't just want an hour in the sack with some cute younger (or same age) beauty (which is in the eye of the beholder, btw) and then walk away without so much as a "hope to see you again soon."
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