Love being a sub but I can be a Dom when the situation is right so I guess I am a switch but definitely prefer sub.
i am a fully functional MtoF transsexual. i am fully top but have been known to go bottom for a special person.
If I had to pick I'd say bottom x
i am a owned/collared/slave and wife to MasterSingletail
Submissive who tests her limits
Do you have to sub or dom or switch? Just go with the flow and enjoy it
I can't imagine being anything but a Dom.
Well im still learning but have always been told im a natural submissive. I do enjoy pleasing and doing things for people and i just like being submissive. Hehe
I am a natural sub. When I found out about D/s relationships, which was late in life when I found Lush, I looked back at my life and recalled the first sign that I remember being fully sub which was when I was 19. I probably had been sub from earlier.
Now, though I am sub, I Dom for my Master at times. With love, anything is possible.
I am without a doubt - a natural Dom. Everything in my life has shaped this. I am also very secure in my own self - and have no issues with my sexuality. I am bi - and love that too! I also switch roles at times with my woman - and love the freedom and peace being so open, affords. Dom/sub that flipped coin is always floating in the air for me. All potentials always realized.
Love isn't one-dimensional - it's more like a four-dimensional thing - extending outside of our understanding and perception of reality.
At our best, we are all beautiful. No limits to our love.
I've never felt more myself than once I discovered how natural it is to feel submissive with the right man. It's effortless pleasure and I can't imagine being a Domme. Not that I couldn't be rough I suppose. But all in a baby girl kind of way.
Diffidently a sub, Most diffidently Milik's baby girl. But don't mind playing the Dommie when we are in the mood.
Certainly curious. About both - being Dom or sub, with women or men. Visited two pro Dommes in my life and loved both experiences. I think the submissive role is the more interesting role. It's wonderful to please someone else.
Sub/ Bottom.... I think ;)
Definitely a dom/top but I do enjoy have a girl ride the fuck out of me once in a while.
a most complicated person, I take pleasure in aspects of both. Definitely not a submissive though, more dominating, and controlling
I have been into the BDSM scene for over 36 years. I am very straight and very much a Dom. Sounds like you may be what we refer to as a switch. With some people you are submissive, like the lady you called Mistress right away and had a desire to please her. You may find others that you want to control like you mentioned earlier in the beginning of your post.
Brandie (NOLAHotGal) my Bi wife / sub is very submissive to me and others with in our private swing group. I also have lent her out to other Doms, which is very erotic. She has a Dom Mistress side toward some women and a couple men. This is something that has developer in the last few years.
Nawty
A natural sub who can switch on special request lol
I honestly cannot imagine being a submissive, in any way. I've always been a Dominant personality when it comes to sexuality.
i am a top/dom but with the right woman i can sub.